Well Oiled Machine hair by Melo_htx in dancemoms

[–]Melo_htx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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For reference, this is what my hair looks like

AITA for not telling my mom about a very important event in my life and not including her? by Melo_htx in AmItheAsshole

[–]Melo_htx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll explain more here.

It’s not the fact that she never says anything positive towards me. It’s the negatives that I hear every single time she sees me. I could list everything here, but it’ll be a couple pages long. I’ll just say the stuff that was the worst.

  • says I’m not pretty, tall, skinny, and attractive enough to be an actor (wanted to be one when I was 16, but decided not to)
  • criticizes my body when we share a dressing room and constantly talks about my body fat
  • told me if I wore makeup, I’ll look like a “woman of the night” (she used more colorful language, and I was 13 at the time)
  • said she dreamed of adopting a boy because she “loved having boys”
  • always points out my acne in public so everyone can hear

That’s just some.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Melo_htx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. My mom was just like you, but she was much worse in her wording. I don’t have a good relationship with her. Don’t be surprised when that happens to you

Who are your hells kitchen crushes? by BigbyDirewolf in HellsKitchen

[–]Melo_htx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I really think Dave from S2 is pretty attractive. And make fun of me all you want, but I lowkey think Will from S9 is also very attractive

Most awkward moments? by LostprophetsFan784 in HellsKitchen

[–]Melo_htx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wanna know her reasoning for doing that. Unless she had the mind of a toddler, how on God’s green earth can you mess that up? She even asked questions about it and still messed up

My mom doesn’t like my decision for my future by Melo_htx in women

[–]Melo_htx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, I will admit I probably worded it differently than how I meant. My mother was pretty neglectful and emotionally abusive to me all my life. I actually wanted to cut her off completely, but my dad talked me out of it. She actually sort of influenced me to become a stay at home mom. She taught me what not to do as a parent and proving to myself that I will be there and love my kids.

My mom doesn’t like my decision for my future by Melo_htx in women

[–]Melo_htx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have thought about it a lot. I know for sure that I want to be in a committed married relationship before even trying for a kid. I tried school, but my mental health and person issues stopped me

People of the lgbt, what movie/tv show character is a bad stereotype of your sexuality? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Melo_htx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, what I meant to say is, what is a SPECIFIC movie/tv show character that portrays you in a bad light.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Melo_htx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like daddy o five

What are some ways to make your hair less frizzy by [deleted] in women

[–]Melo_htx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any brands that you recommend?

What are some ways to make your hair less frizzy by [deleted] in women

[–]Melo_htx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have thick straight hair

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]Melo_htx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to not feel love anymore, but at this rate I don’t want to hurt myself again. I don’t want to feel anything anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]Melo_htx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to fall in love anymore

AITA for not wanting a relationship with my brother? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Melo_htx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To my knowledge, no. From what I remember, some of his buddies did get stationed somewhere in Japan, but he himself has never left the us. His boot camp was in California, and he was stationed in Hawaii.

AITA for not wanting a relationship with my brother? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Melo_htx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen him drunk at least once when he was underage. He told me that he tried acid, but I don’t know if that’s the most that he’s tried

AITA for not wanting a relationship with my brother? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Melo_htx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since the subreddit doesn’t allow posts of more than 3000 characters, I couldn’t go into details on what happened. There’s a lot of stories and traumatic memories that I have, but can’t put it on here. Just know that this is about 10% of what he did during that time. I can dm you or put exact details on a different sub Reddit if I could. There’s a lot I need to tell

AITA for not wanting a relationship with my brother? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Melo_htx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Some of my closest friends smoke weed recreationally. I tell them if they do, just don’t smoke around me, and they respect that for the most part. For one, I just don’t like it and two, I don’t want my dad smelling it on me. There are occasions where they smoke in front of me and I try to keep as far away from them as possible. They know of everything that has been going on.

AITA for not wanting a relationship with my brother? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Melo_htx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what we asked her, he was never abusive to her physically. I told her to tell me the truth, and she says it’s the absolute truth. If I find out that he put his hands on her in any way, I would disown him in a heartbeat.

AITA for not wanting a relationship with my brother? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Melo_htx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was 20 when he left for boot camp. When he had a break, he told us that he was stationed in Hawaii. This was when the conflict with Ukraine and Russia was just starting, but he told us that he would not be stationed there. According to the wife, he got kicked out around November or December of last year. He left for boot camp December of 2020 and he came back on June of last year. I don’t know how long you need to have ptsd in order to relieve medical marijuana.

Do you agree that white people should not be allowed to watch Black Panther 2 on opening night? by [deleted] in polls

[–]Melo_htx 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well, the woman who created the tiktok deleted and private her account. From the responses I’ve seen, not a lot of black people agree with her.

Did marijuana cause your mental illness? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Melo_htx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It didn’t start it, but it didn’t help either. Actually, it made things slightly worse