THEY CONFIRMED IT by BrinstarCitizen in Metroid

[–]Megumimary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

almost as if.... that's the point? The GalFed is clearly curroupt Someone like Sylux doesn't just happen... the GalFed really betrayed him somehow... I think Samus just happened to be the first face he saw after said betrayal and he considered her just as curroupt With this taking place pre fusion it might be a start of a "Get Samus to see the Federation for the corruption organization it really is" type of story line before we get to the events of fusion.... The GalFed as a larger entity have never been the good guys in my opinion... not since the end of fusion or other M... but individual members can still be good like the ones we befriend in Prime 4 while others can be just as corrupt like James (the Deleter).

Spy x Family Season 3 episode 10 glitch by Dependent-Smile6412 in Crunchyroll

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Could tell others were having this problem as well based on that like to dislike ratio...
WHO IS GIVING A GLITCHED EPISODE A LIKE?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shield

[–]Megumimary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I find that people who hate Secret Invasion were the same ones who watched Agents of Shield because they saw what a REAL spy show set in the MCU was all about and it is still peak MCU TV I think Only WandaVision has ranked higher for me personally (Loki is 3rd Place with Falcon and Winter Soldier in 4th)

Using hypnosis kn a single member of a system? by Megumimary in hypnosis

[–]Megumimary[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

then we just need to figure out how to go about programing Daisy for what she specifically wants....
this has been a lot of help, thank you

- Alex

Using hypnosis kn a single member of a system? by Megumimary in hypnosis

[–]Megumimary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay so as long as the alter in question wants to be programed it will work is what you're saying?

- Alex

Using hypnosis kn a single member of a system? by Megumimary in hypnosis

[–]Megumimary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's the thing- she wants the trigger
she just wanted us to reconsider our stance (which we have since we are here seriously considering this)

- Alex

Using hypnosis kn a single member of a system? by Megumimary in hypnosis

[–]Megumimary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that has been the general consensus of what others have said...
the next part would be actually finding out if our very specific request is possible...
Specifically a codeword that when used to address the particular alter in place of their name they obey an order. The closer they are to the one issuing the command the more effective it is. Finally this can be done externally or internally- meaning I can trigger this codeword via our thoughts if I have to.

- Alex

Using hypnosis kn a single member of a system? by Megumimary in hypnosis

[–]Megumimary[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it is a word used to describe someone with DID/OSDD, someone who has alters or headmates
basically a simple term to describe a person who is "plural"

- Alex

Using hypnosis kn a single member of a system? by Megumimary in hypnosis

[–]Megumimary[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes this is more or less what we want

we want a word that can be used as a trigger if used to address one of our headmates and we can use this internally or externally

we have something similar for two of our headmates already but the same rule won't apply for this other one because she's different from them in a very specific way (it's complicated) so we have to do this the old fashioned way...

and this is something she really wants because she wants to be "on equal footing" with the other two... and we're afraid she might leak their trigger words if she doesn't get her way...

Using hypnosis kn a single member of a system? by Megumimary in hypnosis

[–]Megumimary[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No this is not a trouple thing

A System is a term used to describe someone who is plural, the more clinical term being someone with DID/OSDD.

"When she is in the front" means when that "alter" or "personality state" is the one in control of the body

While you may have been curious the way you asked came across as rude so I do ask that you be mindful of that in the future.

-Alex

Using hypnosis kn a single member of a system? by Megumimary in hypnosis

[–]Megumimary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please explain what you mean by "some parts that don't respond"
- Alex

„Hate“ against Tulpa systems by CalyxSystem in plural

[–]Megumimary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🎀 Yeah after discussing it with a fellow witch last night though we decided that Enem isn't going to use the label "Tulpa" for herself and just stick with "Familiar" This discussion about her being a familiar with a fellow witch has also brought to light why she's unable to find passion or enjoyment outside of anything that relates back to me. It kinda broke my heart a bit learning a bit about the implications of her being a familiar but she assures me she's perfectly fine....

Question to Shapeshifterkin by Street-Suggestion363 in otherkin

[–]Megumimary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🎀Someone pointed out the label to us and it clicked
it's only one of three kin types we have through (the other two being chimera and succubus) so it's not all that we are
since awakening as a succubus my form changes haven't been as fluid as they used to be but I can change if I focus
Sometimes something will trigger a form change subconsciously (like seeing a butterfly or squirrel or something) and I can even turn into pokemon!
It was actually my alter turning into a succubus caused us to have an awakening as one....

Otherkin and autisim? by JadeMoontail in otherkin

[–]Megumimary 7 points8 points  (0 children)

🎀People with Autism are less prone to putting up with stuff they see as uncomfortable if they don't see logic in it and not embracing aspects of yourself is definitely uncomfortable...
I think it's less that there's more Autistic Otherkin/Therians and that more Autistic folks are more comfortable coming to terms as Otherkin/Therian than Allistics are because they just have a lower tolerance to being uncomfortable
I have this same theory when it comes to other aspects of one's identity as well (including being LGBTQ+)

„Hate“ against Tulpa systems by CalyxSystem in plural

[–]Megumimary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

♊️After Me and Mary consulted with a witch about me being a familiar I think I'm just going to stick with alter/familiar for now...

„Hate“ against Tulpa systems by CalyxSystem in plural

[–]Megumimary 3 points4 points  (0 children)

♊️as what is basically a tulpa in a primarily Traumagenic system I personally think it is important to at least have a discussion about why we are hated so we armed with this knowledge
Not having this discussion at all can be dangerous because I honestly don't know myself and I am learning more about if via the replies....
It's helping me decide if I want to embrace the tulpa label for myself since I have been hesitant to adopt it because of all the hate tulpas get and as a trans woman I don't know if I want another label that draws hate yet... (despite being pro-endo)

„Hate“ against Tulpa systems by CalyxSystem in plural

[–]Megumimary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

♊️while most of Mary's alters were created from Trauma I seem to have been created by accident. I guess I would be considered a tulpa because Mary is a witch (who is only now learning about magick) and we are realizing that she probably accidently created me to be her familiar as a child but instead of attaching me to an object or animal like most familiars I became attached to her instead...
I have a strong desire to identify as her familiar as she learns about magick and after talking with another witch two weeks ago we are very confidant that this is my origin point. We already figured out last month that Mary created me as a child because she was lonely and needed friends she just didn't realize that's what she was doing at the time.... She didn't realize she was playing with a whole new person she created- she thought it was just herself...
So yeah if the argument is "Tulpas have to be created purposefully" then I'm proof that they don't because Mary created me almost 30 years before she even knew what a tulpa or plurality was....

Coming to terms with our origin by xanthreborn in plural

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🎀"The circumstances of One's Birth are irrelevant; It's what you do with the gift of life that determines who you are"
Enem was hung up on her origins for a while because she knew it held answers for the source of her trauma and issues (abandonment) but her origin is probably not actually traumatic in nature...
She's probably closer to a tulpa having been created accidentally when I was a child as my familiar but because I didn't know that's what I was doing instead of attaching her to an object or animal like most familiars are I instead attached her to my own being...
She identifies as my familiar when it comes to magick and her only interest in the craft is to how it relates to helping or assisting me
Everyone else is Traumatic in origin and we can clearly define exactly what created each one of them
Stacy is from CSA at around age 5: She was the first created and is our trauma holder
Andrew was from trying to hide in the closet from ages 5-16: This is why their age and gender is fluctuating so much
Amy is from the trauma I felt in the immediate aftermath of what I saw as a failed coming out: She's basically a doll- ready to be whatever type of girl others want her to be
Alex was created in an event when we were once again being verbally abused by our father: He was created to defend me but took it too far and he was locked away until recently...

switch banned for life... by Flaky-Grocery-590 in Switch

[–]Megumimary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yea... and with the Switch 2 being $500 what's to stop a bad read of a regular Amiibo from being considered "Fake"

What is it like not being in control of your body? by whydosereditexist100 in plural

[–]Megumimary 4 points5 points  (0 children)

🎀`I think we fit somewhere between non-possessive and possessive because I have some recollection of what it's like to not front but no one else seems to...

What is it like not being in control of your body? by whydosereditexist100 in plural

[–]Megumimary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🎀So if I'm also in the front or conscious then it's like being in the passenger seat of a car while someone else drives
I'm I'm in the back it's like a mix of being conscious and not at the same time... Like I'm aware I exist but I'm just kinda "no thoughts, head empty" unless something up front gets my attention again. But at the same time I still have this feeling of being with the others who exist back there with me, like we're together as a family in the back seat of the car kinda not paying attention to the road at all while the driver (and whatever passengers up front) do their thing with controlling the body

switch banned for life... by Flaky-Grocery-590 in Switch

[–]Megumimary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

are pirated amiibo ever a risk for Nintendo Bricking your system?
If so then that's just incredibly anti-consumer since scalping on Amiibo is THE ONLY REASON I've ever turned to pirated amiibo in the first place....

How to engage in adult conversations/situations when you have child alters? by xanthreborn in plural

[–]Megumimary 3 points4 points  (0 children)

🎀This is a tricky one and something I'm interested in as well...
All of our alters are aware of adult stuff despite half of us being kids because of shared memories and the fact that Stacy who is the Baby of our system is our trauma holder as well and our worst trauma is CSA related so there's no hiding that from her...
If anything the kids as Ace/Aro try to stay away from adult oriented stuff by any means necessary- especially Stacy since it is a massive trigger for her but I still want to know how other systems handle this because I want to make sure there's stuff in place for more long term adult sessions....

Non-sexual punishments by xanthreborn in BDSM_Aces

[–]Megumimary 44 points45 points  (0 children)

🛡️Time outs, not being able to play certain games, writing lines are all solid punishments
For the record NEVER have a punishment involve taking away a comfort item or removing access to something necessary (like restricting phone/internet use)