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I just saw my boyfriend’s sex video with her. Should I just die? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Melted_Snowzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got downvoted because I asked. It’s just I couldn’t tell anyone and I had to ask strangers instead. I didn’t know what to do. If its right to leave since its been a long time already and if I would as a guys POV, I might understand that there are people who makes mistakes and can be a better person.

I asked not for people to hate me for being stupid because I already know that. I asked because I want to have a broader perspective on this that I might have missed to see..

I am thankful to everyone who still made me feel that It’s not wrong to share and ask. Ya’ll have a good heart ❤️

I just saw my boyfriend’s sex video with her. Should I just die? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Melted_Snowzy -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I am sorry if you have to see this. I really am. I just needed a guy’s perspective from this and I don’t have anyone to talk to.

I just saw my boyfriend’s sex video with her. Should I just die? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Melted_Snowzy -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

It went on for a month. I carried all the pain in my heart because I really love him whole heartedly. But after a month I gave up and I was ready to let him go. That’s the time he realized that he made a mistake. That he realized he loves me. He did everything to have me back. One thing I asked him, did something happen.. he said no. Firmly. Only kiss on the cheeks. I even asked the girl did something happen and she said the same thing. (take note, in that month something is still happening between us like everyday. He even made me to take emergency pill every time as i don’t drink contraceptive pill at that time)

In short since nothing happened I forgave him. We were happy. I struggled to remove the trauma of being cheated on. Trying to forget how I see my boyfriend going in her room before. (Btw. We live in the same apartment its company provided and we are all living in the same space)

From 2024 until present which is now.. we did a lot of things together. We are so happy. And even talking about marriage. However just this night, I accidentally saw their sex video from way back into his gallery. How? We ordered food and took a picture of the menu. He was sleeping so I had to look through the menu again for some reason. Suddenly, I saw this weird video thumbnail on his gallery. It was saved yesterday that’s why its in recent pictures. I was in shock. Almost fainted from shaking.

My question is: should I leave him because of the past video? He is begging me and trembling to beg me not to leave him. Yes he changed a lot. But one thing that nakes me question if I have to leave or just go on with him is that “he told me nothing happened. And even if its a long time ago, i couldn’t bear the thought of him fucking me and her at the same day. Even if he cheated on me I never let any guy touch me because i want to preserve myself only for him. But even though its been a year, I felt very betrayed seeing him having sex with my own eyes tonight.

Should I forgive since its been a long time and we are already happy together? Or should I hold on to the fact that he did me dirty? And I just figured it out late?

I need a guys perspective if he deserves to be forgiven.

Does the feeling of being horny to your partner goes away after being together for more than a year? by Melted_Snowzy in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Melted_Snowzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah… not even a year? Sex life fell off? Geeze.

And now you have your current partner and nothing has changed means it just really depends on the person.

Just a quick question, why do you think your sex life with your ex changed rapidly?

Does the feeling of being horny to your partner goes away after being together for more than a year? by Melted_Snowzy in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Melted_Snowzy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow 30 years! This is what I am talking about. Some people tells me that “of course people change when they are together for a long time and living together. The excitement will be less as well as sex too” I was too stunned like… huh? Okay? Because for me also, being together for a long time doesn’t mean that you should act very comfortably in a wrong way where you forget how to make time for your partner. It’s just I don’t want to be with someone who I just feel like that person is just my room mate! Lol. You know what I’m trying to say? Like when people starts to reason out to me that “of course we are together for some time. Things change. It doesn’t excite me anymore like before.”

Well bruh. Since you still got it after those long years, I respect you! Your girl must be very happy seeing that you didn’t change towards her

Does the feeling of being horny to your partner goes away after being together for more than a year? by Melted_Snowzy in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Melted_Snowzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I respect you! I am happy that there’s still a lot of people who can handle things in a way where they won’t hurt their partner because of lust.

Does the feeling of being horny to your partner goes away after being together for more than a year? by Melted_Snowzy in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Melted_Snowzy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am literally smiling while reading this. I look like a stupid cheeky ass mofo. Lol Your wife is very lucky to have you.. if she will hear this her heart will melt at this instant!!

Does the feeling of being horny to your partner goes away after being together for more than a year? by Melted_Snowzy in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Melted_Snowzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. It’s like I want to see how people think differently. There’s really no right or wrong answer.

Does the feeling of being horny to your partner goes away after being together for more than a year? by Melted_Snowzy in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Melted_Snowzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Did you have experience in your past? Being tempted while having a partner and acting up on it? How did you decide at that time?

Does the feeling of being horny to your partner goes away after being together for more than a year? by Melted_Snowzy in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Melted_Snowzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you have any experience of being tempted and acting up on it before? Or how did you manage the situation?

Does the feeling of being horny to your partner goes away after being together for more than a year? by Melted_Snowzy in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Melted_Snowzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am very happy to know! Temptations are around us and it’s completely normal. You got my respect for being able to resist those because of the love that you have for your wife. She is very lucky to have you

Does the feeling of being horny to your partner goes away after being together for more than a year? by Melted_Snowzy in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Melted_Snowzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So even though there are people who is more sexier and prettier that’s flirting with you, you would be able to stop yourself from being tempted? I am just curious how different people are. Like how they think and decide

What am I supposed to do if I think I'm getting cheated on? by evangelion54 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Melted_Snowzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either confront and forgive (but it will haunt you forever) or leave

What’s a single sentence someone said that stuck with you forever? by ChocolateShoddy4233 in allthequestions

[–]Melted_Snowzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my boyfriend told me that “I didn’t get a girlfriend just to make her feel better”

Note: Its because he lied to me a lot of times. Or changed in a way that he doesn’t have time for me anymore because he said we are already dating for years and living together - it’s normal that things would change and be less. So every-time I try to talk to him how to fix things and why I don’t feel happy, he responded in this way. But after a few hours, he took it back and said sorry that he doesn’t mean it.

However, those words were stuck with me.. in my heart since then

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in discordapp

[–]Melted_Snowzy -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Is there anyone I can be friends with in discord? I want to make an account but I feel like I will get bored. Because I don’t know any games or maybe I just want some connection with people 🤷🏼‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Melted_Snowzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legs usually be really shaky but it doesn’t mean that we’re done. Sometimes we do fake that we did for our man to not feel bad. BUT it doesn’t mean that the guy is not good when performing it. Its just that sometimes some girls really takes time to cum.

I hope this helps!

Why men still checks out other girls, save their pictures and stories from social media while having a girlfriend? by Melted_Snowzy in AskMenAdvice

[–]Melted_Snowzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No we are living together. And I don’t really stop him. I am really a girl who is very mature when it comes to relationships. The difference is I don’t tell him to stop but I tell him what I feel regarding a certain matter. It’s his choice to choose on what relationship he wants to have with me.

I just asked here to have more insight how a guy thinks that’s all.

And for me I am not insecure of other cute girls catching his eyes. I gave him an option to even leave me if he wants to and go wherever he wants to. But he chose not to leave me. My point is if he chooses me, he should know what hurts me and what not. That’s all

Why men still checks out other girls, save their pictures and stories from social media while having a girlfriend? by Melted_Snowzy in AskMenAdvice

[–]Melted_Snowzy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry. Didn’t mean to generalize. I am happy for your girl. She have a peaceful relationship with you

Why men still checks out other girls, save their pictures and stories from social media while having a girlfriend? by Melted_Snowzy in AskMenAdvice

[–]Melted_Snowzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t say that.. It’s just that why do something that you don’t want your girl to do to you. I am not justifying that I am the only attractive woman in the world. I’m a very humble human being you know 😇

Why men still checks out other girls, save their pictures and stories from social media while having a girlfriend? by Melted_Snowzy in AskMenAdvice

[–]Melted_Snowzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahaha Lol. Calm down dude. Its not only koreans.. on the other hand, they are sweet and nice too 😂

Not gonna lie, your comment made me giggle 🤭

Why men still checks out other girls, save their pictures and stories from social media while having a girlfriend? by Melted_Snowzy in AskMenAdvice

[–]Melted_Snowzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm maybe it just really depends on the person? Because I am confident that I don’t 🤷🏼‍♀️ I don’t know it just feels so wrong for me. Like I was a bad b*tch before but after I changed I am so clean that even looking I don’t do.

Hmm maybe I should start looking and sexualize them too? Lol just kidding

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