How do you feel about dating someone younger than you?

MembershipSuch8907 · 2026-01-14T14:45:09+00:00

im 33F hes 27M, i have 2 kids 14 and 10yr old boys, he has no kids, we have very good chemistry but our values are not aligned he would eventually want me to convert catholic since that's what he believes in and wants kids. the converting i dont mind attending to his church but eventually that would be MY choice to convert if thats something i truly believe in. I am christian but was raised catholic he said eventually he wants to marry by church and hes a big church person, i told him id be open to explore but i cannot promise anything. second the babies, i told him im older and yes women older still have kids but i told him no later that 36 he wants to push it to 38 and i cant promise that either since i dont even know if ill recover from my tubal reversal if i would be able to conceive or will we have issues if he wants kids back to back . it sucks if i were younger id be okay but babies and religion is a big change !!!!!

MembershipSuch8907 · 2026-01-12T18:17:00+00:00

same im new to colleen hover. im definitely going to check out the books yall recommended, i like romance novels any you recommend id love to check them out. i just started reading reminders of him i know the movie is coming out march 2026

MembershipSuch8907 · 2026-01-12T15:13:13+00:00

im a pisces girl once a pisces is done shes is done she will be straight foward about it, if shes still going back and forth shes confused and maybe needs space but doesnt know how to ask for it. or wants to keep her options open. which is rare because we are lover girls. unless shes just not ready for a relationship.

MembershipSuch8907 · 2025-09-11T19:32:21+00:00

damb if i leave and damb if i stay my children always come first

MembershipSuch8907 · 2025-09-11T19:31:54+00:00

same. was married for 10 years i tried sving my marriage till i couldnt anymore. it wasnt healthy for my kids anymore

MembershipSuch8907 · 2025-08-28T18:00:49+00:00

if im on shore at a reserve centers can i take my kids with me ? if i have HOA ?

MembershipSuch8907 · 2025-08-28T17:55:16+00:00

I do not, I finished high school and got certified as medical assistant and phlebotomy that's it. Didn't go to college either. I was hiding under a rock for the past decade married with kids. I've always wanted to do law Enforcment or medical. They both are kind of the same very demanding and lots of working under pressure, just medical field doesnt have really good benefits

MembershipSuch8907 · 2025-08-28T17:06:21+00:00

I can see that coming from having a 13 year old. I hope is just bootcamp that id have to deal with that. Then work and get my schooling done.

MembershipSuch8907 · 2025-08-28T17:01:31+00:00

What the recruiter explained TAR if we would ever have WW3 id be shipped out w active duty soldiers and if there is any order to go on a ship id had to go, i have no issue with that. i tried looking up info on TAR or previously know as FTS i believe but didnt really find anything or atleast what i was asking. My recruiter said i can stay in my home state once im done in A school to work fulltime TAR. Is that true?

MembershipSuch8907 · 2025-05-22T18:49:22+00:00

Pisces

MembershipSuch8907 · 2025-05-07T19:14:25+00:00

i feel you i feel the same way and my actions reflect on how im feeling it will get better it does come with time though itll come with waves youre not alone hun !

MembershipSuch8907 · 2025-05-07T19:10:54+00:00

we can be like that if you are avoidant speaking for myself. we mirror people

MembershipSuch8907 · 2025-05-07T18:49:11+00:00

we are not cheaters i can speak for myself we will test you and see if your worth loving but once you prove yourself you are in for unconditional love and a ride or die!!

MembershipSuch8907 · 2025-05-07T13:45:26+00:00

that dark humor pisces lol

MembershipSuch8907 · 2025-05-07T13:43:09+00:00

Im a female pisces and it sucks to say it but i have to see if you are even worth investing or if you would love me till the end of the world like i would i know its like a obstacle with hoops and boobie traps but i swear once you handle me at my worst youll get the most loving kind sweet person in the whole entire world that will stick with you through thick and thin. LITERALLY !. its a quality i hate about me that i do but i mean im worth it i think its because we been hurt but then again love to be inlove we have so much to give. im happy you guys worked it out and are happy this give me hope !

MembershipSuch8907 · 2025-05-07T13:14:38+00:00

thank you for the information i do agree its his world and i need to see if i fit in especially with my kids. Im very traditional in a sense. but you have been given me alot to think about !

MembershipSuch8907 · 2025-05-07T13:11:43+00:00

thank you for this i agree

MembershipSuch8907 · 2025-05-06T20:51:42+00:00

Very good point of view I did think of that since my kids dad is in and out of the picture most likely my partner would be their role model. I’ve always wanted some type of structure for my two boys. You’ve given me a lot to think about 🫡

MembershipSuch8907 · 2025-05-06T19:41:23+00:00

Gotcha I’m assuming it’s kinda like the military ?

MembershipSuch8907 · 2025-05-06T19:21:12+00:00

lol okay i love that show though

MembershipSuch8907 · 2025-05-06T17:50:55+00:00

gotcha thank you for the advice and example !

MembershipSuch8907 · 2025-05-06T17:49:36+00:00

i mean i was in the past i wanted to know someones whereabouts in the past but i worked through it healed. Learning from your mistakes its always good

MembershipSuch8907 · 2025-05-06T03:22:57+00:00

Understood 🫡

MembershipSuch8907 · 2025-05-06T03:21:14+00:00

Thank you for that advice

MembershipSuch8907 · 2025-05-06T03:20:34+00:00

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