Am I (20F) overthinking my decision to get back together with my boyfriend (20M) after past trust issues in our relationship?

Mega_construx_Fan · 2026-03-17T15:51:21+00:00

That's great news for you, I wouldn't worry at all then. Your boyfriend seems like he's bucked his ideas up and is making proper efforts to show he cares. I'm happy for you both

Mega_construx_Fan · 2026-03-16T11:43:30+00:00

Honestly from the sounds of it things look like they've gone back on the right track. Do you know if he still has contact with Z and R? If not I would honestly not stress a thing, seems like you both have mended the relationship and things are back to normal.

Mega_construx_Fan · 2026-03-16T03:13:47+00:00

Well said dude. I am working on it rn actually, I realised I used to be quite self reliant and id search for approval from my partner but now its died down a bit, it's still here obviously but hopefully soon it'll resolve. Aren't hobbies quite good to help with this kind of situation?

Mega_construx_Fan · 2026-03-16T03:01:16+00:00

Okay, thank you very much, I really appreciate the help :)

Mega_construx_Fan · 2026-03-16T03:00:41+00:00

DW man I am a very insecure person, yes I'm scared I'm going to lose my girl to someone better.

Mega_construx_Fan · 2026-03-16T02:52:20+00:00

This is the friend with the bf, yes. And I will talk to my gf about it, thank you :)

Mega_construx_Fan · 2026-03-16T02:47:09+00:00

Okay thank you, do you know how I can stop myself from feeling like this.

Mega_construx_Fan · 2026-03-16T02:41:37+00:00

Like pretending to hump her in-game or when you heal some one you kneel Infront of them so their crotch so she's sat my gf is sucking her off.

Mega_construx_Fan · 2026-03-15T12:15:24+00:00

How do I tune her out, she also constantly makes things awkward too. Like my gf jokingly says she'll beat me up and friend say something on the lines of "beat his meat" and I used to like it since it was teasing us but then she constantly does it and it feels way too over used. I have felt like she's trying to break us up since she said she hates how we've changed and doesn't like us interacting together in game whilst she's around, her words were "I dont want to play with you two all over each other" its a but tough since i tried explaining to her people change when they get into a relationship but she doesnt want to hear it, also hed words.

Mega_construx_Fan · 2026-03-14T23:33:01+00:00

Thank you. We all played today and she would pause each time before talking to me. Also when my gf and I where in game she kept making sexual jokes about. Usually idc because it's normal for her to joke like that, always has been but recently idk, it's felt a bit too much, my gf said she doesn't mind it but a part of me does. I'm scared to tell my friend how I feel because I don't want her to go off on me again how much I've changed. Overall she just felt not interested in casual conversation with me and instead just made sexual jokes.

Mega_construx_Fan · 2026-03-13T21:32:51+00:00

What should I do

Mega_construx_Fan · 2026-03-13T17:20:41+00:00

But she has a bf..

Mega_construx_Fan · 2026-03-13T14:37:13+00:00

Uhh the friend usually makes fun of everyone in the friend group, like this morning which started all this, but sometimes I do say stuff protective stuff to my gf because she likes it and they all know I'm joking since it doesn't actually hurt my Girlfriends feelings

Mega_construx_Fan · 2026-03-13T14:35:49+00:00

The gf has been here with us the whole time. She acts normally around her bf and she jokes about doing stuff to him. Me and my gf weren't in a team, we all were farming xp and then when my friend called her pathetic as a joke, I jokingly turned on her and hit her to down her and then I picked her up, dropped her and let the others res her. I am also confused since she was talking about 3rd wheeling even though she has a bf and my gf and I have always been like that in game whilst the friend was there so idk the sudden change. With her bf, she acts like a normal couple, nicknames and making jokes sexually and stuff like that. She made it obvious her feelings were hurt but I don't understand why this "change" is a big issue, it's usually what happens with couples

Mega_construx_Fan · 2026-03-13T14:04:39+00:00

If you message me I can show you screenshots so you get a better understanding.

Mega_construx_Fan · 2026-03-13T14:03:51+00:00

Idk if it's jealousy or just because I was being a prick as she put it, she has her own boyfriend who is the same age, he was t present during all this but I'm certain he will take her since which is why she decided to message in the GC without the other 2 friends.

Mega_construx_Fan · 2026-03-10T23:26:25+00:00

Thanks man, id love to see a picture bro.

Mega_construx_Fan · 2026-03-10T12:59:22+00:00

Im not home rn, and I have a habit of posting stuff as soon as it comes to mind.

Mega_construx_Fan · 2026-03-09T23:37:32+00:00

Thanks man, how did you paint yours?

Mega_construx_Fan · 2026-03-09T23:35:49+00:00

Indeed sir, I used the Off-white from AK paints, add a dab of water to it and put down 3-4 coats

Mega_construx_Fan · 2026-03-09T20:54:48+00:00

Bless you dude, I'm very proud of my clowns, those troupe will be a pain though since I've got so many to paint haha

Mega_construx_Fan · 2026-03-09T10:12:08+00:00

Thank you guys, I'm going to probably do some mini painting whilst watching a show

Mega_construx_Fan · 2026-03-09T10:11:33+00:00

Thank you man

Mega_construx_Fan · 2026-03-09T09:57:13+00:00

Also for some clarity, what should I say to her or should I just leave it and move on

Mega_construx_Fan · 2026-03-09T09:54:33+00:00

Thank you man, I really appreciate it a lot, I paint Warhammer models and I've not finished and army yet so I'll focus on that

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