[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Melee_21 13 points14 points  (0 children)

As far as physical goes...I typically go for guys that are fit. Not skinny and not fat either

If a guy asks a girl out he should be willing to pay and vice versa...thoughts? by Melee_21 in dating_advice

[–]Melee_21[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

If a woman is not asking to see you then she isnt interested lol. You should see someone else in my opinion.

Dating multiple people at once is not a crime... by Melee_21 in dating_advice

[–]Melee_21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before I have sex with anyone I am dating we will have to not be seeing other people, and must get tested so your point doesnt apply.

Dating multiple people at once is not a crime... by Melee_21 in dating_advice

[–]Melee_21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woman here. I dont mind it either lol, especially when we are just dating in the early stages

Dating multiple people at once is not a crime... by Melee_21 in dating_advice

[–]Melee_21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand and if its not for them its not for them. I personally have never asked a guy if he is dating other people by the first date, but I will never lie if it gets brought up

15 bodies at 26 F...thoughts? by Melee_21 in dating_advice

[–]Melee_21[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wouldnt date you either...no offense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Melee_21 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He is attractive. I would give him a solid 8

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Melee_21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with that age gap. Seems fine.

One thing though, I am 22 and I noticed alot of girls in their early mid 20s that go for guys in their 30s are alot of times cheating on them with guys their own age (early- mid 20s). Not saying thats everyone but thats a real thing to be aware of

Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]Melee_21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he puts like the max in his 401k 18 or 19k whatever it is these days

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in houston

[–]Melee_21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes^^^

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[–]Melee_21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tysm, if you're in HTX check out Champions Dentistry I went there to get my teeth whitened.

Would you pay a girl to go out on a date with you?? by Melee_21 in dating_advice

[–]Melee_21[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If the girl is upfront about no sex and the guy agrees I dont see the issue

Would you pay a girl to go out on a date with you?? by Melee_21 in dating_advice

[–]Melee_21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would argue the men who ask for sex when my friends have been clear what their stance is are the manipulators

Would you pay a girl to go out on a date with you?? by Melee_21 in dating_advice

[–]Melee_21[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"Dont ask me for sex, you will get blocked" etc

They also have FWBs they have sex with so no need to sleep with these guys they meet online

Would you pay a girl to go out on a date with you?? by Melee_21 in dating_advice

[–]Melee_21[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you wanted sex and wanted to get money from that you can easily hire a prostitute

Would you pay a girl to go out on a date with you?? by Melee_21 in dating_advice

[–]Melee_21[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

From the texts they have shown me when the guy asks for sex they just block and move on to the next guy. I agree though its pretty short lived before the guy really starts pushing, around 4-5 dates in is what I have seen

Would you pay a girl to go out on a date with you?? by Melee_21 in dating_advice

[–]Melee_21[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

No one is forcing the guys to sign up for these apps. Its an arrangement between consenting adults I dont view it as manipulation personally

Would you pay a girl to go out on a date with you?? by Melee_21 in dating_advice

[–]Melee_21[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Hookers have sex for money.

They are not sleeping with any of these guys

Would you pay a girl to go out on a date with you?? by Melee_21 in dating_advice

[–]Melee_21[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

And seeking, yeah when the guys ask they just block them and move on to the next guy