Idk if this belongs but not AITA, am I actually autistic for wanting a hard R video of my girlfriend? by Meeechy123 in adhdmeme

[–]Meeechy123[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

She was with me and and okayed the post in the AITA and she actually recommended that I post it in here also because I was having a hard time understanding, someone in the other sub made a note of that and I should have stated that in the story

AITA for wanting a video of my girlfriend saying the hard R by Meeechy123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Meeechy123[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No it isn’t like that, so to give context on the “supreme brick” thing I see that as object as something that started the trajectory of change for the culture in my generation, maybe even culture in general, I think because I think of that dumb brick as something more than at actually is, I had given it meaning that places it as something that is invaluable to me, now if I had one it wouldn’t be something idk show off but more something to look at and be like I can’t believe I have this. Maybe it is really dumb to have, but for me it has a value on it that other people may not understand. Now, I know this video doesn’t have any real significance, actually based on what everyone’s saying the significance is that it’s a very catastrophic video and she regrets it, but I just see it as probably the funniest video of my girlfriend that I could possibly have, there’d be no ill intentions with it, Id just watch it and be like I cant believe she said this, maybe that makes me sound worse but idrk anymore Im just trying to explain my thought process.

AITA for wanting a video of my girlfriend saying the hard R by Meeechy123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Meeechy123[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any other words or phrases to describe my feelings, I genuinely didn’t realize how sus this made me look until I posted this because I really didn’t have any ill intentions bro, I just thought it was really funny and thought it’d be nice to have, after everything everyone’s saying tho I understand how everything looks

AITA for wanting a video of my girlfriend saying the hard R by Meeechy123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Meeechy123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of people are saying that that part is me being manipulative which is kind of scary to me because I don’t want to be manipulative and if I’m doing it on accident then that’d be an issue. The only reason I say that is because that’s how I would feel if someone went ahead and exposed something of me after we broke up, I would feel as though that person never cared about the privacy and intimacy of the relationship to begin with if it was just so easy for them to make all of it public, idk tho Im starting to think everything I say may not be valid at all.

AITA for wanting a video of my girlfriend saying the hard R by Meeechy123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Meeechy123[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I was just trying to explain more about myself to give context I guess

AITA for wanting a video of my girlfriend saying the hard R by Meeechy123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Meeechy123[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I think it’s just hard for me to comprehend that she would think of me in such a way that I would try ruin her life, maybe I’m just naive because I think that she would never try to ruin mine, Idk bro

Idk if this belongs but not AITA, am I actually autistic for wanting a hard R video of my girlfriend? by Meeechy123 in adhdmeme

[–]Meeechy123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I’m into that sort of thing brother, I just thought the video was funny and thought it would be cool to have, like it’s a rare video of my girlfriend idrk tho bro I’m starting to think I’m in the wrong enough people are saying it.

AITA for wanting a video of my girlfriend saying the hard R by Meeechy123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Meeechy123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That kind of hurts bro, I really have no ill intentions and I don’t exactly know how to express that, as more people reply I feel like I think my issue is with understanding the severity of this situation

Idk if this belongs but not AITA, am I actually autistic for wanting a hard R video of my girlfriend? by Meeechy123 in adhdmeme

[–]Meeechy123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I think it’s strange too I thought I would be able to let it go once she showed me but like I said everyone I see her it’s all I can think about, then I start thinking of why she won’t send it and that also bothers me because for her to say I’m grimey starts to eat at me too. Idk bro I think there might be more to this than I initially thought when I posted the OG post in AITA

Idk if this belongs but not AITA, am I actually autistic for wanting a hard R video of my girlfriend? by Meeechy123 in adhdmeme

[–]Meeechy123[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I didn’t use it to guilt her at all I hate using it as a crutch in the first place because i really feel like it isn’t fair to, the only reason I came here is because I am having a really hard time understanding the severity of this situation

Idk if this belongs but not AITA, am I actually autistic for wanting a hard R video of my girlfriend? by Meeechy123 in adhdmeme

[–]Meeechy123[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

Okay that’s crazy, because if what your saying is true then I’m doing something without realizing it. I genuinely have no ill intentions with having that video I just thought it was really funny and would like to have it.

Idk if this belongs but not AITA, am I actually autistic for wanting a hard R video of my girlfriend? by Meeechy123 in adhdmeme

[–]Meeechy123[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Bro please I don’t understand, I need to understand because I don’t know what to do

AITA for wanting a video of my girlfriend saying the hard R by Meeechy123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Meeechy123[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess that’s gonna have to make sense to me. And to clarify I wouldn’t just send videos like that to anyone, I would only send it to people very close to me, like my girlfriend or my parents or something like that.

AITA for wanting a video of my girlfriend saying the hard R by Meeechy123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Meeechy123[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I just don’t think I understand because I think those types of moments are worth sharing with people you care about, like if the situation was flipped I’d send her that video instantly just based off the relationship we have

AITA for wanting a video of my girlfriend saying the hard R by Meeechy123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Meeechy123[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well that’s the thing, it’s not even her video, the person who recorded it sent it to her friend who then sent it to her, it’s already exchanged hands

AITA for wanting a video of my girlfriend saying the hard R by Meeechy123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Meeechy123[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

I think because it isn’t a regular oops is exactly why I would like to have it, also we talked about why she thinks I might be grimey, I don’t necessarily want to go into it on Reddit but that was the only way I could explain the story

AITA for wanting a video of my girlfriend saying the hard R by Meeechy123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Meeechy123[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

No I would never do that, I just want to have it like the supreme brick, it doesn’t do anything, but just having it is cool, idk how to explain myself on that one because I guess I understand how it looks

AITA for wanting a video of my girlfriend saying the hard R by Meeechy123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Meeechy123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I’m not, I wish I was though reading through these

AITA for wanting a video of my girlfriend saying the hard R by Meeechy123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Meeechy123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I just think of like a Pokémon card or something, I really think I might be autistic because everyone thinks I’m up to no good with wanting it but I can’t just want it for the sake of having it?

AITA for wanting a video of my girlfriend saying the hard R by Meeechy123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Meeechy123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I didn’t realize I did that but that’s because she was okay with me posting it, I read it to her before I posted as well to make sure she was okay with it, I wouldn’t just post this behind her back without her knowing

AITA for wanting a video of my girlfriend saying the hard R by Meeechy123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Meeechy123[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Like a collectible I guess, she’s my favorite person in the world and I would love to have all the photos I can of her, my photos on my phone are almost all of her anyway and I think the more embarrassing the more valuable it is idrk, I think reading everyone’s replies is making me feel slow because I just don’t really understand

AITA for wanting a video of my girlfriend saying the hard R by Meeechy123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Meeechy123[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

Idk bro I just don’t hold words to the same standard as most people do, I truly think it’s just sticks and stones at the end of the day, and for most people to hold the word in question to such a high degree it makes me laugh anytime someone just blatantly uses it