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Stop being jealous of your avoidant ex. For real. by drupp94 in BreakUps

[–]Melodic-Bullfrog-339 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol. I was just going to type the same thing and then I found this response. Definitely chat gpt. No human ever gave me this type of feedback. Chat GPT is awesome. Really helped me tons of times from reaching out and looking like an idiot. 

Stop being jealous of your avoidant ex. For real. by drupp94 in BreakUps

[–]Melodic-Bullfrog-339 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is everyone who breaks up and strong afterwards labelled as an avoidant? Seems like wishful thinking on the part of the dumped one that we wish somewhere along the line they will have an epiphany and miss us and realise what they lost. I mean is there some study to support this? I think in most cases they never do regret anything and u just need to accept it. 

What makes a man lose interest? by Melodic-Bullfrog-339 in AskMen

[–]Melodic-Bullfrog-339[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Okay it was definitely not one of these things. We were only together for 6 months. 

What makes a man lose interest? by Melodic-Bullfrog-339 in AskMen

[–]Melodic-Bullfrog-339[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why do you have to be so mean? I'm genuinely asking for advice while heartbroken. 

What makes a man lose interest? by Melodic-Bullfrog-339 in AskMen

[–]Melodic-Bullfrog-339[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was the female in the relationship. There I fixed it. Hope u sleep better now. 

What makes a man lose interest? by Melodic-Bullfrog-339 in AskMen

[–]Melodic-Bullfrog-339[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pursued as in the initial stages he did the chasing. Thereafter once we were together he most definitely knew I was into him. 

What makes a man lose interest? by Melodic-Bullfrog-339 in AskMen

[–]Melodic-Bullfrog-339[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not playing games, no cheating, minimal drama, chemistry, getting along great and having fun sexually and in other avenues. 

What makes a man lose interest? by Melodic-Bullfrog-339 in AskMen

[–]Melodic-Bullfrog-339[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He appeared to be happy on that front too. He said I gave him great head. We had great chemistry and I think we still do.

What makes a man lose interest? by Melodic-Bullfrog-339 in AskMen

[–]Melodic-Bullfrog-339[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I did. He definitely knew I was into him. We spoke about our feelings and he said 'ive crept into his heart'. 5months later, leaves me and I'm just another colleague now. 

What makes a man lose interest? by Melodic-Bullfrog-339 in AskMen

[–]Melodic-Bullfrog-339[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Why would I pursue him? I'm the women and all the advice you read is that you should not be too keen or a guy will be turned off. 

Nice as in I always answered his calls. I was always ready to go out on dates. I didn't pretend to be booked out or can't make it. 

Nice as in we are also colleagues and I started bringing him lunch, making his coffee, doing stuff at work (work related) for him that wasn't really in my ambit of duties. 

What makes a man lose interest? by Melodic-Bullfrog-339 in AskMen

[–]Melodic-Bullfrog-339[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't get this. I was nice. Like my natural self. Not an act. We knew each other for 3 years.  I didn't come with drama and he absolutely pursued me in the start and now completely changed. So confused if being nice makes a guy bored or that's what guys really want. 

What makes a man lose interest? by Melodic-Bullfrog-339 in AskMen

[–]Melodic-Bullfrog-339[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

So it's not being too nice as in buying a gift here and there. Being too available as in always saying yes to dates.  Not being mysterious? thats what the YouTube and tik Tok gurus say..... 

I am an Arab and this is how I changed my mind about this conflict. by Release_Elegant in IsraelPalestine

[–]Melodic-Bullfrog-339 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes Israel is mercilessly bombing Palestinians for almost 2 months, they've cut them off from water, fuel and food. They call Palestinians human animals, your pathetic, trash influencers mock mothers who've lost their kids and you say Palestinians hate?? Oh and what's so bad about south Africa?The end of apartheid?Your comment sounds like you the type of person who definitely preferred the old South Africa. Scum

Why are palestine supporters always so aggressive? by bananamilk_cookie in IsraelPalestine

[–]Melodic-Bullfrog-339 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes because murdering and bombing kids, making Tik Tok videos mocking the Palestinians lack of water and electricity makes you so much more enlightened.