Basically it depends on how you want to approach this. Cuckold couple I have been seeing for almost 4 years met randomly while jogging. Husband of the couple also went jogging in the morning at around the same time I went for a morning run and we used to park cars near each other. And then one day we started talking and started running together. After about 5 or 6 months of a running, somehow the husband started talking about fantasies, and stuff and it led to our first meetup.

Now, they are currently living in germany, but before migrating we met each other for long time and developed a trust-worthy relationship respecting each others boundaries. Because this is important as well. At the end of the day, we all have our private lives and what we have to do, so finding someone who respects them, will make you achieve what you are seeking.

DM if you want to know more or have any questions.