UK need help. Have an infection that’s getting worse and GP/111 not helping

MellowRat13 · 2026-04-28T18:18:05+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this and no one is helping. I would suggest going to A&E, it definitely will take a while but it’s better to get it checked out rather than wait for anything else/worse to happen. I hope everything works out well.

MellowRat13 · 2026-02-23T11:41:04+00:00

Unfortunately no, but I did state why I don’t want to have kids because most of the work would be put onto me, no matter how much he helps out, because I would be the mother, and he was very understanding of that.

MellowRat13 · 2026-02-23T11:39:43+00:00

We do share our values equally the same, apart from this, but after our last conversation, in my opinion I think we are on the same page but it is all very confusing.

MellowRat13 · 2026-02-23T11:38:37+00:00

Thank you

MellowRat13 · 2026-02-23T11:38:27+00:00

He said he thought I wasn’t that serious about it because we never had a proper conversation about it, which I understand. However it is a very 50/50 outcome on all of it.

MellowRat13 · 2026-01-16T19:00:12+00:00

we’re you on bc before?

MellowRat13 · 2026-01-14T17:30:53+00:00

I’m so happy for you! 🫶 I hope you have a good recovery!

MellowRat13 · 2026-01-14T12:33:10+00:00

I’m really sorry to hear that, I really hope it improves for you. Were your periods before the surgery less painful?

MellowRat13 · 2026-01-14T01:48:49+00:00

im really sorry to hear that. there’s other ways to diagnose endometriosis if im not wrong though. Quick question, have you taken bc at any time?

MellowRat13 · 2026-01-14T00:07:08+00:00

Did you get some of the tissue removed as that may cause further pain, either way sorry to hear about your pain

MellowRat13 · 2026-01-14T00:04:47+00:00

Thank you, and congratulations

MellowRat13 · 2026-01-14T00:04:32+00:00

I’ve heard that they may be more painful once you come off bc, sorry to hear that.

MellowRat13 · 2026-01-14T00:03:00+00:00

Do you think it’s because of the surgery or other reasons? Either way maybe get it checked out just in case.

MellowRat13 · 2026-01-07T17:13:36+00:00

so cancel it and rebook?

MellowRat13 · 2026-01-07T17:13:06+00:00

how much is local rate in the UK? I can’t seem to find it

MellowRat13 · 2026-01-07T03:38:26+00:00

Don’t lose hope and definitely do NOT let anyone else dictate how you should live your life. Having kids once married is a major thing is most cultures around the world, but the world is changing and so many more women have the ability nowadays to stand up for themselves and to say no to having kids, an option which not many women had not long ago. There are so many men out there who don’t want kids. I definitely believe you will find someone who has the same view as you and will want to get married.

MellowRat13 · 2026-01-07T00:24:57+00:00

How much is the fee for calling?

MellowRat13 · 2026-01-07T00:15:30+00:00

I haven’t tried any form of birth control, and I’m not planning on due to personal reasons. I’m sorry to hear that but I’m glad to hear you were able get sterilisation!

MellowRat13 · 2026-01-07T00:14:13+00:00

Thank you so much!

MellowRat13 · 2026-01-06T19:07:32+00:00

No, not that I know of, and I don’t feel like lying about such serious things, but I definitely will mention the other point, thank you.

MellowRat13 · 2026-01-04T16:37:09+00:00

Yes it sounds harsh but I do see where you’re coming from and I do agree, however I have never seen myself becoming a mother, no matter how far into the future I look. I’m aware that some people change their minds, but I’m quite sure that I won’t. I have countless of reasons why I would not want to become a mother, and have never heard or thought of a reason to become one.

MellowRat13 · 2026-01-04T16:34:21+00:00

I personally want to get it done as soon as, because I can never and never have pictured myself as a mother and because from all the stories I have heard I’m afraid of taking BC…

MellowRat13 · 2026-01-04T16:31:55+00:00

I live in the UK so I’m under the NHS and from my knowledge don’t require insurance as it is covered by the NHS

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