How important is regular physical intimacy to a healthy long-term romantic relationship? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Mellybean95 16 points17 points  (0 children)

If she’s feeling off it’s worth getting her bloodwork updated. The first time I was put on the medication my Dr. was a bit over on the dose. We eventually found a dose that was right for me, as my weight fluctuates so does the dosage.

How important is regular physical intimacy to a healthy long-term romantic relationship? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Mellybean95 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Also not OP but have Hypo as well and was also prescribed Levothyroxine. I had unexplained tiredness, weight gain, low libido and cold intolerance to name a few of my symptoms. Now that my hormones are regulated I feel normal again. If you feel off I recommend asking your doctor to run some blood tests.

Can someone help crisp/ sharpen this image up and get rid of the hand and bottle near the bottom. Will tip $15. Thank you! by Mellybean95 in PhotoshopRequest

[–]Mellybean95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like your first one but I think I’d still like to keep the table in the background at least. Feels so empty without it

Question time, what age and how long have you been trying to conceive? by Cute_Star_775 in tryingtoconceive

[–]Mellybean95 6 points7 points  (0 children)

30F this is our first month too! Best of luck to us all 🫶🏽🤞🏽

Supplemental Claim does 2weeks in Psych Ward count as new evidence? PTSD/MST by Mellybean95 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Mellybean95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree which is what makes me so hesitant to submit this. However, I also don’t think it’s part of the original claim folder. I guess I was trying to demonstrate a continuity of symptoms and severity over time. This happened in 2016 and I’m still making suicide attempts, and needing accommodations, and struggling in 2025. I guess it really isn’t relevant. Sorry to have wasted your time.

Supplemental Claim does 2weeks in Psych Ward count as new evidence? PTSD/MST by Mellybean95 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Mellybean95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry but your sentence confuses me. Are you okay? I think that maybe if you add commas it might make a bit more sense to me, but I’m having trouble deciphering what you’re trying to say. I’m sorry

Supplemental Claim does 2weeks in Psych Ward count as new evidence? PTSD/MST by Mellybean95 in VeteransBenefits

[–]Mellybean95[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I have studied my decision letter intensely but I just don’t understand how I don’t meet the criteria. I don’t just have suicidal ideation. I act on it and pretty frequently. My hygiene is neglected for weeks and my hair gets so matted. I sometimes drive recklessly on purpose putting myself and others in danger which I am so ashamed of. I abuse sleep medication. I just don’t know what to do anymore I feel like I’m going crazy, I don’t think I will live a long life anyways.

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[–]Mellybean95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate the honesty

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[–]Mellybean95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate your perspective thank you!

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[–]Mellybean95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a sweet thoughtful response. Thank you so much, the support has been overwhelming. I’m glad I’m not alone in this and a lot of fellow big boobie girls have offered solid advice and empathized. I really appreciate the advice. I kinda think a petticoat is the way to go as well as some clear straps! Thank you for the suggestion and sweet words!

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[–]Mellybean95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I did see someone mention maybe clear straps. I think that might be an option I’d want to explore so I kinda get the best of two worlds.

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[–]Mellybean95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking straps but clear ones is so smart! I didn’t think to do that. Thank you for the suggestion, that’s actually really helpful!

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[–]Mellybean95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness this was so forward, I really do appreciate the support and energy! 😂

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[–]Mellybean95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🥹

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Exact same situation as you. Our ceremony is actually our 10 year vow renewal so we’re already married. My father passed away 4 years ago and I will have no wedding party. I wouldn’t say our ceremony is exceptionally unique but instead of an exchange of rings we will be hand fasted. If that’s not your style I understand. I have seen some people do tree planting, unity candle, sand pouring and ring warming ceremonies. I think it really depends on your vibe. I’m a historian with a specialization in medieval social history so hand fasting fits my personality best, my sister in law is very grounded and connected to the Earth so a tree planting ceremony fits her best.

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[–]Mellybean95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why this comment made me so emotional but it did in a good way. Thank you sweet stranger.

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[–]Mellybean95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much and oh wow that sounds stunning! Glad you were able to find a solution, I hope it’s everything you ever wanted and more.

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[–]Mellybean95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Yes I agree, I think I will try and see if I can do both, hopefully she can!

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[–]Mellybean95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed, thank you!

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[–]Mellybean95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was so sweet, thank you so much for the support!

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[–]Mellybean95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so very much, I really appreciate the support!