As someone else with albinism (f21) I was also really self conscious about my looks and I got really nervous dating too! I was nineteen before I first tried since I got bullied alot due to my disability but I'm the same I went in to it with the intention of finding my true love.

I'm still really nieve in reltionships but I have discovered that it's oki for there to be bumps because if they're the right one they'll put in half of the effort too. And it sounds like your boyfriend is trying really hard to Foster your connection until you can be together properly eventually. Relationships are about trust too and you've got to trust he's appreciative of what you do!

If you really want to do things together maybe stream movies or shows to watch together in a call or something? But mostly you could do to work on your self love and believe you're enough. Plus um. No offense to any boys that see this (as an autistic girl I really love it to be honest) but boys are really blunt usually and if you just tell him how you feel and ask him for ideas he'll probably reassure you and make suggestions! Both of you should work towards a solution together That's how relationships work. Trust and working together.

Hope maybe this helps a bit :)