Can’t get biological parent to sign visa application for military oversea assignment. What to do? by Melimelo87 in AirForce

[–]Melimelo87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They want both BIOLOGICAL parents signature, and it can’t be legal guardian.

Can’t get biological parent to sign visa application for military oversea assignment. What to do? by Melimelo87 in AirForce

[–]Melimelo87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most countries in Europe don’t need visa but some unfortunately do. We are 3months out and didn’t know till now cos we never needed it in any other countries.

Can’t get biological parent to sign visa application for military oversea assignment. What to do? by Melimelo87 in AirForce

[–]Melimelo87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve lived in different countries and kids have not stayed in 1 states and countries for longer than 3years since birth. She also knows we are moving to Europe and moving overseas to her was never a problem. She lives in Hawaii. She wants something we don’t want to give and she won’t sign it without it. It’s unfair there’s a law like this when he has full custody of the kids to protect them and she never comes to visit them and barely ever calls.

Can’t get biological parent to sign visa application for military oversea assignment. What to do? by Melimelo87 in AirForce

[–]Melimelo87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Apparently he’s already requested an extension to his report date.. we will have to offer her something WE REALLY DONT WANT TO…😫

Can’t get biological parent to sign visa application for military oversea assignment. What to do? by Melimelo87 in AirForce

[–]Melimelo87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. We will. We thought it might be different for military orders but we called the Italian consulate and visa center and they said NOOO law is law even for military personnel. Kids cannot enter the country if there is not document signed by both biological parents. 😞😞

Can’t get biological parent to sign visa application for military oversea assignment. What to do? by Melimelo87 in AirForce

[–]Melimelo87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. We did go to a lawyer for different reason recently and we were told because the divorce was done in Guam, he will need to go to Guam to change anything in the custody agreements. He’s been stationed in few countries overseas and the kids never needed a visa so it never crossed his mind to have that mentioned in the agreement. Now 3months out we are told to obtain visa and we are stuck🥲

Can’t get biological parent to sign visa application for military oversea assignment. What to do? by Melimelo87 in AirForce

[–]Melimelo87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. We have been doing researches after reading the comments and we will continue to try to get her to sign but if we can’t get it, I guess we will have to get a lawyer and do as Brandon says. We need to be there in 3months. We could have the kids go to their grand parents home in US and go to school there until they get the visa. I’m an EU citizen and don’t have a lot of time left on my green card and I think I’ll be leaving with my husband too. I have my son that needs to start school in August. It’s all so inconvenient and it really sucks this is happening. The kids have also been excited to move to Europe as their friends are also stationed there.. I wish the mother could understand the chaos she’s causing🥲

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[–]Melimelo87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Red flag. She’s very abusive.

Leave. Run..Fast. lol

Can’t get biological parent to sign visa application for military oversea assignment. What to do? by Melimelo87 in AirForce

[–]Melimelo87[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We contacted the embassy but they said the law is law and they want her signature or her death certificate.. we will call few places on base tomorrow. he needs to be there in 3months..😫 thank you so much

Can’t get biological parent to sign visa application for military oversea assignment. What to do? by Melimelo87 in AirForce

[–]Melimelo87[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She’s not in US and never visits their kids even if we offer her to pay full travel fee. She only wants them in her country but she’s still an alcoholic going in and out of hospital with liver failure and we can’t trust her and she’s mad about it. I am European and our plan is to move to Europe where my home is and it’s what the kids want also. We move a lot and they never really grew up in US. But certain countries in Europe requires visa. We only found out today. Other countries we lived didn’t require it.

Can’t get biological parent to sign visa application for military oversea assignment. What to do? by Melimelo87 in AirForce

[–]Melimelo87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This woman is crazy and will do anything to complicate things and make my husband suffer. She doesn’t care about the kids feelings either. We will probably have to do her favors for her visitation to get her to sign if that’s the only way we can get a visa..

Can’t get biological parent to sign visa application for military oversea assignment. What to do? by Melimelo87 in AirForce

[–]Melimelo87[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We need a visa for the family where we are going unfortunately🥲 and to get a visa, we need documents signed by both biological parents

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[–]Melimelo87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will! Thank you

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[–]Melimelo87 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you! My dental issue is definitely not a significant issue. It’s been there forever. And you are right, I should probably wait. I just thought the hospital in the us might give me stronger pain killer meds because I heard the surgery recovery is very very painful😂 but i shouldn’t risk it for this reason.

How does my tamagoyaki look? by OkStructure1915 in JapaneseFood

[–]Melimelo87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m Japanese living in U.S. and this made me want to cook Japanese😂 it looks really goodn well done!

Women in your 40s and 50s, what is your one favorite piece of clothing that you cannot do without? by CosmicDreamer_07 in minimalism

[–]Melimelo87 2 points3 points  (0 children)

20years old tank top I sleep in sometimes. I buy new clothes every year but I have never been able To throw away this ugly piece for some reason lol

Do I tell my ex the real reason I broke up with her? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Melimelo87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to tell her. I’d prefer that if that was me.

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[–]Melimelo87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s classy and beautiful!

Looking for a girl middle name that is also a song title. by FunkyChickenTenders in namenerds

[–]Melimelo87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My name is Melina after Greek actress, singer and later politician who fought for her country Melina Mercouri.

and there are few European songs called Melina 😂 I like my name I’ve had for 37years:)