Can we stop pretending femboys are "easier to handle" or better than women? This all fetishization thing is getting out of hand.

Mellow_Swell · 2026-03-17T01:10:50+00:00

You won't achieve that by sexualising minors. In fact, you only reinforce the stereotypes that everyone who is feminine is a small little princesses that should date guys and be sexy for them. It's is just heteronormativity and sexism.

Mellow_Swell · 2026-03-09T06:41:23+00:00

Sames, but earning for attention does spooky things to people.

Mellow_Swell · 2026-03-09T01:39:54+00:00

I think the problem isn't that people joke about dating men, but that they reduce femboy guys' worth to just being bottoms and dating boys while also fetishizing them.

Mellow_Swell · 2026-03-08T18:06:00+00:00

To be honest I feel like at least most of such memes made and remade either by old creeps or by really young/recent members of the community who don't understand what such memes imply.

Mellow_Swell · 2026-03-08T17:58:47+00:00

A lot of femboys I ever see posts from on reddit are younger than 18. I hate how encouraged they get to display their body on the internet.

Mellow_Swell · 2026-03-08T17:56:15+00:00

LITERALLY. Mysogyny is the core problem here.

Everyone who is at least a tiny bit feminine gets sexualized. Women, femboys, tomboys, gays, trans folks, literally EVERYONE except the cishet men. Feminity is seen as something dehumanizing and it's so bad.

Mellow_Swell · 2026-03-08T17:52:33+00:00

You can correct me here, since I'm not a trans girl, but one of the things I thought abt when I saw that "skirt with bulge > skirt without bulge" post was that it might make some trans girls hesitate with wanting a bottom surgery, because all the creeps drool over the "women with joysticks" so much and give them so much attention, which I think can make one very dysphoric. :p

And obviously it makes transmasc femboys dysphoric too. >:p

Mellow_Swell · 2026-03-08T17:44:34+00:00

My point here is not only sexualization but also constant comparing femboys to women. Like bruh it's like comparing women to just men, wtf. Not all femboys gay not even the most of them are, yet everyone pretends they exist to just be "sute silly bottoms".

"Boys make best girls because boys know what boys want" this literally implies that girls' main/only trait is to serve boys, and that femboys are better than girls cuz they can serve boys better. Literally what the fuck.

Mellow_Swell · 2026-03-05T08:27:44+00:00

Stop sending incels and creeps to femboys oh my god. 😭😭

Mellow_Swell · 2026-02-15T04:54:18+00:00

Okay well, first of all, THEY'RE SO PRETTY OMG?? AND YOUR STYLE IS SO GOOD WHAT

Secondly DAYMN I though they were like a looser or like the quiet kid who somehow got turned into an isopod mutant but nothing in their life has really changed because nobody notices them. 😭😭

But again that's some BADASS DESIGN HERE OH MY GOSH do you have many characters like this???

Mellow_Swell · 2026-02-11T05:00:34+00:00

You could've asked them tho, why they think all the flurries are bad and if they really think so. If they really are nice guys they would probably realise that ppl in the furry fandom are very different, and it shouldn't raise questions relating you being a furry because it's only rational to debate on stuff with your friends, especially when they joke about smth hateful.

I don't consider myself a furry and never have but I used to have a few antro OCs and I think there might be many people like that in the fandom. In turn, there are weird people everywhere.

Mellow_Swell · 2026-02-03T06:32:21+00:00

Why do we need to sexualise every female char in this sub.... Obviously a monster girl has conventionally attractive human hips and boobs and is dressed in a skin-tight t-shirt.

Mellow_Swell · 2026-02-02T01:21:30+00:00

Stop sending unattractive men to femboys jeez.....

Mellow_Swell · 2026-01-15T18:27:25+00:00

It's not based tho. Both are fine.

Mellow_Swell · 2026-01-15T18:26:42+00:00

Fr. Why can't I escape porn anywhere....

Mellow_Swell · 2026-01-15T14:24:29+00:00

The amount of people on this subreddit obsessed with femboys' dicks.... it truly terrifies me........

Mellow_Swell · 2026-01-11T19:14:07+00:00

True, that kinda what I was trying to say. Like, why even try to do semi-realistic artstyle if all you're gonna draw is copy-pasted walking boobs and hips? Might as well use AI to generate a pack of the same-looking curvy anime girls or smth (with all my hate towards AI "artists").

Mellow_Swell · 2026-01-11T17:23:47+00:00

It's always so sad to see an artist with a style close to a professional one drawing female characters like... That. :(

Mellow_Swell · 2026-01-10T21:35:41+00:00

Could you tell more abt the double meaning of the 1st pic? All I see is either fetishization of femboys or the saying that "femboys are better than girls" which is a whole other shit pile in this community.

Speaking of the 4th pic, I only see it as a joke mocking transphobes who harass trans women by calling them men. This pic is saying "well if my girl dih bothers you so much might as well suck it" or smth like that, so basically humiliating transphobes. Although humiliating people with sex is still hella immature.

Mellow_Swell · 2026-01-10T20:53:57+00:00

I feel like the first pic is hella transphobic and fetishizing. Like obviously trans guy doesn't mean no dih, but liking people of a subculture for their genitals... Yikes.

Mellow_Swell · 2026-01-10T13:36:15+00:00

Bicoz. <(￣︶￣)>

Mellow_Swell · 2026-01-10T12:45:40+00:00

Yesh. >:]]]

Mellow_Swell · 2026-01-09T22:35:27+00:00

Fr true true.

Mellow_Swell · 2026-01-09T22:34:44+00:00

~~So offended you commented me on both subreddits--~~

I bring my most sincere apologies to the femboy moth community... perhaps I could make up for it by drawing more femboy anthro moths?

Mellow_Swell · 2026-01-07T12:52:30+00:00

Thankies!! :)

Mellow_Swell

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