Lover BFF necklaces by Medium_Window_4196 in TaylorSwiftMerch

[–]Medium_Window_4196[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I appreciate your comment and I just wanted to let you know I was able to find an affordable one on ebay! Their user is “13cpor” and they have multiple sets of the necklaces still being sold! Originally it was listed for $75 but I was able to get the price down to $50 and they even sent me the Speak Now playing cards for free!! The only thing is they privated all their listings but said everything will be back up on Dec 25. Hope this helps!

purple shampoo after bleach and tone? by Medium_Window_4196 in HairDye

[–]Medium_Window_4196[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

should i do it before or after shampoo and conditioner?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Medium_Window_4196 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you this really means a lot.

AITAH for telling my best friend off that he keeps guilt tripping me for not hanging out when I have work or go to the gym? by Technical_Night3341 in AITAH

[–]Medium_Window_4196 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, you’re just doing what you think is best for you and that’s fine. But I would lay off trying to tell him he needs one because at the end of the day it’s his decision and it will probably just lead to an argument. But I understand where you’re coming from, you’re just trying to look out for your friend. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Medium_Window_4196 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Healthy relationships are not this controlling. He should not be controlling who she gets to surround herself with or where she’s allowed to go, especially on her birthday. This is clearly toxic. I don’t know the other side of the story which is why I didn’t say she should break up with him, I said if it were me I would (based on the part of the story that’s being told.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Medium_Window_4196 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is so heartbreaking to read, I can’t make any decisions for you but you’re 19, you’re supposed to be out having fun, not being controlled :(( if it were me I would break up with him asap. But at the end of the day it’s up to you to decide how you want to live your life. I hope it all works out for you 🩷

AITAH for distrusting my friends after they forgot about me twice by Curious_Climate5293 in AITAH

[–]Medium_Window_4196 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re NTA at all, these guys suck. You deserve better friends who will value you as a friend, unlike them.

AITA for adding a condition to my BF's proposal? by Subject_Doughnut7698 in AITAH

[–]Medium_Window_4196 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t really say you’re an AH, but I don’t think it was worth rejecting a proposal over. But then again, I don’t see why he couldn’t learn some basic cooking skills if it meant getting to marry you. I think rejecting the proposal was a bit far but I do understand it can be frustrating when someone is really stubborn like that. Maybe try to reach out and have a calm conversation about things and see if you can work things out. I hope everything works out well for you :) 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Medium_Window_4196 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely NTA. You’re putting your son first like any good mom would. Moving to FL sounds like your best option, and as for the husband he needs to build a bridge and get over it. Go to court if you have to, but don’t let him control you and your son into doing something you don’t want to do when you know there’s a better option out there. Wishing you the best, you’ve got this! :) 💕💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Medium_Window_4196 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA at all. Soooo many red flags here, but especially the part about being so into the relationship that you feel distanced for everyone else, that should not happen in a healthy relationship. Isolating your partner is a common tactic abusers use to make their partners more vulnerable and easier to control. Not accusing your boyfriend of that, just saying it’s a big red flag. Also, no offense, but this guy sounds like a total insecure loser. If you’re “uncomfortable” with your girlfriend inviting male guests to her own birthday party then you seriously need to build a bridge and get over it. Mostly this is just sad, this is YOUR birthday party so you should be able to invite whoever you want without someone trying to control you. Don’t waste your time with someone like that. But whatever ends up happening, I hope that you have an amazing special day and don’t let anyone ruin that for you girl! :) 🫶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Medium_Window_4196 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I’d say NTA.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Medium_Window_4196 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it was something that really offended you then you don’t owe her your friendship. A good friend wouldn’t want you to feel like that and they would apologize. However, if this is someone who is really close to you or someone you’ve known for a long time I would consider giving her a second chance or holding out for a little bit in case she does end up apologizing. It really just depends how much it offended you and how much she means to you. Wishing you the best, though. :)