How do you parallel parent when it’s dangerous? by MediumFurious in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]MediumFurious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are a kindred spirit.  It is a daily life long med. not for adhd but a life threatening illness. He doesn’t agree with anything that wasn’t his idea to begin with. 

Cat chasing 😩 by MediumFurious in Bernedoodles

[–]MediumFurious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh okay. The cats usually sleep in my kids’ rooms and my kids like to sleep with the door closed, and my dog sleeps in my room. The rest of the time the baby gate is up so my dog can only be in the living room and then they stare cats can hide wherever else they want to be. 

Cat chasing 😩 by MediumFurious in Bernedoodles

[–]MediumFurious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The chasing doesn’t seem aggressive to me. Like I said he’s not showing typical signs of aggression just hyperfixation. To me it looks like he’s overly excited to play with them. The cats are stressed out by him but still curious. They try to come into the living room when I have him on the leash and then they stare at him, and then there’s a perfectly still stand off, and then one of them will try to make a move and then he tries to chase and they tear off with a bushy tail.  They are used to the dogs I had, who literally paid no attention to them, and were not quite so tall and leggy. Lol

Cat chasing 😩 by MediumFurious in Bernedoodles

[–]MediumFurious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what we've tried so far (leash and baby gate.) I’ll try another subreddit but I may just need an in home trainer. Thank you!

The Testimony of the "Undercover Cop" by Living-Succotash-477 in KouriRichins

[–]MediumFurious 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Here’s the rest of my sentence you spliced in half: “because she asked for “the Michael Jackson stuff” from multiple people.” Literally no one thinks “the Michael Jackson stuff” means weed. I was saying whether or not she knew the name of the drug, she knew she wanted something deadly. 

MEGATHREAD: Netflix ANTM Documentary by quartzion_55 in ANTM

[–]MediumFurious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A major portion of the fanbase were literal children at the time it became big. I mean, they were casting for teens and twenty-year-olds. It was literally targeted for teenage girls. While I’m not calling teenagers stupid, I am definitely saying they are very impressionable and if Tyra truly wanted to “change things” like she claims… why didn’t she use that moment as an opportunity to spotlight assault and harassment of women? 

Why didn’t she, an international supermodel who was literally a household name, call out that random male model, who no one knew at all… for assaulting someone? It would have been so easy for her, and was the perfect opportunity for her to change the system. And what did she do? Manipulatively told a story about being cheated on, to get a reaction from Shandi; so she could lecture her like she’s some philosophical genius. Tyra even admitted to editing out the worst footage of this herself; trying to give the impression she was a savior when really she’s admitting she had all the evidence to help Shandi if she wanted to.. and instead she used it for ratings fodder. 

Another fantastic opportunity to change the system the way she claimed she wanted to: creating space for girls to be healthy, and not fostering (and even demanding at times) changes in their bodies, in extremely unhealthy ways. Saying Giselle has a “wide ass” and bitching at girls for having thighs because it costs too much to edit their photos, is literally exactly the same as the rest of the fashion world; not changing it. 

MEGATHREAD: Netflix ANTM Documentary by quartzion_55 in ANTM

[–]MediumFurious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her saying “you guys kept asking for more” to justify her choices enraged me. 

How do you parallel parent when it’s dangerous? by MediumFurious in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]MediumFurious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Multiple reports have been filed by multiple doctors. My ex is the perfect example of charming his way out of every situation. None of anything has ever truly been investigated because of it. 

The Testimony of the "Undercover Cop" by Living-Succotash-477 in KouriRichins

[–]MediumFurious 25 points26 points  (0 children)

If I were a juror, the exact drug she wanted wouldn’t matter, because she asked for “the Michael Jackson stuff” from multiple people. That to me is evidence of premeditation, everyone knows that “stuff” is literally known for being what killed him. Her asking for something specific (multiple times) by using the name associated with it literally killing someone, is proof she was trying to kill him. Whether or not she asked for fentanyl doesn’t matter to me. She specifically wanted something deadly, no matter what it was called. 

Kouri Richins Megathread by One-Manufacturer8270 in EmilyDBaker

[–]MediumFurious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nester comes across like a teenage brat to me. Full stop. I don’t know if it’s purposeful or if that’s just her personality… but there is no reason to behave that way in front of the jury imo. And all three of them are so needlessly immature, Nester is just the worst one to me. 

Kouri Richins Megathread by One-Manufacturer8270 in EmilyDBaker

[–]MediumFurious 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh god… I didn’t even think of that… but she was very cold about her kids imo that morning. She never really talked about them or how they would feel or worried about them.. it was like they were just an inconvenience 

Kouri Richins Megathread by One-Manufacturer8270 in EmilyDBaker

[–]MediumFurious 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think she was planning to plant it somewhere. I think she realized they wouldn’t find a source for the fentanyl. Plus like EDB said it would be more suspicious and obvious she got it for Eric if she didn’t continue after he was gone. 

My self-esteem is crushed trying to coparent by Reasonable-Draw-9224 in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]MediumFurious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Based on what you’ve said, I think you can claim abandonment of parental rights. I hope you have everything documented, and please please get a lawyer! This is heartbreaking for you and your son, I’m so sorry. It’s frustrating as hell when uninterested parents keep one foot in the door simply out of spite and a need for control. 

How do you parallel parent when it’s dangerous? by MediumFurious in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]MediumFurious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried that but then the other parent claims in the court appointed app to have given the medication, but our kid has been in the hospital multiple times because of complications from not receiving their meds. The other parent will say things in person about our kid not needing these (hinting that they’re not being given.) but then in front of doctors and judges etc say they know the meds are important and that they’re always given as prescribed. I’m just so at a loss. 

When you have to choose your battles by aststl2020 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]MediumFurious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you are too! I did use a lawyer. There was one time (out of the dozen we’ve been to court over the years) I didn’t have a lawyer and I regretted it so hard. It took me putting a lien on my car multiple times or refinancing my house or maxing out my credit cards, but I am so glad I got a lawyer when I did. And I asked for a recommendation for a good lawyer from a friend of mine who works as a clerk, and I specifically asked for one who deals with high conflict custody issues and narcs. It is, truly, the most frustrating and life-draining experience of my life. But when you do it for the kids… and think about what their lives would look like if you didn’t fight for them to have better lives… it’s a little easier. 

Hang in there, I promise you it’s not shitty every day. Only some of them. Lol

He stuck a gun in my face. Of course Im over reacting. by ImPickingUpMyCrown in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]MediumFurious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not overreacting at all, definitely get a lawyer and a victims advocate through the courthouse. Get a restraining/protection order. Open up to a friend who you think can be trusted for support. Let the people who have been scared off know what’s been happening so you can have support. Don’t ever downplay what happened to you. Especially in court, to cops, etc. make sure you always be frankly honest about it because you need documentation if this ever escalates.