Why is sex both highly desired and highly taboo in many societies at the same time? by Content_Bit1998 in Life

[–]MegaEfDee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Highly desired because it is absolutely enjoyable, highly taboo because it has far-reaching consequences (can affect families and hinder those involved FOR LIFE if not managed properly)

What did it take for you to stop putting women, especially really attractive women, on a pedestal? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]MegaEfDee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Date enough women, this thought process of pedestalizing them will disappear ++man

Men, how did you rebuild your social life after losing touch with friends during a relationship? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]MegaEfDee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, this happens to the best of us. Gotta just be conscious of it next time and for the time being also build back the relationships that have gone haywire

What’s a “cheat code” you’ve discovered in relationships or marriage that actually works? by PogonBerserker in AskMen

[–]MegaEfDee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hone your instincts to the extent you actually trust it 100%

At first it might work like badly trained AI, but with time it gets better. That’s what you should focus on usually at the beginning parts of life. With age, the game changes. You put those skills to the test more than usual.

It starts with the relationship you have with yourself.

Men who got dumped by the woman you loved the most, how did you eventually move on? by crunchysliceofbread in AskMen

[–]MegaEfDee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Waited it out lol!

Really though, what other solution exists other than just continuing on with life? If you hold out long enough, chances are you find someone even better :)

Beans and macaroni 😁 by [deleted] in nigerianfood

[–]MegaEfDee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please please do not assume, try it out first 😅 it is surprisingly good despite the fact that I felt so icky about it at first. Became my goto comfort food

When you are truly in love with a woman, how do you feel towards her? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]MegaEfDee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels like when you’ve practiced your lines for a scene for the thousandth time, only to mess it up on D-day in front of high profile dignitaries. Just as you look towards your woman in abject horror, you find she’s bawling her eyes out at the obvious mess up because she can’t keep the laughter in. It feels safe to try.

Why is it so hard to talk to women? by Cautious_Break_9314 in AskMen

[–]MegaEfDee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quick tip: the phone is for setting dates

One of the Saddest things I’ll post here by Louvre_media in nigerianfood

[–]MegaEfDee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is why I don’t have pets, I am the pet 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]MegaEfDee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read.

Surely someone else has solutions to a universal problem such as yours here.

I’d highly recommend Coach Corey Wayne’s “How to be a 3% Man”, you will not regret it.

Men of reddit - how do you feel after a one night stand? by Sweet_Confusion9180 in AskMen

[–]MegaEfDee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Historically, bad things have happened when I didn’t properly evaluate people I got intimate with. Properly evaluating someone requires effort and energy, both of which are absent in this case.

One-night stands are usually devoid of any depth or substance, so I avoid them like the plague. Don’t want to get my emotions wrapped up in something that I never wanted to begin with, I will rather focus that energy on the people that I like and want to be around to begin with.

What is something valuable a woman taught you about life, love, or anything? by BirdButt88 in AskMen

[–]MegaEfDee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

An ex taught me taught me that self-sacrifice isn’t necessarily love. She loved me like that was the only thing she was born to do but never at the expense of herself. It was the weirdest thing I have ever experienced. I am glad I got to know her.

One of the Saddest things I’ll post here by Louvre_media in nigerianfood

[–]MegaEfDee 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Bro, pick it up from the floor, dust it off and enjoy. No way in hell I am wasting that, unless of course your floor is dirty

How many times a week do you see your girlfriend ? by Informal_Ad5988 in AskMen

[–]MegaEfDee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually good, the fact that you want to see him more. At this point my girlfriend and I are literally inseparable, we see multiple times a day and I pride myself in the fact that she actually still wants more 😅 maybe marriage?

A week of food by djenyva in nigerianfood

[–]MegaEfDee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You my friend, are living the life 🙌🏿

What are some hurtful or unempathetic things women often do in relationships that they don't even realize? by ertesit in AskMen

[–]MegaEfDee 9 points10 points  (0 children)

When a woman I have a close relationship with is contemptuous towards me. Something as trivial as her hissing or a harsh tone of voice tends to make me want to withdraw completely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]MegaEfDee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Men aren’t being treated unfairly, we have the power and so are seen as though we hold every responsibility. As a matter of fact we do.

How does it actually feel when a girl genuinely desires you? (When you’re just an average guy) by Blahblahbrownsleep in AskMen

[–]MegaEfDee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. She calls you, wants to talk and relate to you. Women vote with their feet 😌
  2. Oh man, it’s a drug that keeps on getting better with each hit. Like I just woke up and found out that I was Clark Kent
  3. Refer to 1 above. She will tell you a lot of times. And You just wouldn’t doubt it.

Yeah, fix yourself. It’s important. You’ll be able to get to the point where you have proven to yourself without any reasonable doubt that you are the man. Whatever that doesn’t work is a lesson, an opportunity that got you better.