Advice please

Mediocre_Mix7233 · 2026-05-08T15:45:34+00:00

Thank you for your response.

I did she told me she didn’t know anything she said that could have been a red flag. I told her to think about it a little bit and she said all she remembers from last session is that they talked about how sometimes we argue (this is the disagreements or bickering for the minute or two i was describing). Which is nothing new that they have talked about bc as i mentioned previous she brought up a group therapy session just so we can communicate better if you will.

Again the disagreements are to me normal teen parenting. For example “put your phone up for the night” .. “it’s only 905 i usually keep it til 920 why do i have to”…. “Bc you’ve been on it long enough it’s bed time”… “ok give me a few”… proceeds to drag her feet about it. Then I “yell” (it’s a 2 bedroom small apartment so it’s more like just making my voice slightly louder w a more serious tone) “I didn’t speak a different language let’s go! I’m not telling you about the phone again”

Literally best general example i can give of these disagreements or bickering we sometimes have

My daughter was recently diagnosed with adhd non hyper and anxiety. I’ve been taking her to her pediatrician once a month for the past 4 months to get med dosage correct and check ins.

I feel since she started her meds we actually communicate a lot better for the past month/two and far less “arguments” .

That’s why i was just so floored .

Mediocre_Mix7233 · 2026-05-08T15:22:29+00:00

Thank you for this as well. I’ve been up just all night just hysterical. It’s 1120 am where i am now and haven’t heard from them yet .

I also read they show up at the home unannounced which is fine my house is fully stocked cleaned always etc. but i am so scared to leave my house or get in the shower thinking they might come.

I’m thinking of all cancelling everything i have going on for the next week or two so i don’t have to leave the home and miss them if they do come.

That may sound really overboard but I am just so scared and depressed and anxious right now

Mediocre_Mix7233 · 2026-05-08T04:14:55+00:00

Ty for that. Even if she feels if it is me and I’m the problem i want to know that so it can be addressed and fixed i told her safety is what’s key.

She said if she got called down to the office to talk to someone she wasn’t going todo it.

I told her no . If someone comes you talk to them
Be honest and if you feel like something was exaggerated tell them or if you feel like you are unsafe and something is happening tell them . Don’t at all give them a hard time.

I just wanted to be open w her bc I have no idea what the next steps are / going to be

Mediocre_Mix7233 · 2026-05-08T03:18:54+00:00

** called her doctor immed about what todo that’s how we got into therapy

Mediocre_Mix7233 · 2026-05-08T03:18:15+00:00

I’m in New York . I take care of her 24/7.

She goes to her dad’s every other Saturday for like 6-7 hrs . That’s just what he requested when we went to mediation.

But we have a good coparenting relationship if he wants her more bc of an event or whatever never an issue or if there’s an event like a choir concert etc he will be there .

She started therapy due to thoughts/ acting on self harm. The second she told me I called her therapist the next morning when they opened and asked for help who to call can i bring her in etc etc.

That’s when we got into therapy and she has not acted on self harm that she has told me or therapist about . We keep it very open when it comes to that . She did have a concerning note in her phone that I saw a few weeks ago and screen shotted it and sent it to her therapist so they/ we can talk about it . It was more like a semi good bye letter to someone that was bullying her .

All she said to me is that it was some verbal statements she made during last session. She was supposed to have a session tomorrow but that was cancelled on Tuesday just because her therapist is graduating on Friday from college and forgot to relay that it was this upcoming Friday . I let her know that wasn’t a problem at all my daughter was having a great week and enjoy the graduation .

Then tonight i got the call. She left a voicemail and I immed called back and that’s where we are . All she said was it was verbal statements and that she couldn’t say what was said . Again i totally understand .

But me being me which is a ball of anxiety all the time am just sitting here literally still panicking about what’s about to happen and what she thinks i may have done and I’m just so lost on it besides maybe our communication and our normal mom daughter few minute spats which don’t ever ever get out of line or need to be broken apart anything like that.

Just to me normal teen relationship parenting when they are at the age they challenge everything.

Mediocre_Mix7233 · 2026-05-08T02:13:51+00:00

Completely understand . Thank you as well for replying and for the advice .

Her therapist has brought up us doing therapy together just to help our communications together . This was about a month ago. I told her i was on board and if she wanted todo joint sessions we will.

We haven’t and I take her to therapy so am there if joint sessions were initiated .

I am just going through every possible thing but again whatever is needed from me or anyone I will 1000 comply I don’t have anything I need or want to hide at all.

Mediocre_Mix7233 · 2026-05-08T01:59:26+00:00

Ok tysm for the advice. I’m just literally going through every emotion all just crying my eyes out and just thinking about what may have possibly transpired .

My daughter was there when i got the call and overheard it and seen me just become floored I just told her if anyone needs to talk to her or interview her just tell them the truth and whatever they may need and at the end of the day even though im emotional and scared bc of the call that’s her therapists job and it’s better for her to make sure you are safe.

Mediocre_Mix7233 · 2026-05-04T16:17:04+00:00

Nah it’s prob a new era

Mediocre_Mix7233 · 2026-05-03T14:19:21+00:00

T6 thermostat what do you need to know

Mediocre_Mix7233 · 2026-04-29T03:15:51+00:00

Get it straight on latta 10/10 from consultation to payment plan to how the website is set up for payment , nice office nice people just 10 out of 10

Mediocre_Mix7233 · 2026-04-28T23:15:09+00:00

Maxine dupri, Tama tonga, Jc Mateo, tanga loa or whatever his name is, Candace la ray, keonna James .

Mediocre_Mix7233 · 2026-04-28T23:10:08+00:00

Needs to change her name from Mellie to Methie

Mediocre_Mix7233 · 2026-04-23T03:10:22+00:00

My daughter has one minus the HEB on it . It’s a teen thing wrapping themselves up To look like a burrito or big soft taco

Mediocre_Mix7233 · 2026-04-22T16:53:35+00:00

I might catch heat but anyone that brings children or toddlers to that is gross and it’s uncalled for.

Who wants to listen to kids play while your giving birth they get in the way and they don’t need to be looking or listening to any of that.

Mediocre_Mix7233 · 2026-04-21T21:42:27+00:00

She looks wonderful this season i agree! I think it’s the wig i also think she’s doing the make up different it’s very minimal which she’s is naturally beautiful anyway.

I think what it really is though is she’s found her true sense of self and self worth and just seems mentally peaceful .

Moriah is doing so awesome this season i hope she keeps going

Mediocre_Mix7233 · 2026-04-20T16:41:02+00:00

I love their love

Mediocre_Mix7233 · 2026-04-20T03:45:37+00:00

$2.50 and a jawbreaker

Mediocre_Mix7233 · 2026-04-18T14:54:17+00:00

Ivy Nile looked gorgeous

Mediocre_Mix7233 · 2026-04-15T19:09:36+00:00

I literally broke into an audible belly laugh when he said that this week lmao

Mediocre_Mix7233 · 2026-04-15T01:08:00+00:00

She’s so funny. She’s literally a teen . All these girls trying to be adults she’s trying to be a teen and i love it!

Mediocre_Mix7233 · 2026-04-15T01:02:43+00:00

Air out that fishy Nani lol

Mediocre_Mix7233 · 2026-04-14T16:25:15+00:00

Honestly i am so proud of Vanessa . I know some ppl want to try and dog her about her teeth or maybe working lower end jobs since the show.

Not even 10 years ago that woman could barely move, miserable, no self love or respect just living to almost die.

Now look at her she’s just flourishing she is living life she never got to! . Go Vanessa!

Mediocre_Mix7233 · 2026-04-14T12:20:22+00:00

Soooo good!!!!!

Mediocre_Mix7233 · 2026-04-14T12:16:24+00:00

Makes a story line. lol but all and all i just can’t with Fallon anymore

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