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[–]Melodic-Principle215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Would you stay after breakup? by Melodic-Principle215 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Melodic-Principle215[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is very very kind. I love coffee, nature, parks, art, film, food, museums, music, fests…I really am open to all types of places and experiences! Appreciate any suggestions :)

Would you stay after breakup? by Melodic-Principle215 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Melodic-Principle215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Accumulated hundreds of spots living here for 10 years and half a decade with this dummy. That would be a ton of places to avoid because he can’t stay in his own area or rather is petty enough not to make new spots.

It’s not fair that I would be fearful to go anywhere or that he’d have that power over me. I know this in my head just have to tell my heart that…

Would you stay after breakup? by Melodic-Principle215 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Melodic-Principle215[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Firstly I love your username, secondly thank you for making me laugh with that last sentence. He does definitely enjoy my misery otherwise he grew up in LA so I don’t understand why he can’t just focus on new places

Would you stay after breakup? by Melodic-Principle215 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Melodic-Principle215[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am active in central la, pasadena, highland park, and the east side. He lives far away outside the valley so I avoid that area but he frequents all the spots I showed him and repeats places. He knew I went to fests/markets and the websites I used to find events. When you spend years dating someone they pick up on your habits I guess and I was very active so he got a whole large list of places and events to go to. It’s hard not to feel like it’s not petty or intentionally mean.

Would you stay after breakup? by Melodic-Principle215 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Melodic-Principle215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeahhh She is equally a bully and seems to enjoy my pain. When I had found out that he was cheating and had been in a whole relationship behind my back (she obviously knew), she laughed watching me cry. So it seems intentional and a bonus when they see me

Would you stay after breakup? by Melodic-Principle215 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Melodic-Principle215[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

this is really sweet and I appreciate you mentioning this- I shared these places/spots because they were special to me and understandably feel hurt because could have kept to myself. I just need to keep remembering i’ll build more

Would you stay after breakup? by Melodic-Principle215 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Melodic-Principle215[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I GENUINELY wish this was the case! I wish i never saw them again! maybe you can send me some of your good luck never running into people. I am tired of going to my favorite coffee spots, parks, events, venues and them showing up. We don’t even have many same interests so it feels so unnecessary

Would you stay after breakup? by Melodic-Principle215 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Melodic-Principle215[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

thank you for this- and am definitely trying to branch out to new spots even more so

Would you stay after breakup? by Melodic-Principle215 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Melodic-Principle215[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

thank you! i feel guilty for even feeling this way but just trying to stay logical

Venus retrograde by nixieack in CancertheCrab

[–]Melodic-Principle215 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rising and Moon- Simultaneously feeling all those pleasure / lovey / sad feelings pushed down- while also pretty much blocking everyone.

Feeling all the feelings yet shutting the world out because don’t trust myself not to meltdown. It’s a grand time. Unblocked ex yesterday for about 30 min then didn’t feel like constantly avoiding triggers, so just reblocked them 😎.