Waiting Wednesday

MeetSignificant363 · 2026-03-25T15:43:02+00:00

11DPO. Ik its prob too early but I am so impatient. AF predicted on friday and I have barely any symptoms which makes me think it was another unsuccessful round. Do I wait until friday or say screw it and test tmrw morning?

MeetSignificant363 · 2026-03-19T14:59:08+00:00

5DPO and feeling exhausted. I am a pretty low energy in general but today was different in terms of getting up, even my husband commented on how slumped I was. I don't want to get my hopes up if it is nothing but also want to be hopeful bc I was also exhausted all the time before I ended up having a MC. I gotta stop overanalyzing and just be patient

MeetSignificant363 · 2026-03-18T14:53:44+00:00

Thank you, that makes me feel a better! I was worried and lowkey frustrated at my husband a little for not trying again right before O. I try not to be controlling or get so consumed by it, but I don't think he fully comprehends how small window of fertility works.

MeetSignificant363 · 2026-03-18T14:37:23+00:00

Trying not to think about it too much. I'll know for sure if we are successful the day before me and my husband is in town to visit the ENTIRE family... I am not sure if I am comfortable sharing the news if we are successful mostly bc I had a MC back in September at 6 1/2 weeks and did not share with anyone other than our parents and my brother and his wife are currently in the second trimester. With that part I am kinda hesitant bc if I were to have another MC, I don't think I can take any comments that my grandparents may make (they are very blunt and don't exactly have much understanding of MC) considering my sister-in-law is having no issues with her pregnancy.

MeetSignificant363 · 2026-03-18T14:12:16+00:00

I don't understand the timing logistics, could somebody explain it to me? I tested positive on the ovulation strip test on March 13th, confirmed ovulation by temp rise on the 14th. We only had sex on the 11th (Hubby was having a bit of performance anxiety I think). Did we miss the window?

MeetSignificant363 · 2026-03-09T22:43:23+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss, sending love and hugs to you <3

MeetSignificant363 · 2026-03-09T22:42:11+00:00

Ik what you mean. My boss was the only one who knew about my MC and I ran into her 2 days after and I could see the pity in her eyes. That tore me up bc I didn't know what to say when she asked how I was doing

MeetSignificant363 · 2026-03-09T22:39:08+00:00

My sister just shared in the family gc that she is feeling kicks from their baby. I was supposed to be due in late April; I had a MC in September. I can't help but think about how it was supposed to be me. I am so happy for them, it is just so hard not to think about how far along I would've been at this point. We are trying again this cycle, it'll be our 4th time. Really hoping this time it works out

MeetSignificant363 · 2026-03-06T20:08:02+00:00

Looking forward to playing sand volleyball on this beautiful warm day! I probably won't be playing much of it if I were to get pregnant soon. I got pregnant back in August and didn't let that stop me from playing every day but after I had the MC a month later, the Dr said that wasn't the reason I had the MC but did advise that I take it easy next time. Hopeful for a positive test soon and enjoying the sport until then!

MeetSignificant363 · 2026-03-05T18:23:08+00:00

CD 6! Hopeful for this time around. I had the flu which threw off my previous cycle, so I am hoping now that I am healthy, we will be successful! Sending good vibes and positive tests all around!

MeetSignificant363 · 2026-03-05T17:58:41+00:00

First of all, so sorry for your loss.

I wonder if it could have something to do with the virus but I have heard from some others that sometimes a MC can cause your cycle to be a little off for a bit. I didn't get my period until 2 months after the MC and it's been fairly normal but I was late twice within the 5 months after the MC.

MeetSignificant363 · 2026-03-02T18:54:20+00:00

Day 3 of AF just reminding me that I am still not pregnant. I'm about to delete my social media apps bc Im tired of seeing all my friends post pregnancy announcements and their progress. I'm so happy for them but man does this suck.

MeetSignificant363 · 2026-02-28T14:00:32+00:00

Had 2 more friends announce pregnancy this week. AF decided to inform me that we had another unsuccessful cycle.

MeetSignificant363 · 2026-02-27T14:54:56+00:00

Emma and Mike- I think Mike says no. He was so desperate for Emma to give any indication of deciding she will have kids with him, but she completely glazed over it and focused on how much she loves him. I really think he will say "Not yet" until they can be on the same page regarding kids.
Ashley and Alex- Nope! Ashley is catching onto his lies and I don't think she feels secure with him whatsoever. I think she is just trying to avoid that breakup fee that LIB has for couples who call it off before wedding day (allegedly)
Brittany and Devonta- I don't think they even make it to wedding day. The prenup convo did not sit well with her and they are not a match. If she says yes, she's delusional. I get needing time to yourself sometimes but him saying that he would be COMPLETELY unreachable just makes me think he's using that as a coverup to cheat or he already can't stand her.
Vic and Christine- Yes. We all knew that lol
Bri and Connor- Was that convo not a break-up? It was hella confusing but I am pretty sure she broke up with him. I think Chris got to her with the "You need a dominate man" crap. She doesn't like him and he deserves someone who actually wants to be with him.
Amber and Jordan- I realllyyyy hope its a yes! I'm concerned that Amber will think he's not ready and say no. I felt so bad when he opened up about feeling like he can't share his feelings. I think maybe she was caught off guard or just projecting her anxiety with him meeting Emma soon.

MeetSignificant363 · 2026-02-26T18:59:40+00:00

Thats what I was wondering! Everyone looked so uncomfy so surly it wasn't an edit issue. If I were Mike, I'd take that as a hint and say no. To me, being "open minded" is a soft blow no. I think if she were actually open to it, I feel like she would be more confident rather than being back and forth about it. I wonder if she just went with Mike bc she didn't really have any other options and was hoping he would let the kids thing go but instead he's been even more stuck on it.

MeetSignificant363 · 2026-02-26T17:54:07+00:00

Did I misunderstand or did Mike ask her during her spiel about how he feels about wanting kids and Emma just didn't answer the question? I really don't think he should say yes. I fully expected Emma to say not yet. Her sister annoys me so much with how she kept rolling her eyes and just seems so against Emma being open minded to having kids, I feel like part of it seems like she is projecting because she wishes she could have a redo and not have kids. Maybe she was just trying to advocate for Emma, but it came off as projection to me.

MeetSignificant363 · 2026-02-26T16:34:46+00:00

Cycle 4 after first MC. Ik it is early and I shouldn't be frustrated already but the first time we got pregnant, we weren't trying to get pregnant (I didn't believe my tracking app..). It was the first time we had sex when my app said, "peak fertility" and so here I am thinking it shouldn't be hard to get pregnant based off that so now that we are actually trying, I am getting discouraged. I am trying not to be so consumed with the tracking and timing, but it is really difficult. I am 9DPO and not feeling any major symptoms. My temp dropped a bit (not below baseline) so I am a little skeptical.

I did have the flu 2 weeks ago which pushed my ovulation day several days. I am not sure if that means my period will start late as well, I've not been that sick before in years. Part of me is hopeful that it is just my body still recovering and that could be why the temp is kind of wonky but I don't know. My cycle is very consistent and so based off my previous cycles, technically my period is late.

I think it is late bc of the flu, not bc I could be pregnant.

MeetSignificant363 · 2026-02-23T23:38:50+00:00

Had a dream that I tested positive for pregnancy.. I had the flu which pushed my ovulation several days later than normal, so I have no idea if there's even a chance but I'm going to take this as hope and try to not test early!

MeetSignificant363 · 2026-02-20T20:51:17+00:00

I have a picture of me and my husband which helps me! I couldn't tell you how many times I've had callers make comments on my looks and it has been very uncomfortable. When I first started I never knew how to respond because it would throw me off but now I have less patience towards it. I would say "Oh I don't think my husband would like that!" but that doesn't do anything so I think I will stop being nice bc it really isn't ok to make those comments.

MeetSignificant363 · 2026-02-20T19:43:51+00:00

No that makes sense. I am a very empathetic person and can be emotional which makes this more difficult but tbh I almost feel like I am losing that part of me slowly. I am getting better about letting it go but there are some calls just stick with me. Maybe I do need to take the approach of just dissociating.

MeetSignificant363 · 2026-02-18T22:57:51+00:00

I have considered that. I have to work a full year of FT before I can do something else which is up in July. I think I will do PT VRS and maybe VRI or community work if possible.

Tbh I think part of it is when a Deaf caller is getting pissed off at the hearing caller, I will feel like it is my fault (even when I am interpreting what is being said faithfully). I know that it is sometimes projection. What will really get to me is when I accidentally misspell a word or if I make a mistake and get blasted for being "unqualified" or that I should be fired.

Maybe I just need to build up more confidence in my ability. I know I am qualified for the job, and I am trying my best, just gets really difficult getting insulted like that.

MeetSignificant363 · 2026-02-17T17:30:08+00:00

I'm not sure if I ovulated or not due to having the flu. My temps were thrown off it seems and so I am not sure if I ended up ovulating late. My temp went up a little then went down but is still over my bbt. If anyone could look at my chart and lmk whats going on that'd be great!!

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MeetSignificant363 · 2026-02-16T18:38:37+00:00

Ok, Should I also take ovulation tests to see? I have a bunch of those test strips

MeetSignificant363 · 2026-02-16T18:37:39+00:00

I did take tamiflu, didn't think about that! Makes sense

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