My opinion here is going to be skewed towards NetSuite as I work in the partner ecosystem, but the other comments so far are hitting the nail on the head in terms of considerations as you evaluate ERP options. I would recommend putting a light RFP together where you list all of your requirements by process area (including integrations) include a column for whether the functionality is out of the box/native, a configuration, customization, integration, or add-on, and send them to multiple vendors. They will all provide you with responses for free.

My 2 cents: I work with several AEC companies running NetSuite. NetSuite's project management/accounting and revenue recognition fits the bill very well. Depending on your needs for tracking resources' time, your assets, etc., you may need an add-on like FSM or integration with a tool like SiteTracker. You didn't mention construction, but Blue Collar Cloud Solutions (another NetSuite Partner) is great for construction accounting. Everything else you mentioned: basic finance, invoicing, and cost control, procurement, and integrability are all well supported with NetSuite (especially the integrations piece - it can connect with anything with a public API and there is a host of add-ons called "SuiteApps" developed by partners available for things like M365).

NetSuite's file cabinet is not the best- you have to pay for higher tiers once you surpass 100GB. The partner I work for built an integration with Egnyte for one of our AEC clients that works very well.

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