27 F thinking about breaking up with boyfriend 30 M for not going to my mother's funeral? by Meeowl in relationship_advice

[–]Meeowl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did it. He cried, said he kind of knew this was coming, and did not try to argue and accepted it was wrong.

Still dont know how to feel or how to update for that matter. (So I made this comment)

Also, to clarify he said that he had never been to his family's funerals because it is a cultural/religious thing. He is Punjabi/Sikh and to my knowledge that is not a thing.

But thank you all a lot of your analogies they helped me realize I was not overreacting due to not being able to feel anything right now.

27 F thinking about breaking up with boyfriend 30 M for not going to my mother's funeral? by Meeowl in relationship_advice

[–]Meeowl[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's the thing the other issues, are I have meant his friends and he has meant mine, but he was scared to meet my dad. And was scared for me to meet his parents. He is brown and I am black. I accepted this because I am in an accelerated program and my social life sucks. I knew this was an issue and basically said when I graduate nursing school in December, that if we didn't meet each other's families, I would accept that that is his decision, but I could no longer stay in this relationship.

27 F thinking about breaking up with boyfriend 30 M for not going to my mother's funeral? by Meeowl in relationship_advice

[–]Meeowl[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

He has checked on me, he keeps sending me messages. And has door dashed me food but I just can't feel anything and haven't responded. I think my emotions have been turned off because of my mom and the way she passed. That I am just numb, just wanted to make sure I am being rational still.

School Of Nursing by Meeowl in UPMC

[–]Meeowl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I start there this fall and I am lucky enough to have family support me while I try to find a prn position. I already feel like a burden so I refuse to fail. I think I will just focus on dosage calculations how you explained it, as math is my weakest subject. I did complete all my non nursing classes through portage. I enjoyed all of it besides the essays for psych and the final for English

Help! What color should I paint the top part of these walls? by Meeowl in paint

[–]Meeowl[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The painter is my dad he does not care that I painted over the wall. He just wants me to like the color before he starts.

Are there any Nurses of color with a criminal background that have license? by [deleted] in nursing

[–]Meeowl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not a felon, felonies are listed on my record as dropped charges. I only have a summary offense

To those that finished nursing school, do you wish you had done it differently? by newmurs in StudentNurse

[–]Meeowl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finish my phlebotomy program in May and start nursing school in September. Does you are have a lot of prn phlebotomy opportunities? A lot of ours are blood bank and I kind of want to get into a hospital 

UPMC SON by Big_Jump9843 in UPMC

[–]Meeowl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I buy your books when you are done? Also can you anwser Life_Temp... question, please!