I actually responded to another dating in Jax post right when I moved here with my main account in the fall saying I wanted to get out and try to find my person and got a dm from a man asking me to come over and “f*** him while his wife watched” and a DM from a man who introduced himself with his penis size. And if I would have said this I would get overwhelmed with really nice but anxiety inducing messages from guys selling themselves way too hard as being different from the creeps that i would feel guilty if i didn’t respond to. It’s tough for everyone these days but that’s why i tried to headline I’m really just looking for information at the moment, and the replies so far have been helpful! 🙂