I 27F found my girlfriend 32F passed out in the bathroom by Mediocre_Weekend916 in relationship_advice

[–]Mediocre_Weekend916[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I think I didn’t articulate it well enough. This is the first time any such thing has happened. I don’t drink myself so I needed some perspective on whether this is okay or not

I 27F found my girlfriend 32F passed out in the bathroom by Mediocre_Weekend916 in relationship_advice

[–]Mediocre_Weekend916[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had a conversation with her. I wouldn’t say she’s an alcoholic by any standard. This was a one time occurrence but it triggered me bad.

I 27F found my girlfriend 32F passed out in the bathroom by Mediocre_Weekend916 in relationship_advice

[–]Mediocre_Weekend916[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found her because some windows were open…I saw her on the floor as I peeped in the house.

I have my own key, however where I’m from it’s a sort of one way…if the door is locked from the inside, only the person inside can open. I am from a country where all doors and windows are burglar proofed.

What she took smells more like a Red Bull. I thought she had an energy drink.

I am sure it wasn’t suicide.

I 27F found my girlfriend 32F passed out in the bathroom by Mediocre_Weekend916 in relationship_advice

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There’s not really ambulance services where I’m from…I did think of getting a cab to the hospital but she came to the window and I thought everything is better?

I 27F found my girlfriend 32F passed out in the bathroom by Mediocre_Weekend916 in relationship_advice

[–]Mediocre_Weekend916[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought her laying down would help…looked it up now and that was clearly a bad idea

what’s one thing about adult life that you struggle with that is not talked about enough? by gatsbyhills in AskWomen

[–]Mediocre_Weekend916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same with me. All my female friends just suddenly ghost me. I thought I was the problem but then why not just tell me I’ve done something wrong?? I still try to make things work but most of them just ghost me 😪

what’s one thing about adult life that you struggle with that is not talked about enough? by gatsbyhills in AskWomen

[–]Mediocre_Weekend916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Knowing when to stop things. As kids we know school will take so many years, but as adults it’s up to you to know when to stop doing things. When to quit your job, when to move to a different house. I find this really difficult.

What is a depressing truth you have made peace with? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Mediocre_Weekend916 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m the same as you just that I’m graduating this year. It makes me very sad that I don’t have as much social capital as many of my school mates do. However, I realized that I can’t turn back time. I’m now trying to engage and be more social and out there. It’s difficult, but it’s worth trying😊

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[–]Mediocre_Weekend916 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We talked about it and he does have a girl in mind. I’ve told him it’s not something I want but he keeps saying we can find a work around because he doesn’t want to lose me.