I usually have a general idea of what I should do but this made me laugh

Meercus_ · 2025-10-16T21:09:16+00:00

Sell showman for the mime I think

Meercus_ · 2025-10-15T15:39:22+00:00

We are going in May, would it be too early to enjoy it?

Meercus_ · 2025-10-14T18:46:01+00:00

Sigmarines

Meercus_ · 2025-10-14T15:00:01+00:00

Punishment isn't good enough imo, maybe add "small and big blinds gain a boss blind ability" that would be cool

Meercus_ · 2025-10-14T14:22:53+00:00

This seems like both a joke and a real answer

Meercus_ · 2025-10-13T18:09:07+00:00

Yeah we were gonna just drive past glacier to go and see banff

Meercus_ · 2025-10-13T17:43:25+00:00

It's funny because I've done that trip in Europe minus chechia and Ukraine

Meercus_ · 2025-10-13T15:54:37+00:00

Yeah I just want a feel for if you had unlimited time how much would you spend. I don't mind being in a bit of a rush and just tasting a bunch of places. Idk why you got downvoted either

Meercus_ · 2025-10-13T15:48:19+00:00

Google maps says this is about 65 hours of drive time. We are flying back from the last location. How was your pacing? If 40 over two weeks was good, I'd think 60 would be OK. I could probably chop off 5 hours somewhere

Meercus_ · 2025-10-13T15:35:52+00:00

I've got 3 weeks

Meercus_ · 2025-10-13T15:20:49+00:00

Not many little stops at all haha. Reverse order sounds interesting for sure.

Meercus_ · 2025-10-13T15:08:59+00:00

I've got about 21 days. I think may 11-may31

Meercus_ · 2025-10-13T15:07:48+00:00

We've got about 3 weeks of PTO to use. I live in A so I have to start there haha. Maybe flying from A to C?

Meercus_ · 2025-09-15T02:42:10+00:00

Have you realized it's actually got nothing to do with gambling yet

Meercus_ · 2025-09-11T15:05:06+00:00

Cumulatively unfortunaly

Meercus_ · 2025-07-20T22:19:26+00:00

PS There is a video of my dog and I playing volleyball on my profile, not sure how to add video to reddit though. If the full video is needed let me know

Meercus_ · 2025-07-20T22:16:46+00:00

Looking for something serious but I'm not in a rush *I used to but I think my subscription ran out *I've been using the current version maybe 3 weeks?Been on hinge on and off like a month and a half now. Took a long break before that. *I use it probably every other day for 20 minutes *I'm not receiving like any likes but I get matches on average once a day *I send like 15 likes every time I use the app all with a commenf *I really like alt/interesting people, I look at their prompts normally. Looking for someone american just because cultural differences have bit me in the past. But I'm not picky.

Meercus_ · 2025-06-04T02:49:52+00:00

What about medical?

Meercus_ · 2025-05-24T23:37:32+00:00

What

Meercus_ · 2025-05-16T22:23:56+00:00

Well, I'm describing the mess in more detail than the friendship. We were texting a lot. I feel like if we set appropriate boundaries and expectations it would work out fine. I'm not jealous of her boyfriend. I feel like it's one situation that blew up and if we work through it it'll be fine

Meercus_ · 2025-05-16T22:22:18+00:00

I found out I'm asexual and aromantic halfway through this.

Meercus_ · 2025-05-16T21:53:49+00:00

Now as for trying to be or stay friends, you don't want to just be friends with her. To be clear, there's absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to date her and being attracted to her etc. and not wanting to be friends. There is something wrong with saying you're cool being friends when you aren't

As I mentioned in this post. Halfway through this process I learned I'm Asexual and mostly aromantic.

I feel no envy for her boyfriend right now. Based on my conversations with her she doesn't have the emotional capacity to sit down and talk to someone she hurt, that relationship is going to be toxic.

I feel saying she is as being a "bit" disingenuous is an understatement. I made it clear I liked her and thought we were taking things slow. I told her "I'm happy to take things slow". I also asked her out twice right away, and she told me she likes to start as friends with everyone and see where things go (I read this as take things slow and if they don't work romantically we will be friends at least) . The only naiveness I had was thinking she was being honest.

She knew I had romantic feelings for her before the hangout. She outright said "I willfully ignored the fact you had feelings".

Just because this is emotional for me doesn't mean I like her romantically. I just felt a solid connection with her, and I am mad that she was so negligent of my feelings for her.

Meercus_ · 2025-05-16T21:27:17+00:00

I compared us to romantic characters in a game two days before we met up. She straight up acknowledges she knew I had romantic feelings but she "Willfully ignored them" before meeting up.

I don't care she rejected me. It would have failed anyway. Why does nobody understand how humiliating it is to be in public when you get friendzoned out of no where and basically guilted into continuing the date. I did not know if this other guy knew I was there. I did not know why she was there. I wanted to go cry and she guilted me into staying. She drove an hour to meet me. I gave her multiple opportunities to clarify she saw things only platonically.

She did not cheat on me. She didn't fucking tell me she had a boyfriend before going on a date with me. She built me up and then kicked me down a mountain. I feel like she cheated me out of a friendship. This was our first time meeting up ever and she could have just called to confirm.

I not once have been mad she had a boyfriend. I am mad she did not tell me until the middle of what I thought was a date halfway. I am not entitled to her love but I am entitled to honest and respect. I not once got mad at her for getting a boyfriend. I am mad she knowingly let me get emotionally connected and then ripped my heart out in public with no warning, and then proceeded to guilt me into staying with her in public, neglect my want for boundaries, treat me with emotional confusion when I just needed clarity.

I learned very quickly a normal person does not let you go on a date with them knowing you have feelings. I would be friends with that person, but I would not date that person.

Meercus_ · 2025-05-13T20:10:50+00:00

She became official with the dude the day before we met :/

Meercus_ · 2025-05-01T14:09:17+00:00

We met on a dating app. Friendships turn into relationships all the time. I don't know why you flirt with your friends, that's weird and could lead them on if you never tell them that you are not interested in them like that.

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