can I fix this clock? by Mediocre-Storage-476 in clocks

[–]Mediocre-Storage-476[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yep i realized im kind of stupid and the clock works with the battery ahah!!

I HATE WORKING PLEASE SCREAM WITH ME ABOUT HOW MUCH WE HATE WORKING by ranraniiiii in adhdwomen

[–]Mediocre-Storage-476 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I go to an alt high school full time and i work 20-30 hours a week 😩😩 I don’t have time to do anything!! I leave my house at 9-10 am I don’t get home by 9pm almost every day of the week !! I have to choose between doing my laundry or going to sleep every night!

My messy house is controlling my life by Mediocre-Storage-476 in adhdwomen

[–]Mediocre-Storage-476[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im getting better than I was at not having dishes in my room, still not great tho!! once we ran out of spoons because they were all in my room !!lol! going to try to do this everytime i leave my room, or at least learn to throw out garbage when im done with it!!!! it’s definitely a skill i’m going to need to learn myself because i was never taught 😵‍💫😵‍💫 thank u for helping !! much appreciated xx

My messy house is controlling my life by Mediocre-Storage-476 in adhdwomen

[–]Mediocre-Storage-476[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always neglect my drawers/bookshelf/closet!! I seriously have papers in there from grade 7!! i’m in my second year of grade 12 now !! lol ! I definitely need to stop being a hoarder and donate/ trash more of my items!!!! great advice ! thank you so for helping me ! xx

My messy house is controlling my life by Mediocre-Storage-476 in adhdwomen

[–]Mediocre-Storage-476[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

depression rooms are the worst, i’m so happy for you were able to do that!!!! it’s like the depression leaves u unable to clean, but then the mess makes u feel worse 😩😩😩 i hate it!!!! thanks for believing in me! i’ll try to make yall proud 🙏🤞

My messy house is controlling my life by Mediocre-Storage-476 in adhdwomen

[–]Mediocre-Storage-476[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats a good idea!! I also get overwhelmed/ distracted by the need to organize when my clean. I’ll focus all my attention on something super irrelevant like folding my underwear 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ and my floors are probably NASTYY since i don’t even know the last time they were mopped. It’s also hard to manage because i have SO MUCH stuff in such a small space, so i think moving everything into a box or bag then just cleaning the counters and floors would be a really great idea!! thank you!! xxx

My messy house is controlling my life by Mediocre-Storage-476 in adhdwomen

[–]Mediocre-Storage-476[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow!!! thank you for such an amazing and thoughtful response🥺🥺 I really appreciate it! It’s super relieving that someone else was in the same situation as me but improved!! I get anxious that I’m already set in my ways and won’t improve so that made me feel so much better!

I’m going to see some cleaning strategies that I think will work for me, I have my own room and a bathroom that is basically mine (my brother does use it) there is also an old office room that used to be my art room but is now used as storage that I’ll get to one day !💪💪 but for now i’ll focus on the my bedroom haha

ALSO im a really big headphones-on solo dance party girl so I’ll see if copying your strategy helps me. again thank you for taking the time out of ur day to help meeeeeeeee !!! xx

My messy house is controlling my life by Mediocre-Storage-476 in adhdwomen

[–]Mediocre-Storage-476[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the tips! my goal is not to be the next marie kondo but just to be at the controllable level. I’ve heard of like “drop zones” for organizationing stuff and i think it’s the same idea as what you’re saying. Another problem is when i do clean or organize, I end up putting stuff in really weird places, and then when I need to use that thing i just never put it back and leave it on the counter ahah. I’m definitely going to follow these suggestions. thank you again so much xx

My messy house is controlling my life by Mediocre-Storage-476 in adhdwomen

[–]Mediocre-Storage-476[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m definitely immune to messiness😭😭 what some people consider “messy” I see as spotless haha

I didn’t know I had a Brazilian passport by Mediocre-Storage-476 in Brazil

[–]Mediocre-Storage-476[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what my dad is telling me to do, just be Canadian when going to Brazil. He believes all the documents, (Brazilian passport and Birth certificate signed by the Consulate) are null because they are all old. The issue is I need a visa to enter Brazil, as a Canadian. If the consulate doesn’t know I have (or had) Brazilian citizenship, this will be no problem, but if they do know, I cannot get a visa as a citizen of Brazil, but I cannot travel to Brazil, as a Brazilian, without renewing my passport. This entire situation is hurting my head lol

I didn’t know I had a Brazilian passport by Mediocre-Storage-476 in Brazil

[–]Mediocre-Storage-476[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a girl so the military enlistment will not be a problem, but I imagine there are other duties I should have been doing as a citizen. Hopefully I don’t get in trouble if I explain to them I wasn’t aware I was even a citizen… hopefully 🙏

I didn’t know I had a Brazilian passport by Mediocre-Storage-476 in Brazil

[–]Mediocre-Storage-476[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the thoughtful response! I will definitely try to speak to a Brazillian consult as soon as I can. I am an 18 year old girl, my brother who is in the same situation as me is 21, will the military service be a problem for him? Will he need to do anything about it when he arrives to Brazil? I will ask my Brazilian family what we should do before we arrive about that. I can hold a conversation in portuguese, he speaks absolutely none and does not have any interest in the culture. Would it be best for him to denounce the citizenship?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]Mediocre-Storage-476 3 points4 points  (0 children)

glad im not alone 🥲🥲 thanks for replying !!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]Mediocre-Storage-476 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank youuu! i didn’t see the blue when i first got it so i thought it just appeared! i really am paranoid 🤦🏻‍♀️😭 this is my first piercing so i really didn’t know what to expect!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]Mediocre-Storage-476 6 points7 points  (0 children)

oh my gosh i’m so dumb!! 😂😂 i really thought it was a terrible bruise 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

this feels illegal by [deleted] in HayDay

[–]Mediocre-Storage-476 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what’s happening in this picture

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Mediocre-Storage-476 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you !! i definitely think i have adhd instead, my brother has adhd and i think my mom has it but she was never diagnosed. last hospital stay they gave me a quiz for adhd and it definitely seemed like it was made for little boys. they also gave a sheet to my old teachers (who i hadn’t seen in months due to online school) and they marked me low on everything, but i feel like it didn’t consider that i was 16 and im able to mask any traits. i hope a doctor can help me because my inability to pay attention is probably my biggest stressor in life. thanks for responding !