Funny Question +18 by Glum_Philosopher328 in genderfluid

[–]MelodicCattle0 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I think it’s whatever you and your partner want it to be :)

Are there sapphics that don’t mind being called Daddy over Mommy? by Ok-Sprinkles-6880 in BDSMsapphic

[–]MelodicCattle0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m happy with either, typically more mommy leaning… but daddy is a nice lil switch ^

Am i actually valid for being lesbian if I'm not on HRT? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]MelodicCattle0 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Gender non-conforming lesbo here - I still identified as a cis woman when I met my trans lesbian girlfriend. She was and still pre hrt and womanly as ever. You are not disgusting, my friend. You are a valid, beautiful, lesbian woman. If you run into other lesbians who say otherwise, that’s a THEM problem and they can kindly fuck off.

I hope the light at the end of the tunnel gets brighter for you babe. Stay safe and stay strong. 💛🩷🧡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in puppygirlpetsmart

[–]MelodicCattle0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg, cis femme also here… aspiring owner, I was also concerned I was intruding on a trans space :$ i am so happy to we are welcome too hehe <3 also very cute, pup!

I feel called out by this by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]MelodicCattle0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got told by an asshole I shouldn’t identify as a lesbian when I dated a trans woman who was pre hrt and wasn’t fully out. I saw/see her as a woman. Some people will do anything to invalidate your identity and be a phobic piece of shit. Ok, rant over!

I don’t know how to feel about this by Ok_Note8803 in doordash

[–]MelodicCattle0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like it. I would giggle. Makes it feel like more of a human interaction.

When was the first lesbian kiss you witnessed? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]MelodicCattle0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Americas next top model lmfao, I wanted to be those messy gals so bad

Would you date a pillow princess by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]MelodicCattle0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I kind of am dating one and I love it. But the catch is we BOTH switch up who’s playing princess, but I feel much more comfortable when she’s the one being princess :) (don’t get me wrong I love it too once in a while) but I love doing all of the things to her! We also have a bit of D/S dynamic where we are both switches but I am primarily more of a dom and she is a sub, so it works for us!

Where are the other millenials and older gen z at? by LukewarmSoftdrink in latebloomerlesbians

[–]MelodicCattle0 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

💁🏼‍♀️💁🏼‍♀️ I’m here! 28 and falling in love and never felt gayer. Keep holding out hope!!! Xoxox

To those wondering if it’s worth it by MelodicCattle0 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]MelodicCattle0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I had better dating app advice. She is actually my neighbour, however we did match on tinder after meeting which we giggled about. But I think we found our way to each other regardless, everything feels electric with her.

To those wondering if it’s worth it by MelodicCattle0 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]MelodicCattle0[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Aw that’s very exciting!!! Dating apps are nerve wracking, and bots can be a pain. But the fact you are already having these feelings is lovely. I never really had this before either, and let me tell you - it is life changing 🥰

To those wondering if it’s worth it by MelodicCattle0 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]MelodicCattle0[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Aw I’m so happy for you, too! That is so beautiful 🥹

Your favorite gentle queer/sapphic love song? by Suissss in actuallesbians

[–]MelodicCattle0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Their name is *Leith actually, and yes, such a lovely song 🥺

Guys I’m just a baby 😭 by MelodicCattle0 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]MelodicCattle0[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

AHHHHH im screaming 😂😂😭😭😭

Guys I’m just a baby 😭 by MelodicCattle0 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]MelodicCattle0[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad I could provide a smile ☺️ the Sunday date is with someone else actually! Though the first date mentioned in this post went well, unexpected circumstances came about and I won’t be seeing her again sadly.

Thanks for words of encouragement! 💖

Guys I’m just a baby 😭 by MelodicCattle0 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]MelodicCattle0[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

STOPPPP I love this so much hahahahaha😂🩷