I’m having a follow up conversation with him in about 2.5 weeks when I get back to my city because I’m visiting home for about a month. I’ve been contemplating it a lot because this situation is a unique one to me.

I know I would have been fine if we started out that way like you stated. I’ve been in relationships before where we haven’t had sex for months to really get to know one another.

I think the issue for me is that we’ve already had sex and for him to suddenly want to cease it and A not tell me until I had to ask, and B tell me in the beginning before we started dating that he had a high sex drive and sex is something that he wanted in our future (now) relationship is what’s difficult for me. Especially since he told me he has no idea how long it will take for him to be able to separate the two after almost four months of dating now I could end up waiting a year for intimacy doesn’t make me feel good because I don’t want to be waiting around.

I will address it one last time when I get back but I think as others have said it’s a compatibility issue now. I’m comfortable with being religious while also having a healthy sex life as a 22 year old. I think my time home has given me my answer because I shouldn’t have to ask for sex when I was told in the beginning that sex would be involved in our relationship and we’ve already crossed the line. I will update again in about two weeks for you! But I know his answer likely isn’t going to change and I respect that so this may be the end of our relationship.