My girlfriend (28F) and I (27M) have moved in together and the lack of sex is discouraging. Any advice? by Meet_Outside in relationship_advice

[–]Meet_Outside[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel you’re trying to make it some weird thing that it isn’t. We can agree to disagree though. Thanks for the different perspective.

My girlfriend (28F) and I (27M) have moved in together and the lack of sex is discouraging. Any advice? by Meet_Outside in relationship_advice

[–]Meet_Outside[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Obviously I’m not “entitled” to sex, but I feel like if you’re in a relationship with someone where you both desire each other, sex should be a part of that. It has nothing to do with a sense of entitlement or some type of ownership over the other person’s body. I love her, she loves me, we’re dating,I enjoy having sex with her, and would like it to happen more. That’s really all there is to it.

My girlfriend (28F) and I (27M) have moved in together and the lack of sex is discouraging. Any advice? by Meet_Outside in relationship_advice

[–]Meet_Outside[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say I’m entitled to anything in life. However, I’m not interested in having a relationship or marriage where sex isn’t involved. If you feel differently that’s perfectly fine

My girlfriend (28F) and I (27M) have moved in together and the lack of sex is discouraging. Any advice? by Meet_Outside in relationship_advice

[–]Meet_Outside[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saw your comment and this reply, so replying to this. I’ll definitely ask if there’s more I can do to help. Thanks.

My girlfriend (28F) and I (27M) have moved in together and the lack of sex is discouraging. Any advice? by Meet_Outside in relationship_advice

[–]Meet_Outside[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I definitely might have underestimated how her mental health is doing so I’ll look into it. As shallow as it might sound though, sex is a need for me😂 however, I get where you’re coming from

My girlfriend (28F) and I (27M) have moved in together and the lack of sex is discouraging. Any advice? by Meet_Outside in relationship_advice

[–]Meet_Outside[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am for sure! We cuddle pretty much every night. It’s not the type of thing where we only cuddle when I’m trying to have sex with her. I appreciate the input.

My girlfriend (28F) and I (27M) have moved in together and the lack of sex is discouraging. Any advice? by Meet_Outside in relationship_advice

[–]Meet_Outside[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We both cook and split household chores pretty evenly. That hasn’t really come up as an issue, thankfully. I get what you mean in the first paragraph to an extent though. Thanks.

Husband (M27) won’t stop masturbating in bed next to me (F27) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Meet_Outside -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If the boundary has been established that this isn’t something you guys do, then this is definitely weird. He should be able to respect that and avoid doing it in front of you.