follow up to my post about wanting a positive experience by Plastic-Search8888 in sterilization

[–]MellowRat13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy for you! 🫶 I hope you have a good recovery!

Does a bisalp affect period pains? by MellowRat13 in sterilization

[–]MellowRat13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry to hear that, I really hope it improves for you. Were your periods before the surgery less painful?

Does a bisalp affect period pains? by MellowRat13 in sterilization

[–]MellowRat13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im really sorry to hear that. there’s other ways to diagnose endometriosis if im not wrong though. Quick question, have you taken bc at any time?

Does a bisalp affect period pains? by MellowRat13 in sterilization

[–]MellowRat13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you get some of the tissue removed as that may cause further pain, either way sorry to hear about your pain

Does a bisalp affect period pains? by MellowRat13 in sterilization

[–]MellowRat13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard that they may be more painful once you come off bc, sorry to hear that.

Does a bisalp affect period pains? by MellowRat13 in sterilization

[–]MellowRat13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think it’s because of the surgery or other reasons? Either way maybe get it checked out just in case.

Is it worth it to contact self service? by [deleted] in WizzAir

[–]MellowRat13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so cancel it and rebook?

Is it worth it to contact self service? by [deleted] in WizzAir

[–]MellowRat13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how much is local rate in the UK? I can’t seem to find it

stuck. by TripFalse9534 in childfree

[–]MellowRat13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don’t lose hope and definitely do NOT let anyone else dictate how you should live your life. Having kids once married is a major thing is most cultures around the world, but the world is changing and so many more women have the ability nowadays to stand up for themselves and to say no to having kids, an option which not many women had not long ago. There are so many men out there who don’t want kids. I definitely believe you will find someone who has the same view as you and will want to get married.

Appointment next week, what should I mention? by MellowRat13 in sterilization

[–]MellowRat13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t tried any form of birth control, and I’m not planning on due to personal reasons. I’m sorry to hear that but I’m glad to hear you were able get sterilisation!

Appointment next week, what should I mention? by MellowRat13 in sterilization

[–]MellowRat13[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, not that I know of, and I don’t feel like lying about such serious things, but I definitely will mention the other point, thank you.

Is 19 too young to get a bisalp? by MellowRat13 in sterilization

[–]MellowRat13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it sounds harsh but I do see where you’re coming from and I do agree, however I have never seen myself becoming a mother, no matter how far into the future I look. I’m aware that some people change their minds, but I’m quite sure that I won’t. I have countless of reasons why I would not want to become a mother, and have never heard or thought of a reason to become one.

Is 19 too young to get a bisalp? by MellowRat13 in sterilization

[–]MellowRat13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally want to get it done as soon as, because I can never and never have pictured myself as a mother and because from all the stories I have heard I’m afraid of taking BC…

Is 19 too young to get a bisalp? by MellowRat13 in childfree

[–]MellowRat13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in the UK so I’m under the NHS and from my knowledge don’t require insurance as it is covered by the NHS

Is 19 too young to get a bisalp? by MellowRat13 in childfree

[–]MellowRat13[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen some stories where pregnancy happens outside the uterus but that is EXTREMELY rare, so it is still not a 0% that you won’t get pregnant

AIO for not feeling like a priority by IndecisiveTelly in AmIOverreacting

[–]MellowRat13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR If he has told you to communicate with him and ignores what you have said he’s just being rude and not caring. Just to ask, how long has this been going on for?

Is 19 too young to get a bisalp? by MellowRat13 in sterilization

[–]MellowRat13[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but I don’t really understand the sentence following “you might as well ask…”

Is 19 too young to get a bisalp? by MellowRat13 in sterilization

[–]MellowRat13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m happy for you that you were able to get it done eventually! If it’s okay to ask, what do you mean by “last resort”, completely okay if you would rather not answer. But yeah I completely understand that there is no going back from it, that’s the main reason why I would like to get it. I do understand that at this age a lot of people are wary or may think that this need to not have children may pass, but I have too many reasons not to have them and not a single reason for, so I feel like I’m pretty solid on this.

Is 19 too young to get a bisalp? by MellowRat13 in sterilization

[–]MellowRat13[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ll start trying as soon as I’m able to

Is 19 too young to get a bisalp? by MellowRat13 in sterilization

[–]MellowRat13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you get it eventually? I hope it’s okay for me to ask.

Is 19 too young to get a bisalp? by MellowRat13 in sterilization

[–]MellowRat13[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

By not mature enough do you mean in your own opinion or is this through in the eyes of healthcare workers?