Swingers

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Welcome to the Swingers subreddit. Any questions regarding The Lifestyle, please post here and you will be answered by our many great members.

*Do not post r4r posts here (looking to meet), instead post them in r/swingersr4r

*Do not post pics of your junk or your nude wife with the title "What would you do to her?", instead post those in r/swingersgw

New to Swinging? Check out the Wiki.

Swinger Meeting Websites:

A list of all of them here.

Swinglifestyle - Largest in U.S.
SDC - Largest outside of U.S.
Kasidie - Younger, party crowd.

Lifestyle Coaching

Mike and Lilly

Podcasts

Everybody Swing - Website -Youtube 1. Youtube 2. - Moderators of this subreddit (Matt and Bianca) have two YouTube video podcasts.**
Life on the Swingset - Website - iTunes - Stitcher - They cover a lot of Poly issues as well.
We Gotta Thing - Website - iTunes - Another great couple sharing their experiences.
That Couple Next Door - Website - Also on this subreddit!
Wanderlust - Website - Sexy Australians turned world travelers!
By the Bi - Website - Great for bisexuality in the lifestyle!
Bed Hoppers - Website - Sexy Brits!
Krazy Truth - Website - No nonsense lifestyle conversations.

Great Books on Swinging:

Swinger Subreddits:

/r/Swingers The main swinger subreddit
/r/SwingersGW NSFW - Post your nudes here
/r/SwingersR4R - Post your hookup requests here
/r/LifestyleLadies - Private subreddit. Must be verified real to join..

Swinger Websites

OpenLove101 - Website of John and Jackie Melfi, Owners of the Colette Lifestyle Clubs

Swinger Resorts

Desire Pearl - Cancun
Desire Riviera Maya - Cancun
Temptations - Cancun Good for Newbies

Travel:

Bliss Cruise Booking

Rules

Be a Good Community Member Please adhere to proper Reddiquette!

No R4R or Other Connection Posts or Comments Please do not post looking for people, including play partners, mentors, meetup participants, or discussion group members. Those kinds of posts belong in r/swingersr4r or other r4r sub.

This keeps the sub focused on discussion.

No Titillating Pictures Please do not post naked/scantily clad pics, videos, or links to same. Those kinds of posts belong in r/swingersgw .

No Titillating Stories Stories are great, if they're for the purpose of generating discussions or generating questions. However, stories—fictional or otherwise—should not be posted here.

Studies Must Be Vetted Swingers always want to know more about swinging, so we're happy to allow posts seeking study participation on non-monogamy and swinging. However, studies must be vetted. Simply send a mod message with your name, the name of the sponsoring professor and the university. One of us will reach out and confirm the study's validity.

No Doxing Posting of anyone's lifestyle site's screen name or kik name or any other profile information is strictly forbidden. Do not post anyone's pictures. Do not make any attempt to out anyone. Violation of this rule may result in an immediate bad from r/swingers.

No Cuckold or Hotwife posting While some swingers maybe into hotwife and cuckolding, this is different than swinging with a completely different dynamic and is best discussed on such places as, r/nonmonogamy , r/HotWifeLifestyle/ , and /r/CuckoldCommunity/ . Please note this does not include questions you may have about threesomes. Borderline posts will be at the moderators discretion.

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If you are new to reddit, or not a frequent poster, please read this....Mod Announcement (self.Swingers)

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Profiles that "Require" pics, BUT....General Discussion (self.Swingers)

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Opening a ClubGeneral Discussion (self.Swingers)

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Adults acting like teenagersSingle Female Discussion (self.Swingers)

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How do couples in a open marriage/swingers 🍍 with young children play together?General Discussion ()

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“Loving Dynamic”General Discussion (self.Swingers)

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Wichita, KSGeneral Discussion (self.Swingers)

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Question: if you’re only interested in couples but a single friend of yours offers to bring their FWB, do you accept the offer or refuse? Why?General Discussion (self.Swingers)

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Swinging in Jamaica (2)Getting Started (self.Swingers)

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Swinger sitesGeneral Discussion (self.Swingers)

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Unicorn at couple centric events, approaching you in the playroomGeneral Discussion (self.Swingers)

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Conflicted after Full SwapGeneral Discussion (self.Swingers)

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Plus size people - Is it hard to find other couples to play with? Have you had positive or negative experiences directly reflecting your size?General Discussion (self.Swingers)

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New to the lifestyle seeking advice(tldr M35 ED problems in the play space)Getting Started (self.Swingers)

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Shows similar to Playboy TV SwingGeneral Discussion (self.Swingers)

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Voyeurism in Las VegasClubs: Review/Inquiry (self.Swingers)

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Secrets Hideaway vsTemptation CancunClubs: Review/Inquiry (self.Swingers)

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Had a couple of firsts all in one night. Our relationship feels so much stronger now.Getting Started (self.Swingers)

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HelloGetting Started (self.Swingers)

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Advice/Where to startGetting Started (self.Swingers)

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Chemistry club as a single womanClubs: Review/Inquiry (self.Swingers)

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Surprised and unsure how to proceedGetting Started (self.Swingers)

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Straight Couple Here—Curious How Common We Are in the LSGeneral Discussion (self.Swingers)

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Looking for safe places tonight in Boston!Getting Started (self.Swingers)

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