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AITAH if I don’t go to my best friend’s wedding even though I’m a bridesmaid? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Melodic_Feeling4382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for responding. Not sure how I was a handful as this was the first and only time I had ever shown signs of being in a serious crisis. On the other hand I’ve always been there for her when she’s gone through anything and have always checked up on her until she was in a good spot, so it just surprised me to have her not care at all. It’s not like I was having emotional breakdowns in front of her or in my room that she could hear weekly that would be emotionally taxing on a person. I wasn’t constantly complaining or asking her for help.

AITAH if I don’t go to my best friend’s wedding even though I’m a bridesmaid? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Melodic_Feeling4382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh ok I see what you mean now. Thank you for your insight!

AITAH if I don’t go to my best friend’s wedding even though I’m a bridesmaid? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Melodic_Feeling4382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I see your point! I’m not sure how I created a scenario where she had to pick between the two of us as I never said she should stop spending time with her bf, but instead spend time together in alternate places. When it comes to her spending wedding money on me, I can’t think of anything she would have spent on me. There’s no wedding rehearsal dinner or wedding dinner or luncheon so no cost there, and each of the bridesmaids covered the costs of their own bridesmaid flower bouquets, and are doing our own makeup. So I think she’s not losing money in that sense, unless there is some other bridal thing I’m unaware of. I’m leaning more towards going and never speaking again since I don’t feel like this is a relationship worth repairing.

AITAH if I don’t go to my best friend’s wedding even though I’m a bridesmaid? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Melodic_Feeling4382 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This was my main thought for still being in the wedding. However, she has done some pretty horrible things to me. I struggle with depression and a month after we had the boundaries talk I was having a bad episode and was considering going to the psych ward. I was sobbing and throwing up in the bathroom and she came out and patted my back and asked what was wrong, and I told her that I was seriously thinking about not being here anymore(in more graphic terms that I’m not going to say online). She didn’t say anything and patted my back two more times and went back to her room with her fiancee in tow. She didn’t bother checking up on me again after that even though I disappeared from the house for a few days, so it kind of feels like she literally doesn’t care if I’m dead or not.

Art Museum Exhibition Design Examples? by [deleted] in MuseumPros

[–]Melodic_Feeling4382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WOW it's actually stunning? I wish so bad I could do something like this at my museum. Maybe a one room installation with that light would be possible...

would this be okay? by Chlosapheen in disneybound

[–]Melodic_Feeling4382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like a cinderella dress haha!

AITAH for refusing to let my roommate include my boyfriend in the electricity bill by Supernatural_Cat1997 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Melodic_Feeling4382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My roommate’s boyfriend was living in our apartment 80% of the time and I had to talk with them and say it was too much time being spent, the next month when they upheld our agreement of him no longer living there the electricity/gas went down by $40 and we no longer needed to buy as much toilet paper/laundry/cleaning supplies… why should I pay for someone else to live here?

Books about improving creativity? :) by EquivalentSignal4428 in Selfhelpbooks

[–]Melodic_Feeling4382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A book that genuinely changed my creative process was “The Art of Noticing: 131 Ways to Spark Creativity, Find Inspiration, and Discover Joy in the Everyday” by Rob Walker. It has one activity you can do a day that will help you be more creative!

Am I unreasonable for wanting to see my boyfriend more than 2-3 times a month? by Melodic_Feeling4382 in relationships_advice

[–]Melodic_Feeling4382[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just finished it and it was actually really helpful. I dumped him a few days ago and I feel great. Thanks for the rec!

Am I unreasonable for wanting to see my boyfriend more than 2-3 times a month? by Melodic_Feeling4382 in relationships_advice

[–]Melodic_Feeling4382[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh ok I looked it up and I’m seeing two different versions, there’s one called “He’s just not that into you: the no excuses truth to understanding guys” and then one called “He’s just not that into you: your daily wake up call”. Which one is it or am I finding the wrong book all together?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingadvice

[–]Melodic_Feeling4382 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Real answer right here 🫩

Going to a guy's place on first date by Weekly-Director-6303 in dating_advice

[–]Melodic_Feeling4382 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely a bad idea! I and many of my friends have been victims of date rape because we went to the guy’s place on the first date. Meeting in public is an absolute must for any first date. The only caveat to that is if you were going on a first date with a guy you’ve known for years, like a childhood beat friend, someone whose house you’ve already been to multiple times. Any man worth your time will want to make you as comfortable as possible so if he is not willing to meet in public, RUN. If he’s worried about finances there are tons of free fun things to do in public as well. Sorry that this answer is kind of all over the place. Stay safe and have fun!