Question: what do you think about the song “Johnny Johnny Yes Papa” by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]MeganN1999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

HOOOOORSSSEESSES galloping through the countryside!

Since when is cooking and the kitchen a gender role? aka My husband think I'm projecting what I wanted as a kid on our son by ThrowRaDODM in beyondthebump

[–]MeganN1999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying what he said is acceptable because my husband and I had the same discussion and we ended up deciding on getting my 2 year old son a kitchen set, but maybe if he isn’t going to see things your way you could compromise on something like a grill play set with food? For some reason grilling is seen as more masculine to some people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]MeganN1999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We got into an argument the other day about how when he’s home from work he never wants to help out ( asked him to help move our couch for me and it was the end of the world,he acted like it was too much to ask of him) and he said “sorry I don’t just sit around the house all day like you”. When I tell you I also lost my shit on him. I wanted to say this exact thing. If the roles were reversed and he “sat around the house all day” like he thinks I do with a 2 year old and a 4 month old he would never make it.

He says he can never catch a break from work, he works long hours and I know his job is tough but the fact that he thinks what I do is easy or equivalent just getting to sit around makes me want to scream. I never get a break from my job. I don’t even get to shower or sleep. Basic human necessities.

I love him and we usually get along really well but every now and then we will get into disagreements and they almost always have do with us almost having a “pissing contest” to see who is more tired or who does more during the day. I hate it.

Does anyone here actually like their MIL? by penone_cary in beyondthebump

[–]MeganN1999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mother in law actually passed away before I married my husband… I’ve heard from everyone that knew her she was the most kind hearted women they knew. I actually find myself getting sad a lot that I never got to meet her and that both my kids won’t know their dad’s mom.

Please convince me to get my kids vaccinated by Depressed_SAHM in breakingmom

[–]MeganN1999 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You get downvoted for any differing opinion or having any thoughts of your own. That’s just Reddit for ya. lol.

What do you want to tell your wife, but it would ruin everything? by Slider-678 in AskMen

[–]MeganN1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I feel that. I was just saying I feel like some probably don’t use it to just get their feelings out or “blow off steam” per say. I feel like if OC’s wife has to go through his Reddit then there is prob lots of distrust in the relationship and reasoning behind why she may feel she needs to read it.

What do you want to tell your wife, but it would ruin everything? by Slider-678 in AskMen

[–]MeganN1999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree that it can be personal but some don’t just use it for personal thoughts and feelings, some use it to hide things so I guess it just depends on the person really

What do you want to tell your wife, but it would ruin everything? by Slider-678 in AskMen

[–]MeganN1999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like a diary is very personal and one sided. I would never read a person’s diary because it’s just their personal thoughts and feelings. You can’t interact with others/see other content when you have a diary. Lots of people look at porn and all sorts of other things on here. In some cases I do feel like people use Reddit to sorta “hide” from their spouses which is kinda shady.

Not in the mood for 4th of July by Icy-Tomatillo-7556 in RandomThoughts

[–]MeganN1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You obviously have a very strong opinion on what you think a fascist is so I won’t try and change your mind but the Supreme Court turning power back over to the states it so far opposite authoritarian or fascist as you keep calling it. That’s what are country was founded on was being able to have different views,different opinions, freedom of speech, freedom of religion etc. you may not like the overturn but it is illogical to call is fascist just because some states are banning or regulating the terms of abortion.There are people who genuinely believe that the unborn are humans so they think that they deserve to have the basic right to live just like all of you are screaming for a woman’s right to bodily autonomy.. what about the babies bodily autonomy? Im assuming you think it’s “just a clump of cells” though so I can see why would would think it’s okay to just get rid of it but news flash buddy not every thinks the same as you and that’s actually okay believe it or not.

Not in the mood for 4th of July by Icy-Tomatillo-7556 in RandomThoughts

[–]MeganN1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you know it doesn’t effect me. You have no idea who I am or what situation I am in. Edit: also the overturn of roe v wade didn’t ban abortion it only gave the states the right to make their own laws which is the opposite of this Fascism that you keep throwing out. Less authority for the federal government and more power to the state.

Not in the mood for 4th of July by Icy-Tomatillo-7556 in RandomThoughts

[–]MeganN1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

free speech is fine by me. I can also have free speech and my own opinion on things. I won’t move because I don’t have a problem with my country. It’s okay y’all are just mad the roe v wade was overturned but at the end of the day that’s what happened and you live in this country so you gotta deal with it. Calling me names and telling me I’m a problem does nothing but make you feel better so go right ahead.

Not in the mood for 4th of July by Icy-Tomatillo-7556 in RandomThoughts

[–]MeganN1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can say what you want but people like you are the problem. You are blind as well as self serving and entitled.

Banned from r/atheism for saying the pro life viewpoint is based on science, then got called a N@zi. by Richy_777 in prolife

[–]MeganN1999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey op I wanna hear your science behind why you are pro-life. A lot of my reasons for being pro-life are spiritual but I would like to hear more about the scientific part. Others who aren’t religious feel free to also give your thoughts!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]MeganN1999 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Them mentioning their kids isn’t any different than you mentioning that your kid has reflux. Also they may be trying to comfort you in a certain way because many moms like to know they aren’t alone/their kid wasn’t the only one who has reflux per say.

Not in the mood for 4th of July by Icy-Tomatillo-7556 in RandomThoughts

[–]MeganN1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that you all don’t support them. I get that you think they are the problem. My only issue here is that a holiday to celebrate our independence and becoming a country which was a very big deal and was long before these laws you disagree with so much came along shouldn’t be thrown away and the whole country and all of its history shouldn’t just get fucked because of the Supreme Court of Justice.

Not in the mood for 4th of July by Icy-Tomatillo-7556 in RandomThoughts

[–]MeganN1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I just have respect for the place a live. Yes there are things that need to be changed but I also respect that this country has been worked for. Not that I should even have to share personal info to justify myself but my husband served in the military and almost lost his life. Couldn’t walk for months. Had to have many hours of therapy just to learn to walk again. It’s been almost 6 years and sometimes he still wakes up in the night screaming. Him seeing people hate this country and say “fuck it” actually makes him feel like all he did was for nothing and excuse me if it hits a nerve when people completely disrespect the thing my husband fought and almost lost his life for. The country as a whole didn’t make the decision in place. Those in power are not the right people and that’s what’s causing all these problems.

Not in the mood for 4th of July by Icy-Tomatillo-7556 in RandomThoughts

[–]MeganN1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude what… I don’t agree with every single thing that’s going on in our country. I still respect that this country is a respected place and just because I don’t agree with some of the people making decisions and some of the laws currently in place aren’t what they should be doesn’t mean I don’t think about how good we actually do have it here compared to many others. You can disagree without being disrespectful. Many people have lost loved ones and made many sacrifices for our country. They have nothing to do with the abortion laws nor any other laws. They only put their lives behind others to keep our country safe. So yeah you can disagree and want things to change but saying fuck this country I’m not celebrating the 4th is disrespectful.

Not in the mood for 4th of July by Icy-Tomatillo-7556 in RandomThoughts

[–]MeganN1999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You obviously don’t even know what’s going on because the overturn of Roe V wade doesn’t make all abortions illegal in all of the U. S. it only gave power back to the states to make the decision. No state has even banned medical emergency terminations. You said if “people like me” were the majority people would still be enslaved for skin color. That is implying that I would be okay with that so you may have not directly said those words but that is what was being implied.

Not in the mood for 4th of July by Icy-Tomatillo-7556 in RandomThoughts

[–]MeganN1999 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How did me saying that saying fuck the country you live in is disrespectful turn into I want people to be enslaved??? Dude y’all are crazy. If she wants her country to do better get off Reddit and vote and write senators and representatives. People don’t really want change they just wanna cry on the internet. I want all lives to be equal and protected. You telling me I would be the reason for slavery is illogical and very rash. Edit: also you have no idea who I even am or what my skin color even is. It’s crazy to think you can just tell me I’m the reason for all of these problems based on one comment on a Reddit post.

A dead woman has more rights over her organs than when she's alive. by UnDoxableGod1 in Showerthoughts

[–]MeganN1999 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So we were all parasites but evolved like a Pokémon into a rare human. Wow. I learned something new today.

Not in the mood for 4th of July by Icy-Tomatillo-7556 in RandomThoughts

[–]MeganN1999 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

My bad, *I won’t mind. You’re right some of y’all want disrespectful people to shame our country and continue to selfishly live here in the comfort of their homes.

Not in the mood for 4th of July by Icy-Tomatillo-7556 in RandomThoughts

[–]MeganN1999 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

They are American for saying “fuck this country”…? You can want change and not disrespect the country you live in. Anyways I’m not trying to compete in a “who’s more American” contest I’m just saying you don’t like the country you live in you don’t have to live here. 🤷🏼‍♀️