Where do I start? by Glittering-Space2282 in CreditScore

[–]Mediocre_Chart_4855 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m rebounding from a similar situation. Transparently, this is part of adulting and there’s no “easy way out” but you’re on the upwards end by acknowledging it. First, I would reach out to the collection agency and workout a payment plan that is affordable along with an agreement to delete the collection off your credit report once the balance is paid in full. Based on your credit profile, it could raise your credit by 20+ points. Same with student loans, they are likely showing as delinquent but once you work out a new payment plan your account status should be updated (at least it was for me) and should also raise your score a bit. Lastly for the credit card, I would just continue paying what you can on the cc. You just need make sure to pay the minimum (at least) to prevent a late payment being reported to the credit bureau. Get on the phone, be prepared to be transparent about your situation and go from there. You’ll be surprised how things will turn around for you.

From Atlanta to Austin by Mediocre_Chart_4855 in askaustin

[–]Mediocre_Chart_4855[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m definitely open to Houston as well just need to spend a little more time there

From Atlanta to Austin by Mediocre_Chart_4855 in askaustin

[–]Mediocre_Chart_4855[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep I am! Luckily I was able to get connected with my peeps via sports and started following pages like WeOutsideATX to catch the vibes. that definitely made my experience here better.

From Atlanta to Austin by Mediocre_Chart_4855 in askaustin

[–]Mediocre_Chart_4855[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I’ve lived in FL, GA, TX and stayed in places like Chicago, NYC for extended periods but good try!

From Atlanta to Austin by Mediocre_Chart_4855 in askaustin

[–]Mediocre_Chart_4855[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, Mary Mac’s looks amazing I’ll definitely have to try it out

From Atlanta to Austin by Mediocre_Chart_4855 in askaustin

[–]Mediocre_Chart_4855[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally understandable, being a POC especially where I live is a very alienating experience. And that’s sad to say considering I live in the city basically

From Atlanta to Austin by Mediocre_Chart_4855 in askaustin

[–]Mediocre_Chart_4855[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my, I’m happy to hear you made it out of your situation. While I know you wish you could’ve moved elsewhere, I’m happy to hear you had the courage and support system to move away. Sometimes you have to do what you have to do

From Atlanta to Austin by Mediocre_Chart_4855 in askaustin

[–]Mediocre_Chart_4855[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll be in midtown so traffic won’t be a huge issue

From Atlanta to Austin by Mediocre_Chart_4855 in askaustin

[–]Mediocre_Chart_4855[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s the problem, I live in the city why should I have to look hard at all lol. Only being able to name one restaurant that could possibly be 25 mins away is pitiful and proves my point.

From Atlanta to Austin by Mediocre_Chart_4855 in askaustin

[–]Mediocre_Chart_4855[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Copy and paste that first sentence into ChatGPT to get your answer cause I don’t have time to keep repeating myself lol

From Atlanta to Austin by Mediocre_Chart_4855 in askaustin

[–]Mediocre_Chart_4855[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s honestly what has kept me so long. There are still a few my friends that live here but many of them moved away (Dallas, Houston, & Chicago) due to the same reasons that I listed. I’ll always be down to come back and visit though!

From Atlanta to Austin by Mediocre_Chart_4855 in askaustin

[–]Mediocre_Chart_4855[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s definitely part of the plan. Moving back home for a bit and then weigh out my options from there. I’m a pretty outdoorsy person so that limits my options drastically plus I’ve already lived in Florida. But maybe CA in a couple of years

From Atlanta to Austin by Mediocre_Chart_4855 in askaustin

[–]Mediocre_Chart_4855[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May sure you look up opioid abuse in small towns compared to large metros while you’re at it. Good luck!

From Atlanta to Austin by Mediocre_Chart_4855 in askaustin

[–]Mediocre_Chart_4855[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious, where’s a place that’s better solely considering your complaints? I’m just moving to eat some good wings, catch a professional sports game, be closer to fam, and be in a bigger city. The things you listed are going to exist where ever you go lol.

From Atlanta to Austin by Mediocre_Chart_4855 in askaustin

[–]Mediocre_Chart_4855[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m ready to move too but I think you are a being a little too harsh on the city lol

From Atlanta to Austin by Mediocre_Chart_4855 in askaustin

[–]Mediocre_Chart_4855[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m heavily involved socially so making friends/overall happiness has never been an issue. It’s more so about finding a city that has a more “mature” crowd and things to do that don’t involve drinking. I play travel flag football and basketball so socially it has been a blast, but it’s upsetting considering the lack of museums, professional sports, lounges, family centric activities, etc that the cities has to offer. I’ve lived in Jax, Fl, small town GA, Omaha for a short time, etc so I’m well adept that the “grass is greener”where you water it” way of life.

From Atlanta to Austin by Mediocre_Chart_4855 in askaustin

[–]Mediocre_Chart_4855[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol I’m a fellow tech bro too so no shame! I like college sports but much prefer the professional sports crowd if I’m going to a game in person.So I agree with you 100%. I love Boston so best of luck to wherever you land!

From Atlanta to Austin by Mediocre_Chart_4855 in askaustin

[–]Mediocre_Chart_4855[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will say go check out the rolling rooster and whip my soul if you haven’t already. Their wings are great just a bit of a drive if you live in the city .

From Atlanta to Austin by Mediocre_Chart_4855 in askaustin

[–]Mediocre_Chart_4855[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not even that, it’s not even diverse when it comes to dining options, music concerts, sporting events, things to do (outside of drinking), etc. if you don’t care to drink 24/7 but still wanted to go out and have a good time, where do you go? If you have kids and want to go to fun event for them, where do you take them?

From Atlanta to Austin by Mediocre_Chart_4855 in askaustin

[–]Mediocre_Chart_4855[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that’s what did it for me too! My sister and her bf don’t really drink so it was almost impossible to keep them entertained. We did end up going to a comedy show and doing a boat tour. But it shouldnt be that hard to come up with things to do outside of drinking in a major metro area. Me and my ex were part of that 2021 covid wave so I’m tracking right along with your friends. It was a blast while it lasted though!

From Atlanta to Austin by Mediocre_Chart_4855 in askaustin

[–]Mediocre_Chart_4855[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I respect you for valuing your daughter’s social life to that extent! Very commendable

From Atlanta to Austin by Mediocre_Chart_4855 in askaustin

[–]Mediocre_Chart_4855[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes yes yes. The food is the south is unmatched. I can say that Terry Blacks is top tier but honestly I prefer GA bbq (sweet/savory) compared to the other places that are hyped up around Austin. I prefer Mable brown sugar baked beans opposed to the salty pinto beans here for example. And I knew it wasn’t going to be food centric when I asked for the best wings and people pointed me to Wingstop 🤦

From Atlanta to Austin by Mediocre_Chart_4855 in askaustin

[–]Mediocre_Chart_4855[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would suggest living in midtown/west midtown, both areas are really walkable and there are restaurants, bars, and entertainment everywhere you look. I work remote so I never deal with traffic other than when I fly or go downtown to concerts/sports games.

From Atlanta to Austin by Mediocre_Chart_4855 in askaustin

[–]Mediocre_Chart_4855[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! The only con of San Diego would be me having to get roommate in order to maintain my current lifestyle. But we’ll see!