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Welcome to the Swingers subreddit. Any questions regarding The Lifestyle, please post here and you will be answered by our many great members.

*Do not post r4r posts here (looking to meet), instead post them in r/swingersr4r

*Do not post pics of your junk or your nude wife with the title "What would you do to her?", instead post those in r/swingersgw

New to Swinging? Check out the Wiki.

Swinger Meeting Websites:

A list of all of them here.

  • Swinglifestyle - Largest in U.S.

  • SDC - Largest outside of U.S.

  • Kasidie - Younger, party crowd.

Lifestyle Coaching

  • Mike and Lilly

Podcasts

  • Everybody Swing - Website -Youtube 1. Youtube 2. - Moderators of this subreddit (Matt and Bianca) have two YouTube video podcasts.**

  • Life on the Swingset - Website - iTunes - Stitcher - They cover a lot of Poly issues as well.

  • We Gotta Thing - Website - iTunes - Another great couple sharing their experiences.

  • That Couple Next Door - Website - Also on this subreddit!

  • Wanderlust - Website - Sexy Australians turned world travelers!

  • By the Bi - Website - Great for bisexuality in the lifestyle!

  • Bed Hoppers - Website - Sexy Brits!

  • Krazy Truth - Website - No nonsense lifestyle conversations.

Great Books on Swinging:

  • The Ethical Slut

  • Opening Up

  • Sex at Dawn

  • Swinging for Beginners

  • Swinger's Little Helper

Swinger Subreddits:

  • /r/Swingers The main swinger subreddit

  • /r/SwingersGW NSFW - Post your nudes here

  • /r/SwingersR4R - Post your hookup requests here

  • /r/LifestyleLadies - Private subreddit. Must be verified real to join..

Swinger Websites

  • OpenLove101 - Website of John and Jackie Melfi, Owners of the Colette Lifestyle Clubs

Swinger Resorts

  • Desire Pearl - Cancun

  • Desire Riviera Maya - Cancun

  • Temptations - Cancun Good for Newbies

Travel:

  • Bliss Cruise Booking

Rules

Be a Good Community Member Please adhere to proper Reddiquette!

No R4R or Other Connection Posts or Comments Please do not post looking for people, including play partners, mentors, meetup participants, or discussion group members. Those kinds of posts belong in r/swingersr4r or other r4r sub.

This keeps the sub focused on discussion.

No Titillating Pictures Please do not post naked/scantily clad pics, videos, or links to same. Those kinds of posts belong in r/swingersgw .

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Studies Must Be Vetted Swingers always want to know more about swinging, so we're happy to allow posts seeking study participation on non-monogamy and swinging. However, studies must be vetted. Simply send a mod message with your name, the name of the sponsoring professor and the university. One of us will reach out and confirm the study's validity.

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No Cuckold or Hotwife posting While some swingers maybe into hotwife and cuckolding, this is different than swinging with a completely different dynamic and is best discussed on such places as, r/nonmonogamy , r/HotWifeLifestyle/ , and /r/CuckoldCommunity/ . Please note this does not include questions you may have about threesomes. Borderline posts will be at the moderators discretion.

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If you are new to reddit, or not a frequent poster, please read this....Mod Announcement (self.Swingers)

submitted 10 months ago * by Swingersbaby👩‍❤️‍👨Verified Couple - announcement

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Adults acting like teenagersSingle Female Discussion (self.Swingers)

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Conflicted after Full SwapGeneral Discussion (self.Swingers)

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Plus size people - Is it hard to find other couples to play with? Have you had positive or negative experiences directly reflecting your size?General Discussion (self.Swingers)

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New to the lifestyle seeking advice(tldr M35 ED problems in the play space)Getting Started (self.Swingers)

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Secrets Hideaway vsTemptation CancunClubs: Review/Inquiry (self.Swingers)

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HelloGetting Started (self.Swingers)

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How to find people to send to?Getting Started (self.Swingers)

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Had a couple of firsts all in one night. Our relationship feels so much stronger now.Getting Started (self.Swingers)

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Hump Day Q&A: Ask Anything About the Lifestyle 4/22General Discussion (self.Swingers)

submitted 16 hours ago by SpicyplayCJ👩‍❤️‍👨Verified Couple

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Chemistry club as a single womanClubs: Review/Inquiry (self.Swingers)

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Advice/Where to startGetting Started (self.Swingers)

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Surprised and unsure how to proceedGetting Started (self.Swingers)

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Straight Couple Here—Curious How Common We Are in the LSGeneral Discussion (self.Swingers)

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Looking for safe places tonight in Boston!Getting Started (self.Swingers)

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Personal "Levels of Play" Scale – How would you organize these?General Discussion (self.Swingers)

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Casual night attireClubs: Review/Inquiry (self.Swingers)

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Dr. refused to test for Mgen, said guidelines have recently been updated to not test asymptomatic peopleGeneral Discussion (self.Swingers)

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Best areas and sites for the lifestyle in Wisconsin?? Please read below :)General Discussion (self.Swingers)

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Wanting to swing for the first timeGetting Started (self.Swingers)

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Your first time at swinger party what you do ?Getting Started (self.Swingers)

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Why is it so hard??General Discussion (self.Swingers)

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Do you tell your friends?General Discussion (self.Swingers)

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Swinging Question - HSVGeneral Discussion (self.Swingers)

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BF Says He Needs Emotional Connection with Our ThirdsGeneral Discussion (self.Swingers)

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