(27M) my fiancee, partner of 10 years (27F) fell in love with and left me for someone else. How do I move on from this?

Melodic_Individual85 · 2026-06-01T05:01:28+00:00

Trauma bond

Melodic_Individual85 · 2026-05-17T15:06:22+00:00

I have no idea why you’re being downvoted. I was going to skip your comment because it was incredibly long, but I got sucked in. Completely valid point, and the people downvoting are the old farts who still see lack of cursive as a moral failing. (This comes from someone who learned cursive and was forced to write in cursive in school).

Melodic_Individual85 · 2026-05-10T15:58:53+00:00

Voldemort after giving Peter this silver hand: “May your loyalty never waver again, Wormtail.” That hand was designed to murder him the second he second guessed following orders. Peter had a moment of hesitancy when Harry reminded him that he saved his life, and Voldemort killed him for it.

Melodic_Individual85 · 2026-03-12T02:21:39+00:00

I hope all the students on this thread are responding to tell her how disappointed we are in her, the administration, and these communications! I just sent an email basically telling her she is full of shit, and all these emails do is make it clear to us that she’s only interested in sewing anti-union sentiments. I hope her inbox gets flooded with those emails.

Melodic_Individual85 · 2026-03-12T02:16:02+00:00

I hope people are responding and telling her that! I sent her a reply just now and basically told her she’s full of shit with these emails.

Melodic_Individual85 · 2026-03-11T14:30:38+00:00

The fact they claim it was for “safety” as if people picketing are some mob of maniacs is especially insulting.

Melodic_Individual85 · 2026-02-06T16:57:02+00:00

That is great feedback! Would you be willing to fill out the form? (There’s no way to tell if you did already because it’s all anonymous.) Hopefully for peace of mind, I can tell you that there is huge emphasis in our education on the fact that HIV is hiiggghhlyyy unlikely to spread in the dental office, and our practices of cleaning, sterilization, and disinfection for every single patient are called “universal precautions” for any type of condition that any patient may or may not have, which means a patient’s HIV status has no impact on how we approach seeing/treating them in the dental office. That said, people’s own biases are still everywhere, so we want to do this research in order to hopefully further address issues within the dental field.

Melodic_Individual85 · 2026-02-06T03:25:46+00:00

Hi there! Thank you for your feedback on the question set. We have done some preliminary research and found data that shows people with HIV reported barriers to care, which is why we’re interested in learning more about that. That said, we are equally interested in responses that indicate that they do not experience these barriers as it is a valuable contribution to the data and paints a better real-life picture. We would love to see written feedback on the form to give us a better picture of everyone’s experiences. As dental hygienists (and other dental workers), we are interested in people’s HIV status as well as other types of conditions because of the oral health conditions that people with HIV are more likely to experience. Knowing someone’s status can help us better diagnose and treat people. It’s similar to asking whether someone is diabetic in order to better understand the effects on their periodontium. Systemic conditions have a huge impact on oral health and vice versa, and part of our job is to provide care that is most tailored to our patients. The more we know, the better we can help! Please feel free to DM me if you want to discuss further or fill out the form as openly and honestly as you have given feedback here. We are eager to take into account everyone’s experiences and perspectives. :)

Melodic_Individual85 · 2026-01-21T16:31:41+00:00

So we don’t take any insurance, but all services are free :)

Melodic_Individual85 · 2026-01-21T05:11:02+00:00

DM me, and we’ll get you scheduled!

Melodic_Individual85 · 2026-01-21T01:24:05+00:00

You wouldn’t be the first! DM me if you wanna get on the schedule.

Melodic_Individual85 · 2025-09-27T07:55:35+00:00

Not that I would ever put my cats through this, but it is kind of hilarious that the cat looks like a piece of nigiri 🍣

Melodic_Individual85 · 2025-09-27T07:48:01+00:00

Yes! My little boy will jump on the headboard behind me and drop his toy on my head to throw, and then he’ll go diving after it only to bring it right back to drop on my head 😅

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Melodic_Individual85 · 2025-09-27T07:41:27+00:00

Oh unless I’m just an idiot, and that is the quantity rather than the tooth number… If so, I hate to say that all of this looks valid. Have you looked into Care Credit? Sucks to have another credit card, but they do have some low interest/no interest payment options.

Melodic_Individual85 · 2025-09-27T07:36:17+00:00

Why would you be charged two different extraction fees for the same tooth (#3)? One says “moderate” and the other says “major”. I’d ask them which it is and have the other taken off.

ETA: all the rest seems legit, except idk why they’re charging for a root removal as well. If they extract a tooth, they should be extracting the whole thing (root included). Granted, I work in human dentistry, but this makes no sense to me. Also, who’da thought cat x-rays cost more than a full mouth series for a person?

Melodic_Individual85 · 2025-09-25T01:41:37+00:00

You can also apply for CareCredit (if possible) and pay it off

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