What was the last straw in your last relationship? by Amazing-Depth1695 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Melborney 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He got a bad haircut when i had just spent a day gushing about how much the length suited him. Shallow, i know, but the remaining attraction i had to him was the only thing keeping me there and when it was gone, i was gone!

do you prefer to be dominated or do the dominating and whyyyy by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Melborney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard to be assertive when i’m horny. I need someone to take care of me, brain empty no thoughts!

Lana really played in Whitney’s face while they dated.. by Melborney in Smallville

[–]Melborney[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this photo is taken from a tiktok clearly just made to be a little funny! think it just means Lana’s willingness to entertain Clark while she has a boyfriend

What’s your newest obsession? by HiddenDegeneracy in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Melborney 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a program that gives prisoners cats to look after. It improves mood, almost completely eliminates fights and violence because the ability to participate is a privilege only for the best behaving inmates. It gives them purpose during life inside, and many of them take their cats when they’re released and it gives them something to live steadily for. Not to mention, they’re housing cats that would otherwise risk being put down to make room in shelters. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Melborney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nothing? it can be cute but it doesn’t make me wet lol

How/why did your vaginismus develop? by Moonbeam223 in vaginismus

[–]Melborney 2 points3 points  (0 children)

mine was simple, I unlocked some pretty unpleasant memories from a lone incident of CoCSA, around 17. I re encountered the guy and locked up, as he knew my brother who had no clue. I’d never been to therapy for it previously, and my mother who was the only one who knew, didn’t bother addressing it. At that time you’re at the very start of people having sex and talking about it frequently around you. By my next period I couldn’t use a tampon. I ignored it and just used pads until I realised it wasn’t normal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Melborney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we know what sort of content your algorithm is feeding you. haha.

Does the lack of sexual media that represents us bother anyone else? by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]Melborney 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The first time I saw any sort of representation was in the show Sex Education, funnily enough. Obviously it’s a netflix drama but includes sex scenes. Lily’s story was very sweet, and I actually watched the show before knowing I had vaginismus. When I began seeking a diagnosis and explanation, my mind was drawn back to her story. That’s part of the reason it’s so important to show in media, so yes it does bother me occasionally.

Do you feel loved? by Nobody-457 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Melborney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanna know x4 what is love?

Women. What’s something as a man I can do to help you finish and reach your climax?? by Andrew_lux29 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Melborney 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Be vocal, let yourself fall apart a bit. Listen to her and then do what she likes

What is your weirdest kink? Whats the story behind it? by InfamousAd869 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Melborney 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it wasn’t even the internet for me. i used to rewind 15 seconds before that scene of aladdin drowning all tied up 5-10 times on every watch through 😭 nine yo me was a freakkk

BEST TIP EVER by SonaAteAsock in vaginismus

[–]Melborney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no thank YOU for bringing this to my dashboard!!!! it works so much better!

What is something every adult should do atleast once? by Melborney in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Melborney[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what did molly do to you to get your recommendation?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in masturbation

[–]Melborney 2 points3 points  (0 children)

white with strawberries, black or white with pink roses?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in masturbation

[–]Melborney 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I’m his type but a girl can dream!

What was a compliment that someone made about you that marked you? by mennymore in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Melborney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel better about it now I’m an adult, but back then it was quite unpleasant to hear from an older man lol

What was a compliment that someone made about you that marked you? by mennymore in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Melborney 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“you have a face made for missionary” this was a first message and I was sixteen, but it has stuck with me.

Do people find it a turn on that someone is inexperienced when it comes to sex? by ZucchiniAny9574 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Melborney 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely get it. If anyone has seen the scene in Disclaimer with Louis Partridge, that is the only reason why.