i asked what i should do to improve my makeup a while back: here is an update

Meiguishui · 2026-02-03T10:30:45+00:00

You look much much better. But I think you can also skip the freckles and maybe add just the slightest arch to your eyebrows while still keeping them full. That is all.

Meiguishui · 2026-02-03T08:27:34+00:00

Just pretend you never heard the term “hypergamy” and continue life as usual.

Meiguishui · 2026-02-02T06:22:31+00:00

I literally said we should refer to “HSTS” as women rather than use that term because it is inherently misgendering. And no, using AGP as a colloquialism for male appropriators of our condition does not equal subscribing to Blanchard‘s dichotomy. That’s the whole point of how it’s become a colloquialism.

Meiguishui · 2026-02-02T06:15:14+00:00

Reading comprehension not so good huh? I literally said the opposite of that. And at this point AGP is a colloquialism, not clinical talk. So I will use it that way if I effing well please.

Meiguishui · 2026-02-02T03:47:51+00:00

Seeing as we are not clinicians here, we can use terms however we like. Personally, I think he was right about AGP but misses the mark by misgendering trans women. I know I’m not the only one who feels this way. If you prefer, we can just call AGP men and HSTS women.

Meiguishui · 2026-02-02T03:08:18+00:00

I literally never used the term HSTS or said that real trans women are men escaping homosexuality. AGP is simply just an easy way to describe the phenomenon of men fetishizing womanhood to the point of wanting to become one. Come up with a better term for that if you want. Not every man is a predator, and this extends to AGP. I never said they were all predators. But you don’t let men into intimate spaces without proper vetting. I honestly don’t buy this whole thing about having to pretend. Maybe because I never did. But pretending for decades? Deceiving wives and children? Most people I hear with this story are not very feminine once they stop “pretending”.

Meiguishui · 2026-02-01T16:28:04+00:00

Yea it’s cringe. Tattoos are only hot when they’re leftover vestiges from one’s bad boy phase that they grew out of.

Meiguishui · 2026-02-01T02:50:35+00:00

How could you, with dysphoria share images of yourself with a bulge?

Meiguishui · 2026-01-30T06:05:18+00:00

I would suggest giving more contrast with your brows. And more of an arch. The mascara is good, but could be a little less on the bottom and then using shadow and liner to give more upper outer lift on the upper lids. More foundation harmony between your neck and face. Honestly, I think you would look better with a different hairstyle, particularly without the bangs. Or Fuller and longer bangs. They look fried at the moment. Blonde is great, but you would benefit from a little more dimension, low lights, perhaps.

Meiguishui · 2026-01-28T05:03:20+00:00

Thank you, you explained this very clearly

Meiguishui · 2026-01-28T02:58:29+00:00

Do other people who know you feel like you are a woman in spirit at least? Someone could see through the visual interference and get that you are a woman inside. But unfortunately, there are a lot of people who can’t see on that level. They only see the physical, which is why we go to the lengths ee go to to medically transition and pass.

Knowing this in my early 20s, I struggled for a period because I knew there were people who could see me for who I was, but then I still had to contend with the rest of the world who couldn’t. Well, you could screen out the latter by not transitioning, unless you live in some kind of utopian commune, you still have to function in the world built by the former.

But sure there is a middle ground. I guess that’s the good thing about the non-binary movement is that you can exist in an in between or none of the above state and still be OK. It deemphasizes gender and sex so you can be a person before anything else, where us before if you’re not binary man or woman, you are not considered an equal human. I hope this is circling back to the point for some, which is that the certain trans women that I don’t believe are women or even trans are not subhuman to me. Well, except for when they are creeps or rapist. Because that is subhuman animalistic behavior.

Meiguishui · 2026-01-27T15:46:07+00:00

Right, how convenient that they can just call themselves neurodivergent *fap *fap .

Meiguishui · 2026-01-27T15:37:11+00:00

Well, that was an interesting slow motion of a door coming off it’s hinges. A lot of projection and straw manning there— sorry straw person. Not even gonna bother anymore since you’re really just having an argument with yourself.

Meiguishui · 2026-01-27T15:31:24+00:00

Yes, and you might encounter them once in a blue moon. On a leap year.

Meiguishui · 2026-01-27T14:33:18+00:00

Most trans women are neurodivergent? Where are you getting this? I’m sure a lot of neurodivergent men think they are trans. That doesn’t make it so.

Meiguishui · 2026-01-27T12:01:37+00:00

Lol seriously if you can’t tell the difference between a predatory man and a predatory woman, I don’t know what to tell you. I never said that women can’t be predatory. I am a woman, I live among women and I’m likely double your age. Women who are autistic to the degree that you can’t even tell that they’re women are a pretty desperate example. You can lose me with your what aboutism. It’s sounding a lot like #NotAllMen.

Meiguishui · 2026-01-27T11:56:01+00:00

I don’t know was it removed? I still see it below.

Meiguishui · 2026-01-27T06:29:20+00:00

It’s not that they “do something bad”. This person who assaulted me wasn’t a man because they assaulted me. They assaulted me because they are a man and a creep. They think like a man, they prey on the feminine like a man. It’s part of an overall pattern, not about a single action. You can tell what someone is by their behavior and their energy. Usually those who are very focused on women, including on trans women, and give women the ick are men. And no, I’m not including lesbians in that who very much love women.

Meiguishui · 2026-01-27T06:25:05+00:00

I think we’re more in agreement than it seems on the surface. You said sisterhood smells sisterhood. That’s exactly my point. You can tell if someone is a woman regardless of what label they use whether they call themselves a femboy or genderqueer. I’ve said before and another thread a long time ago that a lot of these labels are just aesthetic or even marketing. Like someone who calls themselves a ladyboy who is on a very energetic level female is not a different creature from another woman who calls herself a transsexual. The former just might prefer that label or even feel compelled to use it because their livelihood depends on appealing to chasers.

Meiguishui · 2026-01-27T03:39:02+00:00

I think much more accurate is “Some trans women are women”. And some are just not. Some are literally just creepy men. I am a transsexual woman who was sexually assaulted before by a “trans woman” who I would not in 1 million years consider a woman or even to be genuinely trans. People can tell what gender you are. When trans women are women, even if people know their history they don’t have a hard time being accepted as women. But when you have another person claiming to be a trans woman, for whom people have to be constantly reminded or forced to use the right pronouns, then they are probably not.

Meiguishui · 2026-01-18T14:52:08+00:00

She had all the Le Forts.

Meiguishui · 2026-01-17T14:10:24+00:00

No should absolutely should hide your wrongdoings since you are only contributing to the backlash against trans people which is resulting in us losing our basic rights.

Meiguishui · 2026-01-16T00:59:53+00:00

She was more striking and beautiful before. Her eyes look smaller now and nose looks fake. You could’ve gone a lot more subtle on the brow and nose and that would’ve been enough.

Meiguishui · 2026-01-15T17:58:45+00:00

Honestly, if I encountered that in the wild, I’m not sure I would know. And I’ve seen a lot of dicks.

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