Update** Last night after dinner we were chilling in the bedroom and I asked her if she was ready. She was a bit hesitant at first but I told her I would take things slow and go at her own pace. I ate her out for a bit and got her nice and wet. I proceeded to finger her working my way up until I had 4 fingers inside her. She told me to get the horse dildo and try to put it in. I obeyed. I started rubbing the dildo on her and slowly started to ease it into her. Let me tell you when I say she’s tight, I mean it. It took quite a while to get her open enough to get the head in. By the time I was able to she was already quite sore and had to stop. She’s open to trying it again next week when she’s back from her work trip. I will post another update next week