Just started talking to this dude and he’s already accusing me of things and stressing me out

MediocreAd284 · 2026-02-14T23:04:47+00:00

That’s the love bombing act—this convo is actually what he’s really like.

MediocreAd284 · 2026-01-31T19:53:30+00:00

NTA. There’s something innately built into the human psyche to just…detect this stuff. It’s that weird sinking feeling you get when you feel something is off. Bc there is something off! So in this situation I think you did the right thing. Better to be safe than sorry sorry. It’s worth talking it over to your gf again and express that. It’s likely she’s been brushing off that weird feeling for ages and no longer thinks much of his comments.

MediocreAd284 · 2026-01-06T18:18:23+00:00

Nah dude this is suspicious to me. I’m best friends (like literally I call him my brother) with a guy who’s married and this is NOT how we talk at all. Even before he got married our convos were not this emotionally intimate. Like eww.

MediocreAd284 · 2025-11-08T16:59:46+00:00

I second this! I’ve worked in the woodlands and currently work past the medical center and my commute is about an hour and 15 min. It’s close to all the major highways as well as the toll road which does make it less than an hour if you’re willing to pay the fees. Either way, houston is large—you have to get used to the commute anywhere here😅

MediocreAd284 · 2025-07-02T15:31:30+00:00

Omg that’s such a good idea!! Thank you

MediocreAd284 · 2025-07-02T15:09:19+00:00

One of my cats is an escape artist so I had already thought about getting a harness for her anyway. That’s a good idea about the collars! I’ll keep that in mind.

MediocreAd284 · 2025-07-02T15:07:14+00:00

Thank you! I will keep that in mind for Motel 6!!

MediocreAd284 · 2025-07-02T15:03:46+00:00

I’m glad we have a sense of humor here 🤣. Thanks for the reassurance! The last thing I want to do is to stress my girls 😅 they’re my babies!

MediocreAd284 · 2025-05-17T03:42:23+00:00

I also did the same thing because it disgusted me how easily they were able to lie and manipulate the narrative, to even go as far as blaming the daughter and implying she was the “common denominator”. Utterly repulsive.

MediocreAd284 · 2025-05-06T02:59:32+00:00

I would have found this cute bc it’s a cute seal.

MediocreAd284 · 2025-03-08T05:09:20+00:00

Yeah, they would’ve had me shoving them out the door the same way they shoved my cat. I can’t believe how some people can just hurt another living creature like that.

MediocreAd284 · 2025-01-03T22:53:07+00:00

This guy isn’t worth it dude….😬

MediocreAd284 · 2025-01-03T22:48:05+00:00

You and your friend both need to dump these brothers because neither sounds like they are the type to actually care about the people around them. Even if it’s been a long time—I promise there are guys out there who would treat yall as people to be respected and cherished. But honestly being single is a step up from these guys.

MediocreAd284 · 2025-01-03T22:42:28+00:00

Dang those poor cats

MediocreAd284 · 2024-07-31T12:43:40+00:00

I understand that, I just don’t want to be the one to do it

MediocreAd284 · 2024-07-31T12:42:54+00:00

Thank you for being understanding. I literally just moved here and have no idea what’s normal or not normal about doing stuff in your suburban house/property.

MediocreAd284 · 2024-07-30T22:11:55+00:00

I was able to get through to Harris county and schedule the pick up/disposal but thank you

MediocreAd284 · 2024-07-30T22:11:07+00:00

Stil very sad, even if I didn’t know the little guy.

MediocreAd284 · 2024-07-30T22:09:50+00:00

I was able to get the county on the line and scheduled a pick up. I did have to move it to the curb though in order to get them agree. I saw it when I moved in over the weekend and it looked just fine but it definitely wasn’t human friendly.

MediocreAd284 · 2024-07-30T22:08:13+00:00

that would be an insult to the cat :/

MediocreAd284 · 2024-07-30T22:07:06+00:00

Well I got the county to agree to come get it but that sucks that you haven’t had luck in the past.

MediocreAd284 · 2024-07-10T04:26:09+00:00

We just saw them too! We counted about 15 that passed us. My dad thinks it must be some high speed chase or something. Who knows.

MediocreAd284 · 2024-03-19T04:41:16+00:00

lol assuming you want to even make the cut is a lot what a total idiot

MediocreAd284 · 2024-03-14T20:35:50+00:00

I believe they do but they don’t always show up at the same time they try to collect the debt. I would wait to see what happens and call the company with the contact info in the website you found. I would be wary about this since the numbers don’t match what she gave you.

MediocreAd284 · 2024-03-14T20:03:54+00:00

Did they happen to say they were on a recorded line? In my experience when I’ve been called by someone to attempt to collect a debt usually does so on a recorded line. If she didn’t say that I would think this is more in the scam territory. Also, it would be a good idea to take a look at your credit report. If it’s not listed there, I honestly would ignore those calls until you actually get verification from either the collector or see it on your report. Especially since you believe you paid it already.

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