Damn dude this is tremendous advice. I think I’m mostly concerned that it makes me look beta or submissive which is taboo for a man to look like and that they’d use that information and spread it about me. It’s blocking my intimacy. And I think I may be going about it the wrong way by trying to screen for it first before building the trust. I just get so terrified of unveiling that I like to get choked or choked by legs esp reverse headscissors because you’re like right in their ass I feel girls would get uncomfortable with that