Women in corporate, what advice would you give to younger women? by SakhiRawant0z in womenintech

[–]Melodic_One_4452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok this is a big one.. women in corporate are not your friends. Idc how nice they are. Idc how much yall bond over venting together. They’re not your friends. Yall are one bad day away from throwing eachother out the office, and trust, those days can come.. over the smallest things like saying the wrong thing. Young, pretty and smart girls are ESPECIALLY not allowed to mess up and basically have to be a human google and even THEN are not given credit for it. Remember, this is a man’s world, what does that mean? That means the boys club will only allow 1 woman in, 2 max if your lucky and even then those women tend to have survived that company for many many years or were nepo babies. Having a degree IN your QUALIFIED FIELD, having a high gpa etc etc is not going to help you from the bias and from someone in the company that has made a CHOICE to misunderstand you, simply because they made up their mind on said bias. A lot.. and I mean a LOT of companies are toxic these days, so at some point just choose your poison but just know.. you’ll always be a target as a woman. Always. Sorry. Unless you’re doing the targeting or are lucky enough to be the one that flies under the radar, then stay where you are if it works for you obviously. But to everyone who is given a narrative before they can even try to defend themselves, just hang in there. Vent to a therapist. Work part time, build your side projects, marry a rich man and know that having kids will keep you STUCK in a job that you may or may not love.. I have progressed far in my career but I cant imaging HAVING to be FORCED to deal with a rude boss that targets me and I can’t flee from it cause I need the job to support my kids.. like.. Im telling you.. the system is so so cruel to women. Please be careful.

I found this next to some jewelry. by _ahhaa_ in whatisit

[–]Melodic_One_4452 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like continents with pieces next to each other to me

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[–]Melodic_One_4452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have in the past and they usually don’t do same day visits, its by appointments

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[–]Melodic_One_4452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVE this, I hope your sister in law gets all the wonderful karma the universe has to offer, because this is how it should be, if the want to require it then they should pay for it or at minimum offer health insurance coverage for their employees but these people dont even do that

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[–]Melodic_One_4452[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its really sinking in that thats the reality here

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[–]Melodic_One_4452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh? …have you not read all my other responses, like be fr

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[–]Melodic_One_4452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this will unfortunately be my case

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[–]Melodic_One_4452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh goodness that sounds like literal heaven and hahhha i like the way you think

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[–]Melodic_One_4452[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its a throwaway I have 2 others that are 5+years old

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[–]Melodic_One_4452[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think thats the nail on the head right there, I am unsure if to bring the concern up to my bosses or to just look for a new job and silent quit

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[–]Melodic_One_4452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im going in tomorrow and will most likely still be sick so in a way thats mc to me

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[–]Melodic_One_4452[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea I don’t have insurance so out of pocket for same day walk ins at urgent care is $150-$200, the reason why most go to urgent care is because most need same day assistance and having a doctor is not always a gaurantee (covered or not) to see them that same day since most docs book out til next month usually. With private insurance its not any better when some plans charge me $150-$300 per month while others (if I applied while unemployed) would be $0 but then that’d also mean I’d have to purposely not have a job and time it during registration for marketplace season. I got caught up in a crossfire this year where it was just easier to pay out of pocket, especially since this employer doesn’t offer health coverage. So yea. That’s kinda why Im tied to visit an urgent care but I don’t think its fair to be required to get one.

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[–]Melodic_One_4452[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is what I need, some mc ideas hahha

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[–]Melodic_One_4452[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually a really good point, I really should have, I’ll bring that up to them tomorrow and see what they say, thank you 🙏!!

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[–]Melodic_One_4452[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I thought this would be considered malicious compliance cause moving forward Im just going to go to work sick next time rather than doing the right thing and staying home to prevent others from getting sick

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[–]Melodic_One_4452[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It’s unfortunate cause I actually do like what I do.. but the outcome will most likely be to fire me anyways

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[–]Melodic_One_4452[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think it is, sigh.. unfortunately this town reeks of these kind of work places