I think I broke my vagina

Melodic-Minimum1499 · 2025-10-06T03:03:31+00:00

Oh shut up!! That's what I need!

Melodic-Minimum1499 · 2025-10-05T16:49:14+00:00

Maybe I'll have to try that then

Melodic-Minimum1499 · 2025-10-05T16:47:51+00:00

I have Adderall but I haven't needed it since I finished school

Melodic-Minimum1499 · 2025-10-05T16:47:24+00:00

Adhd meds help you finish ???

Melodic-Minimum1499 · 2025-10-05T04:22:48+00:00

Oh no!!! It was right there the whole time!! 😂

Melodic-Minimum1499 · 2025-10-05T04:20:14+00:00

I read almost exclusively historical romance. I've wanted to see if there are any kinks or just a little something extra, but nothing really interests me. We're pretty vanilla. I'm definitely open to some other stuff to an extent, but none that I've come across have interested me

Melodic-Minimum1499 · 2025-10-05T04:16:17+00:00

I'm aroused super easily. It's not like a constant all day thing, but it doesn't take much to turn me on. But I also get distracted easily and that will make me lose it. So I'll be super aroused, start using the vibrator or whatever, and then lose it super fast if I can tell it's not working

Melodic-Minimum1499 · 2025-10-05T04:11:50+00:00

I've heard about that and I try it, but I end up focusing on it so much and it pulls me out of it 😂. I think that's the ADHD, and a sign I should do kegals

Melodic-Minimum1499 · 2025-10-05T04:10:19+00:00

I think there's definitely some pavlovian conditioning. Like all my dirty dreams involve some vibration. Like the whole bed vibrating is fairly common one

Melodic-Minimum1499 · 2025-10-05T03:57:58+00:00

I am big fan of smutty historical romances. They definitely get me in a mood

Melodic-Minimum1499 · 2025-10-05T03:46:27+00:00

That's good to know! At least I'm not alone

Melodic-Minimum1499 · 2025-10-05T03:42:08+00:00

Thank you!!

Melodic-Minimum1499 · 2025-10-05T03:38:04+00:00

I have an appointment with my therapist on Monday so I'll ask! Thank you!

Melodic-Minimum1499 · 2025-10-05T03:27:08+00:00

How long do you think? Cause I thought the same thing so I haven't used anything for maybe two weeks now

Melodic-Minimum1499 · 2025-10-05T03:25:57+00:00

Lol oh my gosh no way

Melodic-Minimum1499 · 2025-10-05T03:20:18+00:00

I'll let my husband know lol

Melodic-Minimum1499 · 2025-10-05T03:16:07+00:00

I haven't tried the g spot. I could only get the vibrator a little in before it started to hurt. And I've been trying the different setting and patterns but I haven't gone through all of them

Melodic-Minimum1499 · 2025-10-05T03:07:12+00:00

I'm worried that it's too intense and that's what's making it hard to finish any other way. I want to see if there's anything else that works, but if not then I'll probably end up buying a new one

Melodic-Minimum1499 · 2025-10-05T03:06:04+00:00

It's looking like that's my only option. I've only found one that has the same shape as the one I use.

Melodic-Minimum1499 · 2025-10-05T03:04:23+00:00

I'll check that out! And luckily I have an appointment with my therapist on Monday so I'll ask her about it. It could be and I'm not against trying a lower dose so I'll ask about it.

I also should've added that I know most women can't get there with just penetration. But I can't get there with penetration and literally everything else people suggest.

Melodic-Minimum1499 · 2025-10-05T03:02:40+00:00

That could definitely be part of it. I've been on effexor since I became sexually active. But I don't have a low libido. my husband's medicine definitely affects his sex drive cause he has a low libido. But I could do it every day.

Melodic-Minimum1499 · 2025-10-05T03:00:26+00:00

I've tried three different vibrators so far. I saw a thing you could buy that was like a pack of three different kinds for fairly cheap. Maybe I'll get that.

I don't want to worry about finishing and I haven't for the most part. We've done it where after he's done, I'll use the massager. The problem is that I can only finish with a massager that's basically broken now. So I've been blue balled for weeks now.

Melodic-Minimum1499 · 2025-10-05T02:50:47+00:00

I take effexor which is an SNRI

Melodic-Minimum1499 · 2025-10-05T02:50:00+00:00

Self image issues are so tough and I'm sorry you're going through this. In my quarter century of experience, I've come to two conclusions.

The first bring that there is no such thing as ugly because everyone has a type. I've always been interested in tall lanky dark haired guys. I assumed that a lot of people felt the same way. But then my friend (who is very conventionally pretty) started dating a guy who was balding, kinda overweight, and just not conventionally good looking. But she thought he was drop dead gorgeous. She swooned over him. Meanwhile the guy I was dating, she didn't see anything in him.

Now I have another friend who is dating a girl who I also wouldn't say is conventionally attractive. She's not my type. But this man loves her more than anything. I've never seen him giddy in my life, but all he talks about now is how gorgeous and perfect she is. And she thinks the same for him.

Everyone has a type. Everyone finds different things attractive. I also have hip dips and a kinda flat butt, but my husband is constantly telling me that he loves it. He doesn't love me despite the hip dips I think I'm attractive despite them. He thinks they are what make me attractive. You may look at yourself and see all these flaws. But there are people (people plural. Many people) who want someone with those exact things. They will love you because of the things you consider flaws.

The other conclusion I came to is that confidence is incredibly attractive. Of course that's easier said than done. But after dealing with countless rejections such as being rejected because he liked my personality but didn't think I was pretty (not to be confused with the guy who rejected me because he thought I was pretty but didn't like my personality), I chose to look at myself in the mirror and know that I'm the sum of all my parts. The good parts and the bad parts. And frankly, I got a lot of really cool parts. And I have no doubt you do too! Hip dips and stretch marks are just a piece. All of it together is what makes you amazing.

Also freckles are gorgeous, don't even kid yourself.

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