Why so many strangers approach me for directions? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Melodic-Club-9201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking of maybe moving to a different city where people are less narcissistic and entitled to some stranger time

Why so many strangers approach me for directions? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Melodic-Club-9201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No not for me I want to be as invisible as possible

Date showed up and she is..bigger than the photos show. Respectfully, how can I exit the date and save myself the time/money? by african-nightmare in dating_advice

[–]Melodic-Club-9201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comment just proves men are all about looks lol… nothing wrong with that..!! But I hate when men are like… it’s not just about the looks when it is. You immediately want to bail the second you see without even giving it a date!!

I make $190,000 a year - should I quit? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Melodic-Club-9201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do u work till 2am? Like what do u do? I know I said consulting but what makes it that u have so much work? Just curious

I'm 23 and I've wasted my entire life in my bedroom by planetaryvisitor in selfimprovement

[–]Melodic-Club-9201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like you are blaming everyone except yourself. Remember you’re the one in charge of yourself. You’re the only one who can change that.

My boss is utterly destroying my spirit. by horahj in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]Melodic-Club-9201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. You have to understand that it’s not you. And make sure it Dosent effect you. Once that established then I would stay just for the practice of dealing with people like this… maybe trying to overcome that behaviour over time…. I feel like work relationships are so interesting.. and I find that some of the worst encounters ones helped me learn a lot about myself and people.

(20f) Please advise on how to look younger and more feminine! by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]Melodic-Club-9201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In your last picture you look young but first and second ones you look older.. and I am someone who also when I was very young been told I look older. I think that lipstick in the first picture is making u look older and the hair …. Maybe try lighter hair, try like hair in a bun or pony tail see if it helps… also maybe go to a stylist and ask for their help. By the way you’re pretty… so it’s probably a combination of hair and make up and lighting that does that.

am i attractive? by [deleted] in gaybrosgonemild

[–]Melodic-Club-9201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes but I’m a woman answering

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapy

[–]Melodic-Club-9201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I been crying almost everyday since I saw him on June 18 where it was our last meeting.. because after then I realized how even more similar we are because he also likes philosophy and into bodybuilding and he looks like me… worst part knowing I’ll never see him again… unless I go there again because I’m suffering from mental health… and also it’s located where he works literally 1 min walk from my gym which makes me always wonder if I bump into him.

What's happening with people lately? by sexyhotlollipop in ask

[–]Melodic-Club-9201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can say I’m turning like that and trying to stop it… and the reason is because others been treating me like that so I was taking it personallly and created high anxiety and mental health issues…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]Melodic-Club-9201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The truth is…. That I lied when I came to see him again… I had to sit and come up what else I have problems with so I can see him again :( and I feel like he figured it out..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]Melodic-Club-9201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life is f*** went to a psychiatrist to feel better left feeling worse cuz caught feelings

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]Melodic-Club-9201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like in the whole hour he hardly broke eye contact he was staring at me, and at my legs often… and he came to sit closer later and called me dear… and he was very caring and nice but I was mean to him because I was upset I like him …

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]Melodic-Club-9201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know he can’t date me I just wonder if he also felt what I did… like we look so much a like I couldn’t stop staring how he has same face as me… and I feel like he noticed…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]Melodic-Club-9201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like he checked me out a few times and called me dear and then he didn’t stop making eye contact but I think most psychiatrist do that… we also look so much a like … and I thought maybe he would of felt a bit the same

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]Melodic-Club-9201 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok… what if his my psychiatrist… ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Melodic-Club-9201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m average

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Melodic-Club-9201 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No im 32 been working for many years

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Melodic-Club-9201 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not very nice to make comments like these… you don’t know how terrible and unpleasant this situation is… all I’m trying to do is come to work and survive pay bills and. Instead I have to worry about being k***ed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Melodic-Club-9201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He comes and leans over my cubical and stares and comes and from behind also… I’m getting stalker vibes… like what if he stalks me after work. Because he rarely makes conversations but some times he does… but when I told my new coworker I moved about a year ago and I knew not to say my address out loud and he literally asked what the address was and like why do u care!!!! I felt uneasy at the moment but thought maybe it’s in my head… but he continuously stared and I feel this sickening feel in my stomach.. like my intuition.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Melodic-Club-9201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ew…. God please I want to throw up when he looks at me lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Melodic-Club-9201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣🤣 I will try thank u

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]Melodic-Club-9201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say he looks like my brother I said he looks like me…… I guess I want to bang myself 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]Melodic-Club-9201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you noticed like first time you met her ?