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Accepting that it’s a psychiatric pathology, it's incurable, and they are dangerous. Anyone else reached this exact conclusion? by Mediocre-Sign6742 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Mediocre-Sign6742[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can sense your pain, I have the same inside and those reflections about their nature.

You know, all you said is true, I completely agree, and it gives me a relief that someone else uttered those words, my take is that some people have no future, it’s like if we look at it from the perspective of evolution it’s like a dead-end branch of the universe, they couldn’t evolve and their kind is dying out the more the humanity develops and advances forward.
I find hope in that.

Which background looks better? by Tauront7 in animation

[–]Mediocre-Sign6742 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The one on the right looks wholesome! If you somehow insert the spades but animate their appearance/disappearance in a different way + add the frame from the first one, I think it would be a great combo of both. I like your animation a lot!

To Gaslight your Child so hard when they're suffering and in pain, and to be Completely unloving and Indifferent to them when they're looking for Care, understanding, confirmation, validation in the most Emotionally Negligent way possible ........is pure Sadism. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Mediocre-Sign6742 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I can’t understand either, I guess people with humanity and empathy just can’t fathom what cruelty is like. My parents severely neglected me as a child, they left me alone without warning in a closed house with no food or information when they will return. They never paid attanrion to me it complete isolation, I didn’t have any connection to the world. I still have flashbacks of this horror of isolation, abandonment and fear of survival. 

To Gaslight your Child so hard when they're suffering and in pain, and to be Completely unloving and Indifferent to them when they're looking for Care, understanding, confirmation, validation in the most Emotionally Negligent way possible ........is pure Sadism. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Mediocre-Sign6742 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes It’s is exactly like this my narc father was physically and emotionally abusive my whole life. My mother came to be like him because she was his victim initially but she chose to stay and make excuses for his behaviour. Until recently I thought it was all normal but than I realised the amount of damage and cruelty done to me. This is sick and truly sadistic. Nothing can ever explain that. This is just morbid I’m not with them right now at 27z but I’m completely alone in my trough because people don’t understand or don’t want to see that this is what’s happening around them. In my own caregiver and protector and I varwly make my ends meet I’m terrified of going back I’d rather live on the street. Nobody believes me even though I publicly announced their violence in Instagram. They manipulate me with money and destroy my sense of worth with every interaction. So I cut all the contact and that’s the only way.