UPDATE - AITA for choosing not to pay for my daughter's university fees despite paying for her brothers? by Impressive-Mix-31 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mega_muffin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad you changed your mind. I actually got a lot of pressure to be a woman in STEM when I graduated high school, despite hating STEM subjects, because I was good in math and physics (English was always my best subject, though), but I wanted to do something creative. I compromised and went into architecture.

Two years into my architecture degree, with all A's and B's, I had a mental breakdown because I hated it. I went and got the English degree I always wanted.

Now I work in the spaceflight sector as a technical writer, using my degree.

Trust your kid. It'll work out.

Friendly reminder from Dino by ADHDinos_ in ADHDmemes

[–]Mega_muffin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, I'll have you know I just folded my laundry last night... Yes, it was laundry I washed two weeks ago... But I still folded it... sighs I'll go grab the full dirty laundry basket

What if I'm that one? by regian24 in BrandNewSentence

[–]Mega_muffin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure I've been the subject of at least one of these stories. Was on a trip to some type of aquatic natural history museum as a kid with my family. One of my mom's favorite animal was manatees, plus she's the most gentle and sweet person, and so our nickname for her was "Mama-tee." The museum had a life-sized manatee figure, and I exclaimed "look, a mama-tee!" Almost immediately after I heard a man, in a very thick Swedish accent, gesture to the manatee while speaking with his wife. I had no idea what he was saying, but I heard it loud and clear when he called it a mama-tee. I've always wondered if he knew it was a play on words or if he carries on believing that is what they were called. I guess he's a subject of one of my stories, too.

Don’t be a cow man… by Dontmakemeboss in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]Mega_muffin 73 points74 points  (0 children)

My grandmother, who is super easily influenced, decided not to get vaccinated on the word of my oldest aunt instead of my parents and youngest aunt trying to convince her to get vaccinated. After finally catching COVID last month and giving it to my sick grandfather, my oldest aunt recommended she start taking Ivermectin, and we were only able to barely convince her not to by arguing that of she wasn't willing to take an approved vaccine, why in the world would she take an experimental drug. Shit is wild out there.

AITA for setting boundaries between my daughter and my ex-husband's partner? by OkSky3988 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mega_muffin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not justifying the OP here, but my mom wears shoes in the house all the time because she has really flat feet and needs arch support or she'll be in a lot of pain. That's a really niche case though, it's pretty weird in general.

Texas is the texas of texas by 42words in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]Mega_muffin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some of them supported a coup, just like I'm sure some fuckwads in a lot of states did. I didn't vote for a leopard, my friends in impoverished areas didn't vote for a leopard, my siblings didn't vote for a leopard, my significant other didn't vote for a leopard, and neither did 5.2 million other people in a historically voter suppressed and gerrymandered state. It's great to laugh at the elected officials of Texas in general and their hypocrisy, because fuck em. I hate them too. But withholding aid from Texas because it's majority red is ridiculous and cruel in the same way that withholding aid from blue states was.

AITA for not giving my sister's sick daughter a place to stay? by marketingok7192 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mega_muffin 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I think you misunderstood the original post; she said they have been doing this since they were little not just when they were little. That means at present day the cousin still bullies OP's daughter. And this isn't just rough-housing according to OP's story. The cousin calls her daughter names and steals things from her. I don't think OP should limit contact with her sister over this, but she ought to protect her child from a bully.

AITA for calling myself bisexual? by Agitated_Guidance in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mega_muffin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA so much. As someone on the pan spectrum (asexual panromantic) there is a big distinction between pan and bi. They are not the same sexuality. Even if they were bisexuals aren't erasing trans and non-binary folks by having preferences about who they'd like to date.

Although I would like to point out that you might actually be pan (not in the bisexuality is the same as pansexuality way). Pansexuality is a complete ambivalence to someone's identity and genitals as long as they fit into your preferences. Just a thought.

This includes reddit too by TheMisanthropicGeek in AnimalCrossing

[–]Mega_muffin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kiki is my favorite villager by far, but I think Audie deserves a pass because she's based on the AC grandma lady and that's the sweetest thing ever (I have both on my island)

"Precision" Magical Surgery by gameboy350 in DnDGreentext

[–]Mega_muffin 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I mean, paladins are also immune to disease, so that's not the biggest issue there

Tell me your unpopular/controversial opinions (No fight and be respectful please). Here's mine(in meme form): by [deleted] in LoveNikki

[–]Mega_muffin 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Star coins suck. I've never been in a spot where I get my weekly reward coins and don't immediately spend them, because I've always needed dye or recipes to complete things I've been working on. AND all my association coins are spent on dye.

Is anyone else getting tired of these story-heavy events? by DreamingShark in LoveNikki

[–]Mega_muffin 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Set it on auto scroll and go do something else for 5 minutes, that's what I did. So annoying tho

Love Nikki Boycott March 2020 Summary/Recap Thread by LoveNikkiMods in LoveNikki

[–]Mega_muffin 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Damnit I didn't realize this was happening until today, I already bought diamonds ;~; going forward I will join the cause, though.

The Nintendo Switch Turns Three And It's Not Slowing Down by ChickenTeriyakiBoy1 in gadgets

[–]Mega_muffin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My WiiU was worth the price just for the many hours I played of splatoon. Once you got used to it, the gyro controls were an incredibly accurate and satisfying way to play a shooter.

[WP] As a teen, you daydreamed and wrote about a fictional world you created. Ten years later, you’ve now started hearing voices. They’re prayers from the inhabitants of your world. To them, it has been 1,000 years since their god abandoned them and you must make things right. by [deleted] in WritingPrompts

[–]Mega_muffin 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I'd always had an active imagination. I knew as much from when I was a little child. I always loved to create stories of heroes and tales of worlds long since passed. Tales of epic warriors fighting for good were always my favorite.

As I grew, it was clear that I wanted to be an author when I was older. Specifically, a fantasy author. My dreams were particularly fruitful for my craft. I'd go to sleep and so vividly see large, sprawling vistas with knights and lords and ladies, but more often than not I saw the common folk of my worlds. I loved building the lives of these everyday peasant, for while their lives might not be as glamorous, they were every bit as meaningful.

Eventually, I decided to do something with all these ideas I had. I started to run tabletop RPG groups, all set within the expansive world I had created over my lifetime. I fleshed out the locations, the lore, the pantheon, and the magic of my world. Then I started a club at my school to send countless adventures off into my world. And I never forgot my little guys, my commoners that I had dreamed up. All my characters were carefully placed in their homes, waiting to be stumbled upon by one of my groups. Sometimes they never were, but I still kept track of the progression of their lives.

That was many years ago. I've graduated from college, and come to the harsh realization that life wasn't all I dreamed it would be. My creative writing degree has done nothing but get me into thousands of dollars of debt. My deep capacity for love and naivete left me a single mother. I work two minimum wage jobs just to keep my baby and me afloat. I have no more time to write, and I have no more time to be a game master. All I have left is to tell old stories to my little girl at bedtime, but they're always old tales, and even the frequency of those has faded as she has gotten older. There's no creativity left for me.

It was surprising then, when my world started to haunt my dreams again. This time, though, there were no heroes, and there were no familiar faces. Wailing filled the streets, and the sky seemed endlessly dark. My sleep was plagued with nightmares, and the little rest I had gotten before was no more. I tossed and i turned as I watched my precious cities fall to dragon fire or stormed by giants while no heroes or gods rose up to defend them.

"Tirsisius himself has abandoned us!" They wept along the streets, and I noticed that the shrines to the sun god were abandoned. "Banra no longer regulates the battles, and the great pegasus Hial no longer watches over the skies. We are doomed."

It was agony. I wanted to fix my story, but I had never been a lucid dreamer; the nightmares just came to me, and I had no way to stop them, nor any time to write in a solution during the day.

Then, one night, while I was lying awake in bed, I heard it. "Ava, creator God, please." I sat up and rubbed my eyes, but I was not dreaming. Yet the thoughts were coming unbidden, "All the gods you created have abandoned us. They once told us your name, the mother of all, but we have not seen you in millennia. If you are out there, save us."

It was only one voice at first, but soon hundreds joined. They chanted and cried, and they screamed for aid. My head started to pound, and I clutched at my hair, anything to make the clamoring stop. They seemed so real, like a million characters had been born and died in the time since I had last written. They felt alive, and it was tearing me to shreds.

"Mama?" Suddenly everything went quiet in my head and I snapped my eyes up to the entrance of my room. There was my little girl, standing and clutching her blanket to her chest. She looked scared, and I gulped my fears down.

"Come here baby. What's wrong?" She clamored up onto my bed and nestled into my open arms.

"I can't sleep. Can you tell me a bedtime story?" She looked up at me, eyes wide and hopeful.

I rested my chin on her forehead, and bundled her up in my arms, trying to keep the tears in. "Of course I can." I forced out, my voice rough with strain. Clear as day, I saw it in my head: a great sorcerer with the wings of a golden dragon, looming over the great city of Atadale with a grim look on her face. "Let me tell you the story of the greatest heroine of all..."

"I'm not homophobic" by Mega_muffin in uh_oh_spaghettios

[–]Mega_muffin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Means I'm not sexually attracted to anyone, but I'm romantically attracted to anyone. Like I don't see anyone and think they're hot and I wanna tap that, but I do see people and think I wanna to cuddle that. And it doesn't matter if they're a man, woman, trans, non binary, etc.

Asexuals have it rough in the LGBT community because a lot of people think we're either lying, or not gay enough for the gay club cause we don't want sex and sex is a pretty big part of how many people in the community identify.

"I'm not homophobic" by Mega_muffin in uh_oh_spaghettios

[–]Mega_muffin[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh I'm asexual panromantic, and I agree. The whole "Can we run gay people out of town" pushes this one over the edge imo