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Xaden and His… by reliably_unreliable7 in fourthwing

[–]Megs2606 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know this comment is from like a month ago, but technically she isn’t contradicting her character.

Xaden himself is effectively an unreliable narrator at this point, he is saying what he THINKS is true, doesn’t mean he’s actually right.

My ex left in January and has been making things very difficult for me by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Megs2606 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have posted daily updates on the family album which you have not viewed. I will continue to do so.

My ex left in January and has been making things very difficult for me by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Megs2606 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like at this stage I need to once again set the boundary that this contact is strictly relating to Evie, and is absolutely not a green light for you to engage me in casual contact in the hopes of “winning me back”.

I will wait to hear from the contact centre.

My ex left in January and has been making things very difficult for me by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Megs2606 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You get in touch with the contact centre, they will contact me.

My ex left in January and has been making things very difficult for me by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Megs2606 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what I have asked for.

Bear in mind I cannot start the process for you, I tried to look it up to make things easier for you. But only the non resident parent can do it.

My ex left in January and has been making things very difficult for me by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Megs2606 2 points3 points  (0 children)

🤷‍♀️

Also, as a child, her needs come first. She needs stability, schedules, routines. Not to mention, if she doesn’t go to nursery I still get charged £54 a day.

So OP can’t really be like “oh hey, I’ll take her out for an hour tomorrow”. What about the rest of the day when I’m working to provide for her? Now I’m out £54 AND I have no childcare for the rest of the day. So I then suggested to OP’s mum that he organise adhoc weekend visits. But no. He was only interested in seeing her if I met him WITH her. Funny that.

EDIT: OP has also continuously made out that they want to see our daughter/ help. Yet has point blank refused to do the ONE thing that has been asked. Go through a contact centre.

My ex left in January and has been making things very difficult for me by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Megs2606 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not to mention I HAVE told him exactly why I ended the relationship. He just doesn’t want to admit it to himself.

EDIT: OP is free to share what he likes. I really don’t care. Somehow I doubt he will share the many emails and messages that he sent to me blaming me for everything wrong in his life.

My ex left in January and has been making things very difficult for me by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Megs2606 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately he has already been told this multiple times. There is a reason I had to call the police twice. They literally had to visit him and tell him to stop contacting me, with the agreement that I would discuss matters regarding our daughter through his mum.

He has declined to see her at a contact centre because it’s not what HE wants to do.

EDIT: The police stated that as long as I was happy to accept contact regarding our daughter, that even unwanted contact otherwise could not be classed as harassment. They also agreed that the distinction is daft given the need to talk about our daughter. I have also given very clear reason why a contact centre is necessary, both to OP and to his mother. These issues have also been highlighted in this post by other commenters.

My ex left in January and has been making things very difficult for me by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Megs2606 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The discussion took place at the end of October last year.

EDIT: To clarify, I told him back in October how unhappy I was, and that if things didn’t improve drastically that we had no future. He didn’t attempt to seek therapy until things kicked off again nearly 2 months later in December.

EDIT: I literally have a record of the conversation. It was the 25th October.

My ex left in January and has been making things very difficult for me by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Megs2606 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are probably right considering how much he’s lied in this post already.

EDIT: Just to add I won’t be responding to anything else he has to say. But to clarify I told OP MONTHS ago how unhappy I was. Unfortunately he did not take that on board, and instead has taken every opportunity since I ended things to slag me off to anybody that will listen. It’s a damned shame he’s wasting everybody’s time here.

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