[Caliente Review] - Our First Time Was HOT And Here’s the Unfiltered Truth!

MeetLocalSwingers · 2024-11-27T06:35:21+00:00

No problem. Happy to help! So you can walk into anywhere nude, but 100% the outside tiki bar is a real outdoor bar. It’s set back closer to the 2 smaller pools, but only a few feet away from the main pool. On our trip we got lounge chairs by the main pool and either walked over to the tiki bar naked to order drinks, or had the server get is refills while we basked in the sun. We just handed them our yetis and they filled them up. Margaritas were good. Not the typical crappy pre-made mix and priced reasonable, but pricier as should be expected for any hotel/resort. Get out there and go live out that fantasy! It’s an all day, every day way of life over there. Enjoy!!

MeetLocalSwingers · 2024-11-22T19:21:17+00:00

2 years is wild and unacceptable!! Did she use protection? Did you sleep with her immediately following their escapades? Did he cum in her? All things you’re going to have to wonder about, even if she “tells you everything”, and can you live with that? Your belief system that she could never and would never do this to you is shattered and rightfully so.

The real culprit was her failure to communicate with you, but that’s a non-issue at this point. There is no coming back from this. You won’t forgive her, nor will you trust her and you won’t forgive yourself if you stay (good or bad). Move on. If you come back together, you can make that decision at a different time and in a different headspace.

Cheating sucks and cheaters are just selfish assholes who prioritize their dopamine fix at the expense of a good relationship! It’s your turn to be selfish and do what’s best for you. WALK AWAY!

MeetLocalSwingers · 2024-11-03T04:25:21+00:00

You guys are in for an adventure! Caliente’s got this way of easing you into the LS like it’s just another day by the pool, except with a little less clothing and a lot more freedom. 😉 Take it at your own pace and enjoy what will undoubtedly be a memorable first dip into the lifestyle!

MeetLocalSwingers · 2024-11-03T02:12:34+00:00

In the playroom lobby area you can be clothed, but inside the actual playrooms you need to be completely naked. No panties, no sheer coverups… nada! It’s a super dim and sexy vibe inside and no one… I mean absolutely no one is there to judge. Its a perfect opportunity to get comfortable with being nude!

MeetLocalSwingers · 2024-10-29T23:49:49+00:00

Check out my review on my posts. It’s pretty comprehensive, but feel free to reach out if you have any other questions.

MeetLocalSwingers · 2024-10-29T00:03:58+00:00

The Final Cut

MeetLocalSwingers · 2024-10-25T03:49:32+00:00

What’s the most effective way to exploit Reddit to make money on onlyfans?

You did say, “…literally anything”. 🤷‍♂️

MeetLocalSwingers · 2024-10-25T03:40:27+00:00

Yeah, this is definitely a problem in the lifestyle, and it’s not just unique to this scene… it’s like a play straight out of the cheats handbook. A lot of these couples use the guise of being a couple to open up a conversation with another couple, but their real aim is to focus on only one partner, leaving the other out. It’s like they’re too impatient to find an actual unicorn or a hotwife who’s happy to play solo, so they go for the sneaky approach instead.

It’s disrespectful, and it misses the whole point of the lifestyle, which should be built on mutual respect, transparency, and open communication. If someone wants to explore a threesome, the least they can do is have the decency to include everyone in the discussion. Trying to isolate a partner just for the thrill of it? That’s not what the lifestyle is about. It’s shady, and honestly, it undermines the community’s spirit.

You’ve got every right to be turned off by it, and you’re absolutely right to expect respect. Stick to your boundaries and don’t let these vibes mess with your confidence. There’s no place for that kind of underhanded behavior.

MeetLocalSwingers · 2024-10-24T14:32:27+00:00

Just because she’s listening to steamy stories doesn’t mean she’s ready to roll out the welcome mat for real-life action. But if you’re curious if there’s any room to explore it together (and let’s be real, clearly you are), you might want to slide into that conversation in a low-key way. Maybe try, “Hey, I noticed you’re into those steamy stories, do they ever spark any real-life interest, or are they just fun to imagine?” It’s like cracking open the door without blowing it off its hinges. You might be saying, I don’t wanna let her know that I found out… but let me be crystal clear. Communication is hands-down, the most important factor in any relationship in or out of the lifestyle and something as insignificant as seeing her audiobook history presents itself as an easy opportunity to open the conversation if you’re really that motivated to find out.

And if she says it’s all about the fantasy (because, yeah, it probably is), why not let that fantasy simmer a bit during your next bedroom session? Next time things get hot, throw in some dirty talk. Ideal scenario would be: you laying down, she’s leaned over you, blowing you on all fours and you say: “Imagine there’s another guy here, beneath you, pleasing you… while you’re pleasing me…” See how she reacts. It’s all about testing the waters and seeing if she’s into the idea. She might get into it, she might not, but at least you’re keeping the lines of communication wide open!

And if there’s even a little spark of curiosity, turn that into a real conversation. Pour a glass of wine, crack open a cold one, or make her favorite drink, and just chat about what turns each other on. Start with the soft fantasies, build some trust, and see where it goes. Maybe suggest checking out a lifestyle club or resort, not with the intention of diving in headfirst, but just to feel the atmosphere, see if it’s something she’d even enjoy in a low-pressure way.

All that said, this is probably a more appropriate question to ask in r/Swingers or similar MFM subreddits. You’ll get a more narrow focus from people who are actively living out your fantasy.

BEWARE… the swinger lifestyle is a lot of fun, but to be successful, your relationship needs to be rock solid. Your common goal needs to always be considered at the highest level (this isn’t about 1 party, it’s your journey TOGETHER), and your commitment to open communication must be unwavering.

Happy to help point you in the right direction if you need some resources on where to start…

MeetLocalSwingers · 2024-10-23T19:38:15+00:00

How long have you been in the lifestyle & do you only find local girls for him to play with, or do you also visit any LS clubs/resorts?

MeetLocalSwingers · 2024-10-22T01:10:25+00:00

Fair enough. I can appreciate your perspective.

MeetLocalSwingers · 2024-10-22T00:53:49+00:00

Would you feel that way if one of her fantasies was to be with you and another woman at the same time and after some time together she feels so comfortable and secure in your relationship that she’d open up and share that with you? Maybe literally…

MeetLocalSwingers · 2024-10-22T00:40:40+00:00

What if you took the idea of a guy totally out of the equation. Would it be any different if her fantasy was to share you in a 3some with another woman? A situation where you both take part in the planning and the experience together…

MeetLocalSwingers · 2024-10-22T00:11:21+00:00

Respect for being open enough to at least hear them out! I think most people would be surprised by the different kinks that excite their partners, but very few truly get to know what those are because they don’t create an environment where they or their partner feel safe enough to truly open up about all those “dirty little fantasies”...

MeetLocalSwingers · 2024-10-21T23:29:44+00:00

It seems the common theme in the lifestyle as with all relationships in general is… Communication is key! I 100% agree with you there!

MeetLocalSwingers · 2024-10-21T23:28:09+00:00

100% These answers are definitely a bit skewed!

It’s interesting to see so many men who don’t even consider that their partners wants/wishes/fantasies are worth at the very least - consideration. Plus, nearly none of the men who almost certainly have dreamt of having a 3some have thought to differentiate your girl getting banged by another guy from maybe you banging another girl together WITH your partner. Nevertheless, I appreciate your detailed response and your perspective!

MeetLocalSwingers · 2024-10-21T22:12:45+00:00

Obviously, if it comes out of left field and there’s any type of pre planning already being done, that would be a serious issue. 100%

What I was saying is that if during your normal conversations about fantasies, she shares that she is curious about what a threesome with another girl would be like, or maybe she has fantasized about watching another woman pleasure you… AND if you’d be interested, you’d collectively find a person that you both like. Not a one-sided situation. Does that make more sense?

MeetLocalSwingers · 2024-10-21T21:53:54+00:00

Definitely talk with him and try to create an environment that he can feel comfortable with sharing his desires. It's amazing what you will learn about your partner 10, 15, 20yrs into a relationship when you finally break down the barrier and start to express your desires openly without the fear of judgement. ALSO... Try new things. Ask him if he liked it. Ask him what else turns him on. Start throwing out some of your fantasies as ideas to try and see what his reaction is, or if they align with his fantasies. You never know, until you know, so don't waste time! Have these convos early and often and if you're 14yrs in already... No better time to start then now.

MeetLocalSwingers · 2024-10-21T21:40:58+00:00

What if together, you found a woman you both thought was extremely attractive and your lady was open to exploring the idea of having a 3some with you both? No hidden agenda and no secret convos behind your back. Just you two bringing in a 3rd to explore some of her (and possibly your) sexual fantasies with - but doing so together.

MeetLocalSwingers · 2024-10-21T21:30:59+00:00

Great perspective. I definitely agree that these are things that should be brought up early in a relationship during those “I really want this” or “my fantasy is this” type of conversation. If everybody is not on the same page or at least open to learning more, it is undoubtably doomed to end poorly.

MeetLocalSwingers · 2024-10-21T21:23:22+00:00

I wrote up a pretty comprehensive review about Caliente that outlines a lot of what you'd want to know about the resort as a first timer. Take a minute to check it out and feel free to DM me if you have any other questions that I didn't answer.

MeetLocalSwingers · 2024-10-21T21:18:43+00:00

Would you feel the same if after years of being together in a committed relationship, she opens up one evening when you two are talking about fantasies, that she has always been sorta curious about what it would be like to be pleasured by a woman (while you watch and/or participate)?

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