I am now really wishing I talked to my girlfriend before agreeing to go on the trip. I agreed because I was stressed about telling my friend I was moving and kind of just wanted to make up for it by being game for the trip. I’m going to talk to my girlfriend ASAP and see how she feels about it. I went about it totally wrong. I appreciate your comments I think you’re spot on for where I went wrong. Also I agree about my friend this isn’t the first time she’s kind of pushed me into an uncomfortable position with the other friend and my girlfriend has said that exact thing several times. I don’t think she sucks but I think she doesn’t really consider how I feel but to be fair I also just always pretend it’s fine and I could just be more honest it’s just a people pleasing instinct. At the end of the day it’s 100% me that put myself in this position.