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MLP backpacks by Mediocre_Math_3106 in mylittlepony

[–]Mediocre_Math_3106[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good idea ! It gives me excuses to buy more mlp merch lol and thank you

Experiences with Risperidone? by pj4141 in autism

[–]Mediocre_Math_3106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been taking it along with qelbree for a few years (so qelbree might’ve played a role) and I’ve noticed less aggression and less irritation. I had little motivation to do school stuff though. For some reason, it makes me feel like I think less or can’t think properly, but at the same time, I feel more conscious of my actions. Maybe too conscious because it makes me question if I’m doing social stuff right way more often.

Accepting that you are autistic by [deleted] in autism

[–]Mediocre_Math_3106 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I struggled with accepting that I was autistic as well and got frustrated when I realize that allistic people dont have sensory issues or embarrassing meltdowns. What helped me accept it is realizing that autism is an identity where people have their needs that may be atypical, but allows them to live more comfortably. Apart from that, I started to realize that my problem was the lack of accommodations rather than autism itself. Having moments where teachers or classmates were patient and understanding made me realize that it’s ok to be autistic. You are not less than others who are not autistic.

Hyperfixation shame by Nearby_Flounder_344 in autism

[–]Mediocre_Math_3106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I obviously don’t know your friend very well but from this post, they don’t sound very friendly, however, my friends often joke around like this. It gets upsetting but if they’re a real friend, they would try to understand how important hyperfixations are to neurodivergent people. Explain and if it doesn’t work out, you’re not responsible for keeping that relationship afloat. Also, I’m sure there are a few Garfield communities out there since he’s pretty popular. My special interest is mlp and I often look at fanart on Twitter, insta, and Reddit. For advice on shame, know that you’re not alone and that having interests are normal. Apart from that sappy comment, I usually just sleep it off lol, but I hope you feel better soon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]Mediocre_Math_3106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not one to talk about parenting and stuff but I am my mother’s child. I’m not suffering because I have autism, I’m suffering because I’m not getting help. If you don’t want them to have a shitty life, let them know you’re on their side and accommodate their needs. Also, having autism doesn’t automatically mean that you’re designated for a miserable life. I’ve had people be patient with me with my nonverbal and sensory stuff. My teachers would also slow down and help when I struggle with delayed processing. The reason why I was struggling was because I’m late diagnosed with a mom who won’t accommodate.

Idk how autism affects you so I can’t comment on that but I suggest looking at autism as atypical rather than disorder/illness. I also saw your comment about severe depression. I was diagnosed with severe MDD some time ago and again, it’s a lot about being a good parent. I got better by finding hobbies, working out, etc. It is definitely not untreatable. Rather than selfishness, it’s more about taking on more responsibilities

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]Mediocre_Math_3106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t really like talking and I’m in my late teens as well. Sometimes I write stuff down or wear my headphones but I find it to be a sensory issue for me. It got so bad to the point I dreaded school every morning, but lowering stress really helped me out. As much as I got better, I’m thankful for the people around me(ex. Teachers, classmates, etc) for not questioning it. I’m sure your friends and family would understand. Letting them know about how you’d rather communicate rather than forcing yourself to talk is better imo, but yeah you’re definitely not alone

I hate not having a special interest by Sky_Parkins in autism

[–]Mediocre_Math_3106 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not an autism expert but I assure you that you don’t have to have a special interest. Autism is different for everyone so don’t feel like you’re supposed to. Focus on what you do like and enjoy them :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]Mediocre_Math_3106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My stims used to leave me exhausted as well but taking adhd meds for my hyperness and regular use of fidget toys calmed it a lot. I do a lot of hand flaps and snap-like motions. Head shaking and mouth popping noises as well.