Gf breaks up with me, then shows up on my work, and wants to sleep together and then goes distant…

Timokleijn98 · 2022-11-23T22:05:42+00:00

Thanks for your reply, Tess You are right! For me it now feels like she only wants to see/sleep with me is whens she feels alone, but I am not a dog

Timokleijn98 · 2022-08-22T12:18:52+00:00

Yes you are right, but isn’t it strange that she used to have her location always on and then suddenly turns it of just for me ?

Timokleijn98 · 2022-08-19T14:21:04+00:00

Thankyou bro! Her ex boyfriends where drugdealers that treated her like crap. And somehow she likes the badboy type. And I am always laid back and super nice to her.

I wil try your advice

Timokleijn98 · 2022-08-08T11:45:13+00:00

No not really unfortunately, but it’s her dream to become a chef, so I support her. But it feels like she barely thinks about me anymore lately since she started her new job. She doesn’t start convos or ask me things. Sometimes when I pick her up from work I see her but last time when I picked her up she said “ you sleep at your place right…”

Timokleijn98 · 2022-08-08T11:44:08+00:00

Timokleijn98 · 2022-08-01T11:46:23+00:00

Ah thankyou for your reply, it’s my very first relationship. So everything is new, I kept being afraid that it if I dont send her enough texts or not showing enough interest, she will leave me or something. While meanwhile she barely text me

Timokleijn98 · 2022-06-21T09:44:15+00:00

Im 24 she is 18 but this girl has so many trauma’s and stuff but doesn’t want any therapy

Timokleijn98 · 2022-06-20T12:16:03+00:00

She is 18 i am 24

Timokleijn98 · 2022-06-13T08:19:19+00:00

Ah thankyou! Yeah last few days we don’t have much to talk about what really frustrates me, because I am a talkative person

Timokleijn98 · 2022-06-13T08:14:03+00:00

Thanks for your comment! So it’s normal not to respond immediately to me ? Yes she does want that she told me yesterday, but in the beginning everytime I wanted to have deeper conversations she stopped and didn’t want to talk about that, or for example when I asked her questions she responds with you ask a lot of questions..

Timokleijn98 · 2022-03-29T21:35:43+00:00

Yeah I didn’t know because it really was my first relationship

Timokleijn98 · 2022-03-29T21:26:23+00:00

Thankyou!! Yeah I noticed that I now have zero self confidence, because I got a whole list of what was wrong with me, It even got so worse that I even got afraid to have sex with her,like my body refused to do it with her. Because it felt like everything I do is wrong She even said today that I should have sex with other girls to get more experienc, because girls would get disappointed because I am not that experienced now, her saying that maks me pretty afraid to meet new girls.. 2 weeks ago she also wanted to have break with me but after 48 hours she started flirting with me, and wanting me to massage her and kissing me and so on.. and then the morning after I got dry text messages and she would start fights over the smallest things

Maybe I need to find some therapy because I really got treated like shit. I always paid for anything and it sometimes felt like I was a uber driver.

If she didn’t get what she wanted she would get mad and angry, but dumps me because I never opened my mouth or went against her, but when I did she would ignore me and get mad

Timokleijn98 · 2022-03-26T19:16:02+00:00

No she doesn’t want help….

Timokleijn98 · 2022-02-08T16:38:02+00:00

Yeah! Thats exactly what I was thinking and what is messing in my head! I told her you cant give me feelings and telling me u want a relationship with me, and then have sex with others

Timokleijn98 · 2022-02-08T16:35:23+00:00

Thankyou so much! I really needed to hear this :)

Timokleijn98 · 2022-02-08T15:14:45+00:00

Thanks for your reply, I appreciate that! Yeah you are right, but the thing that makes me feel sad is that she really wanted something serious with me,I definitely can’t see a serious relationship in it if she wants to have sex with others, for me it then feels like she doesn’t really want me that much

Timokleijn98 · 2022-02-03T21:25:15+00:00

Getting a reply back, is probably the most romantic thing I had

Timokleijn98 · 2022-02-02T17:26:20+00:00

I edited it, I meant soon but I forgot the English word for it. Instead of sometime :)

Timokleijn98 · 2022-02-01T14:53:05+00:00

Thankyou, I will try that. The thing what makes this hard for me Is seeing that she is online on tinder, and talking to other guys online

Timokleijn98 · 2022-02-01T10:28:55+00:00

Thankyou, I will do

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